You meet someone and love begins to
blossom between you both. You begin to
think that finally you are getting along with
him immensely. Your relationship gets
serious and all you can think about is that
your future is going to be great with this
person. Then slowly everyday issues begin to
crop up and you assume that it isn’t
necessary to talk about this right now. Yet
over a period of time, some of the issues
become so big that you can no longer ignore
them anymore and then you finally think of
ways to end your relationship. So, at last
your heart is being crushed by a guy who
you felt could be the one.
Here is a list of 12 foolish things most
women do after a breakup. Just make sure
you don’t make the same mistakes.
1. Spying Him On Social Media: Even after a
break up you keeping looking at the picture
of your ex on social networking sites. And
then you feel completely hurt after he posts
a picture of the new girl that he has started
dating. It is better to stop checking photos of
your ex. It isn’t good to stalk an ex-flame on
social media. If you are looking for ways to
get over him, it better to just unfriend and
delete him from your list of friends and
remember not to look at his page anymore.
Spying on him will only make things worse.
2. Try To Be Friends With Him: Your ex may
be good or a cool person when you were
dating him yet it isn’t the same after a break
up. Real friends talk about their personal
lives with each other; however you can’t talk
about your personal life with your ex as it
would get out of depth. It is not possible to
be friends with your ex as there would be
conflict of interest in your new friendship as
you will not want him to start dating again.
3. Wallowing: Everyone thinks that the
perfect remedy for your heart is to wail your
heart out. However, this isn’t true since it can
definitely take a toll on your life. If you still
feel miserable and still feel stuck in the
crying stage then consider going for therapy
to ease your heart break.
4. Get Drunk: Some women want to share
about how they feel and for that they booze
in order to lube the process. Women think it
is great to get drunk and to vent out their
frustration by texting him. They even think
that they have handled the situation well.
However, in the morning, things are not the
same as you would feel like slapping yourself
when you realise that you have made
yourself look crazy.
5. Check Old Texts And Pictures: You have
saved his old texts and you keep showing it
to your friends and talk about the happy
days you had spent with him. Sadly you
haven’t come to terms with the reality that
those days are over and you need to snap
out of it. Looking back at a past relationship
can only make every one sad and some
women keep analysing what went wrong in
their relationship after their break up. These
are some of the funny things that women do
after break up.
6. Rebound Relationship: You are trying to
fix your broken heart that you end up going
for a rebound relationship. Many women
prefer to rush into new relationship or jump
back into dating so that they don’t have to
feel lonely and miserable. Sadly, replacing
him ASAP can never be a solution.
7. Badmouthing Your Exflame: One of the
12 foolish things that most women do after a
break up is badmouthing their ex. Women
who find it hard to cope with the break up
would start to talk ill about their ex in an
attempt to hurt them as they were wounded
by them . They would try to sidetrack their
feelings yet, this can never make them feel
better or good.
8. Never Keep Him On A Pedestal: Even if
you have got into a new relationship you still
would prefer to compare every guy to your
ex and think that no one can be better than
him or match up to him. The worst foolish
things most women do after a breakup is
trying to put their ex on a pedestal.
9. Vent Your Frustration Or Find An
Emotional Outlet: It is understandable to
feel sad about certain happenings in your
life. But never let everyone know every
emotion that you are going through when
you feel it by proclaiming it on your
Facebook page or on Twitter. Talking about
the sadness in your life and showcasing
these emotions in a public way can only
make you feel like a loser when your friends
or your ex sees these posts as they would
start to judge you on this.
10. Reinvent Herself: Try something
adventurous with their beauty routine.
Sometimes women go for a drastically new
hair cut or full sleeve tattoo or facial piercing
just to reinvent themselves in a new way.
11. Lost Hopes On Love: Just because a past
relationship turned out to be sour some
women give up on love. You are angry, hurt
or humiliated and take yourself out of the
game.
12. Awful Poetry: You are feeling miserable
after being dumped by a guy who you loved
to the skies and now you would want to write
an awful poetry about the pain and
unfortunate rejection that you are going
through. Some women even try to publish it
somewhere on the web so as to make their
ex know about their pain. This is also one of
the 12 foolish things most women do after a
breakup. Drives Around Her Ex’s Abode You
can call this behaviour weird or crazy but
this is certainly one of the funny things that
women do after break up.
Hope I just open someone's eyes this Sundae??
Happy @sundea_everyone
@Nextangel
