3 method to determine a cheating spouse

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[b] Method Two of Three: Digging Deeper and Gathering Evidence [/b] . . . [b] 1 Look out for unusual behavior. , .[/b] When they answer their cell phone, do they often flee somewhere out of earshot or cover the screen when texting? Do they go on work trips or unusual outings with friends and insist on you staying behind? Is their reaction odd or suspicious when you confront them about these outings? They may be trying to evade you in order to keep their affair under wraps. Has your spouse taken up a new hobby or interest? If so, they might have picked up a new interest from their lover. Any sudden change in your spouse's routine or lifestyle could indicate infidelity. [b]*.Write down exactly when your spouse goes to work, goes to the gym, goes for lunch, etc. Call your spouse's place of work when he or she is supposed to be there, and see if he or she picks up. *.Their routine may vary due to the work that your spouse does, so take care to consider other factors when using schedule as an indication of cheating. [/b] [b]2 Act unsuspecting. . .[/b] If your spouse believes you are on to them, they may take extra caution in hiding their affair, making your job of unearthing the truth more difficult. [14]Act cool and natural with your spouse even as you’re gathering evidence and picking up on the signals he or she is unconsciously broadcasting. . , [b] 3 Check the phone. [/b] Check your spouse’s text messages and cell phone calls. You might be able to find text or voicemail messages which indicate they are having an affair. [b]*.Even in the absence of explicit statements revealing an affair, you can use context clues to figure out if one is going on. If you notice a high volume of texts or calls between your spouse and someone else, it could be because they are having an affair. Other indirect evidence of an affair could be references to outings or recreational activities they shared together, but which your spouse didn't share with you. Your spouse may be communicating with their lover through social media, email, or internet chat service. Check his or her profiles for messages which indicate an affair is going on. *.You should also check browser history. If the browser history has been deleted recently, it may indicate your spouse is concealing a recent web session which included viewing their paramour’s social media page. [/b] [b]4 Hire a private eye. [/b] A detective can follow your spouse, track their movements, and take film or video of their interactions over an extended time period. As an unknown third party, the detective can easily document your spouse’s movements to reveal infidelity (or, hopefully, a lack thereof). [b]*.Get a referral for a detective specializing in proving suspected extramarital affairs. *.If you are unable or unwilling to invest the resources into getting a detective, do some digging on your own. Ask neighbors and your spouse’s coworkers about his or her habits. Try to discover if they were seen coming or going at odd hours (especially at times they claimed they were elsewhere), or if they’ve been seen frequently in the company of someone who might be a romantic interest. If you have access to your partner’s cellphone, social media profiles, or email, check them for incriminating messages. [/b]

[b]Method Three of Three: Talking to Your Spouse [/b] [b]1 Be patient. [/b] Your spouse may not be ready to confess that they are having an affair. Recognize that you cannot force them to confess. [19]Often your spouse will deny they are having an affair many times before they confess to actually engaging in one, especially if you do not present them with hard evidence of their infidelity. [b]2 Use a soft approach. [/b] Even though you’re angry and upset about your partner’s infidelity, always be gentle when making inquiries about their habits which may reveal they are having an affair. Adopt a non-accusatory tone of voice and do not yell. Sit when asking them questions and do not stand over them. Do not become aggressive or engage in physical violence. Even if they become angry at you for being “suspicious,” do not respond with anger. Adopt non-threatening body language by keeping your hands in your lap or at your sides. Do not cross your arms or put your hands on your hips when asking probing questions. [b]3 Ask probing questions.[/b] There are many questions you can ask your spouse to discover if they might be engaged in an affair. Instead of asking or accusing them outright, ask questions about their whereabouts or habits to make them accidentally reveal they have lied. One technique involves utilizing the Volatile Conundrum. This means putting the potential cheater in a position where they have to make a snap decision about their behavior or whereabouts. [b]*.For instance, if your partner says he or she was at the batting cage with friends before coming home, you might reply that your friend was at the batting cage as well and reported that it closed early due to a broken water main. Even though this is untrue, your spouse will have to agree or disagree with this version of events, giving you the opportunity to later fact-check his or her rely. *.More general probing questions might explore why your spouse has changed his or her habits, appearance, or schedule. For instance, you might ask: *.“Why have your hours changed at the office?” *.“What made you want to dye your hair?” *.”Why did you decide to lose weight?” *.”Who was on the phone?”[/b] [b]4 Become a lie detector.[/b] If your spouse offers long, overly-complex answers with abundant detail, or fidgets and squirms during the conversation, they may be lying to you. Liars also tend to present stories which are inconsistent or illogical. By asking the same question in different ways over a long period and looking for changes in their explanations, you might be able to determine if your spouse is cheating. For example, you might ask “Why did your work hours change?” Record your partner’s answer surreptitiously, then ask a similar question 7-10 days later, such as “Why are you working so late these days?” Finally, a lying spouse will exhibit microexpressions, very brief (1/25th of a second) facial expressions belying their guilt, fear, or surprise at being suspected of cheating.[/b] [b]5 Ask directly.[/b] If you are still having a hard time determining if your spouse is cheating on you, take a more direct approach. Most will lie, but some will tell the truth. Liars tend to offer long, overly-complex answers, fidget or squirm uneasily, and will insert more interjections like “um” or “ah” into their replies. If your spouse reacts with anger or irritation, they might be lying to you, [b] *.Be honest. If you have information which conclusively establishes that they are having an affair, present it. Do not dance around the subject or suggest indirectly that you suspect they are having an affair. *.There is no perfectly accurate measure for detecting a lie. Everyone has different “tells,” the unique characteristics they display when lying.[/b]

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