There are certain men in the
society who find it difficult to
woo a woman or approach her
for the first time. It is
generally believed that only
the good looking guys and the
rich ones have the confidence
to walk up to women and ask
them out.
Although this might be true, it
does not work for every good
looking and handsome guy.
There are some men that find
it hard to walk up to ladies and
tell them what they think about
them. Most times, their
problems are psychological;
some of these guys have
something they are holding on
to. An inadequacy that makes
them feel they are not like
every other guy in the society
and may not have the
opportunity to have all that
they want.
Men like these become shy over
time and find it really hard to
express their feelings to the
women. And to back it up, many
of them might have had a bad
time with ladies who make them
feel terrible about themselves.
This could change their
orientation and make them
recline into their shells.
Find below the various sets of
guys who find it difficult to woo
women:
1. Short guys
Most guys who are short find it
so difficult to walk up to ladies.
It is usually a challenge walking
up to women who are taller than
them to express their feelings.
Some of them however are
confident and could talk to any
lady they want.
Even the short ladies use their
heights as an excuse when
turning them down. Over time,
this becomes an issue as it
affects their taste when it
comes to women.
2. Virgins
Amazingly, there are some men
in the society who have not had
carnal knowledge of a woman’s
body. Men like these may be
outgoing, witty and smart. They
may have girls wrapped around
their fingers but when it
becomes a one on one thing with
them, they become gentle.
They get so lost they start
picking the most ridiculous
topics to discuss when they are
alone in the room with a woman.
They also do not like telling
people about their sexual status
as this might cause them to be
mocked.
3. Guys who are grammatically
mixed up
Another set of guys that find it
so difficult to woo women are
those who are grammatically
twisted. They do not know what
to say to women who are
intelligent and obviously not in
the same class with them.
It is usually a challenge for
these guys as they have to rely
on some of their friends’ help
when it comes to matters like
these. Even when they are given
lines to cram, they end up
messing up the act when they
get there.
4. Introverts
There are some guys who are
naturally timid. They could be
phlegmatic or choleric in nature.
Men like these acts like virgins
and see a task like wooing ladies
as a big deal. They would rather
be friends with the ladies for
as long as possible until the
ladies assume they are in love
and start to date them.
5. Religious guys
Some guys who are active in
fellowships or attend church
regularly could also be unable to
woo women. These guys are
extremely religious and do not
know how to walk up to a woman.
And finally when they summon
the courage to walk up to a
woman, it is as a result of the
ministration of the Holy Spirit.
6. Stingy guys
Some men avoid wooing ladies
because they do not want to
spend. They have come to the
realization that it requires a
reasonable amount of money to
keep a woman in this part of
the world. Men who do not like
spending would rather avoid
approaching women and would
wait for the day they would get
lucky and meet women who
willing to sleep with them for
free.
7. Guys with low self-esteem
There are some guys in the
society who lack confidence.
This has nothing to do with
height. Some guys just do not
know what to expect when they
walk up to women; guys like
these also claim to value their
integrity and would rather
entice women with money or
their wealth.
