1. Holidays and nothing else If your husband doesn’t give you gifts on
holidays and anniversaries or even
remember them, that would be a sure
sign he has lost interest. But what if he
gives cards and gifts expressing their
love on holidays and anniversaries and nothing else? What does that mean? It
might not mean anything, but it may
mean he’s fallen out of love. 2. His behavior is fickle Imagine that one day he’s angry saying
he doesn’t want to see you, that he
wishes you would vanish from his life and
the next day he’s embracing you, wanting
to make love. Does this mean that what
he said before wasn’t true? If he doesn’t suffer from bipolar disorder, this behavior
should alert you to the fact that he may
not be in love with you anymore. 3. It’s always you You are always the cause of all problems.
When you try to talk, he says you see
problems that aren’t there. When you
complain that it seems that he does not
love you anymore, he turns it into your
fault. This is usually a sure sign that he is looking for reasons to get out of the
relationship. 4. He doesn’t like you He doesn’t praise you, or notice anything
you make. He criticizes your personality,
your clothes, body, hair, what you eat or
your work. In short, to him you are never
good enough and don’t do anything right.
Even when you do something great, he reminds you what you did wrong. He
doesn’t encourage you to grow.
If you look back on your relationship and
realize this is a pattern that happens
repeatedly, this should be addressed. 5. He doesn’t work at the relationship You ask him to change an annoying
behavior and he continues to do it. You
ask over and over again, and he pretends
not to hear. You ask him something and
he doesn’t respond. It’s always you who
gives, who sacrifices herself for the relationship. You feel sick and tired, and
he seems not to care. This could be the
most obvious sign of a lack of love. When we love someone it is difficult to
see their mistakes, and we can fall into
the trap of justifying everything they do
rather than facing reality. It is very
common for a woman to see this
behavior in another woman’s husband instead of seeing it in her own.
Signs of true love appear on a daily
basis. You know your husband loves you
if he makes you a priority, takes care of
you, and encourages you. When he doesn’t do these things, the
love could be gone. It is up to you —
however painful it may be — to accept it,
take care of yourself and decide what
you will do after that. This article has been translated and
adapted from the original article: 5 sinais
de que seu marido não lhe ama mais
