Often times you stay in a relationships knowing it would eventually die off. This happens because you enter into relationships overlooking your partner’s flaws and shortcomings, with hope that things would turn out better in time.
This is simply settling for less than you deserve out of fear of being alone or because you can predict life with this person.
Still wondering what the signs are? Here are 5 things that show your relationship is wrong for you according to Huffington Post relationship experts:
1. You are stuck in a fantasy of who your partner should be rather than looking at who they really are:It’s easy to overlook your partner’s flaws and incompatibilities at the start of a relationship but it’s advisable to stop fantasizing and see your partner for who they are.
2. You and your partner don’t share personal goals that are alike in any way:When you don’t believe in each other’s dreams, it can spell a big problem for your relationship. The strongest relationships have some sort of partnership between both parties involved and if there isn’t, then it’s advisable to take a break or just call it a day.
3. You are with your partner because it’s very convenient and comfortable:You choose to spend the rest of your life with someone simply because you feel it’s the safest for you. Though you know there’s no connection and don’t feel a sense of fulfilment all round.
4. Your partner doesn’t have your best interest at heart:They tend to criticise the tiniest thing you do, and you suddenly feel inadequate because you lack moral support from your partner. You are constantly bullied by them, even in the presence of friends and family members.
5. You feel insecure in a relationship than when you were single:Doubting yourself in a relationship is really unhealthy because you start feeling your self-worth depends on how highly your partner thinks of you. Being in the right relationship does a lot of improvement to your self-confidence and inner satisfaction.
