1. Not real.
Nice guys are too nice. No one can always
be that nice unless they’re a saint. They are busy being nice instead of being real
and women instinctually don’t trust that. Bad boys
“keep it real.” Nice guys don’t want to upset the apple cart.
2. Respect. No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don’t set boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy doesn’t let a woman walk all
over him or control him.
Women can’t respect a man they can control. No respect
equals no attraction.
3. Predictable. Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they’re attracted to
people who are exciting and a bit unpredictable. Bad boys are always a challenge. Nice guys are never a challenge.
Predictable plus no
excitement plus no challenge equals I prefer a bad boy.
4. Mother Nature. Women are designed to nurture.
However, instead of doing this with children, they often
end up doing it with bad boys. They think their love will save them. Nice guys
rarely need to be saved.
5. Fixer-upper. Nice guys don’t usually need to be fixed. Bad boys usually do, so
they become a project.
Women think if they can “create” the perfect man, he will never leave them. Also, if they’re busy fixing someone else, they don’t have to look at what needs to be fixed in their own lives
6. Sperm wars. Women are designed to procreate with
the strongest possible
genes. Bad boys are sending an unconscious message
that they have great genes, so they’re not afraid of losing the woman by misbehaving. Nice guys are sending a message that they
don’t think their genes are good enough, so they won’t
misbehave.
7. Fear of intimacy. If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she subconsciously knows
she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she can never get close enough to him to have to go there. A nice guy will
eventually want a
commitment, and that’s scary.
8. Low self-esteem: We don’t feel comfortable with
people who treat us better than we treat ourselves. If you don’t think much of
yourself, the bad boy is simply reinforcing your negative belief. A nice guy is treating you in a way you’re
not familiar with.
9. sex. Women feel a nice guy won’t be good in bed.
They sometimes like to be manhandled and think a nice guy won’t be able to take control and get the job done.
A bad boy comes across as being able to deliver, even
though that may not always be the case.
10. Hot. Have you ever seen a bad boy who wasn’t hot?
I’m sure there are a few, but they wouldn’t be able to get away with half the stuff they did if they didn’t look so
good. Meanwhile, when a woman describes someone
as a nice guy, she means, “He’s not hot.”
11. Charm. Nice guys don’t always know what to say and are sometimes at a loss
for words. Bad boys can be very charming and know exactly what women want to
hear. However, they
eventually switch over to being selfish. By the time they reveal their true colors, the woman has fallen for them and has a hard time
letting go.
12. Protection. Historically, men have protected women
— physically and otherwise.
Bad boys give the illusion of being able to protect women, while with nice guys, women aren’t so sure.
Life is about balance. Most men fall into either the bad boy or the nice guy category.
The ideal man is neither, but walks that fine line between
the two. Until men learn how to do this, more often than not, women will choose the bad boy, until they realize that his bad qualities outweigh his good ones.
Source: yourtango.com[hupso]
