When 760 people were asked to define what s*xual satisfaction meant to them, the majority emphasized that it
revolves around mutual pleasure.
The results go on to show that good s*x is
more than just simultaneously climaxing..
So how can you make sure you’re clued in on what she craves?
Follow these fast and easy tips below;
Speak up first: People have hang-ups about
talking about s*x. And women often hesitate
sharing intimate info because they don’t want to be judged b
y what turns them on. So instead of putting her on the spot, break the ice by telling her one of your fantasies.
Initiating the conversation allows her to react without feeling pressured.
Keep it casual: You’re interacting with your girlfriend, not your doctor. So “the talk” doesn’t need to be some serious sit-down
moment. Instead, tell her that you had the
hottest dream about her last night. Inform her of the steamy details, and then gauge her interest in reenacting it.
Be inquisitive: If you want to find out what makes her tick, inquire about any intimate pastimes. For example, if one of her favorite shows is Masters of s*x or she can’t put down her copy of Fifty Shades of Grey, ask why.
Bringing in a third party shifts the attention off of your s*x life, while still providing insight
on what piques her interest.
Stay playful: Between kissing her lips and playing with her hair, turn your conversation into a game of “would you
rather,” says Morse. For example: Would you rather blindfold me, or be blindfolded? Would you rather be on top, or have me control the pace? “By keeping it playful, you can learn a lot about her preferences,” says Morse.
Source: MensHealth [hupso]
