A coolvaller seriously needs your advice

EVEN THE BIBLE SAYS, A MAN WILL LEAVE HIS MOTHER AND FATHER AND THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE. THE BIBLE THEN WENT FURTHER TO SAY, WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER LET NO MAN PUT ASSUNDER. SO SORRY TO TELL YOU THE BITTER TRUTH, YOUR WIFE IS THE MOST STUPID HERE NOT HER MUM. TELL HER MUM TO LEAVE YOUR MARRIAGE ALONE OR BETTER STILL TALK TO YOUR FATHER IN LAW TO HELP YOU OUT. DONT USE YOUR POWER ON THEM BECAUSE YOU WILL BE BLAME. IF A MAN TAKES A GOAT TO THE MARKET TO SELL, AFTER SELLING EVERYONE EXPECT THE SELLER TO LEAVE THE ROPE, WHY IS SHE STILL HOLDING THE ROPE ?? CALL YOUR WIFE AND DOWNLOAD SOME SENSE INTO HER MEMORY CARD. THE IDEA OF YOU QUITING YOUR JOB IM PRETTY SURE IT WAS HER MUM THAT DOWNLOADED THAT TO HER MOMORY CARD. IF I MAY ASK, HOW WILL YOU FACE YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES WITHOUT A JOB ??? EVEN WHEN THERE S A JOB THINGS ARE NOT EASY TALKLESS OF WHEN THERE IS NO JOB. * * * * * MAKE THAT WOMAN GET SENSE OOO.

uhmmmmmm...... in a Case like this,we have to call A spade a spade there are some difficult situation which need a peaceful strategy to solve it easily without using any force or violence. While we tackle some problem with force or power for it to be solved. In a Case like this,I'm never in support of your mother-in-law having a say in your relationship life. Is she the head of the family??? Can she provide all the needs in the home??? will she be able to bear the consequences after all what she has caused?? so i advised you not to take the matter lightly with her no matter what.

hmmm diz is a serious issue dat u ve to be patient... but to me if care is not taking... u will loss ur wife to another man coz she believe in her mother than u .... mr never quite ur job becos of a woman still if u quite ur job dat wen her mother will ve full control over ur family coz to me also as a man i prefer u to take my wife away frm me than to take my job coz if u take my job away frm me dat mean u re killing me

because if she continue like this,it can cause a great problem for you and your wife in the neareast future. if using your power has a police will solve the problem,please Do. that will be better.May God guide as you handle this matter. God bless you.AMEN!!!

U̶̲̥̅̊ 'r In a Mess Dat's Gonna B Quite Difficult 2 Get Out Of.. One she has already started d skul so its Gonna b Stupid of U̶̲̥̅̊ 2tell her 2stop.. Two, am Assuring Yu Also d moment she Finishes she is Gonna Leav yu once she starts workin and earnin Better dan yu du.. Left 4me if U̶̲̥̅̊ stil hav d money I'll advice U̶̲̥̅̊ also 4der yor education so she dosnt b higher dan U̶̲̥̅̊ educationally.. Am only thinkin of d Kids I would hav just said U̶̲̥̅̊ shuld move on and let her b wit her mum sinx she has refused 2grow up and know her place as a wife.. Man d decision is Really stil yors 2 make.. If U̶̲̥̅̊ know U̶̲̥̅̊ Trust her 2b faithful and stand by U̶̲̥̅̊ after d skul.. Den U̶̲̥̅̊ can support her

Hmmmmm our people says that if u allow ur third leg to find a wife for u it will not end well. I think u allow ur third leg to find this particular one for u, OR maybe she is not mature for marriage (if so u get a lot of job to do), maybe she is not ur soul-mate. l will not advice u to divorce her now, but I will advice u to employ a marriage counselor to work on both of u, bc is not only u that need advice, she need it too. Then after trying ur best to make her change and she still allow her mother to run her home for her then u can divorce her. I will also advice u to warn ur mother in-law to stay clear from ur family affairs (if u can't do it alone u take ur family members along) though u get ur own decision to make, but decide WISELY. I pray may God grant u d wisdom to make d right decision.

All I've got to say is that you should make a decision that wouldn't hurt the children cos the children are the most important here......and pray to God to give you wisdom to make it.....

Uhmmmmmm....... One thing I always says is that....behind every action..there must be a reason....from what I deduct here...it shows you don't want to hurt neither your wife nor kids...that means divorce is out of this matter... Though you cause all these(allowing your in-law to be ruling your home for you)......some people do says ..we use our mouth to reject what we couldn't eat..... but I'm not going to blame anybody here..the deed has been done..... Before she(your wife) married you and got to extent of giving birth...that seems she love you...Sit her down and let her knew that you wish better for her...if you had the capacity to afford her wishes,you would have does it before she could even split it out. And for you to leave work just to be with her....if you did that...it would be the loss of both of you.....because leaving work to be with her will eventualy turn to many calamity, something might turns out badly finacialy...... Gather some elders and let them follow you to that your in-law(for you to have witness) and there, you should voice out what is hurting you.....those elders would also be of help to it all.....let your in-law knew that enough is enough...you married her daughter because you are able to control your home, you don't need any help from her...she has her own husband and her in-law didn't disturb her, why would she then disturb your home??.... Let your wife realise that you want good for her.....its a matter of discussion...as you want it.....peacefuly it shal goes....... To My Own Knowledge.....Thats just what I tought could be solution..... I'm still novice in term of advice.....

For peace try to seek for Transfer and take ur wife away from ur mother in law, or tell her to live ur house and tell ur wife if she love U she should respect U but if she refuse give her a suspension, she will be wise if she stay at home doing noting and nobody to help her on her need she will learn to stick with U.

Call ur wife and talk sum senses into her after go n get ur kids When ur wife finally come to her senses accept her with d condition of no third party interferring...no reasonable who want to abandon her children for a very long time.

Brother take heart, the worst problem a man can have is that of his family, your wife is not a good woman, she may be thinking her mother want best for her, but not knowing the woman is devil in disguise. Go and collect your children and take them to your family, if not, virus will effect them. Give your wife reasons and forge ahead if she still feel like marrying her mother. Forget her and marry another girl if you feel like

hmmm, this is reali serious... i tink u av to work on being close to ur family nd make ur wife see u ar d head of the house. as fr ur inlaw, God hlp u make ut big. she x gonna respect u wwella wen d money comes

hmmm, this is reali serious... i tink u av to work on being close to ur family nd make ur wife see u ar d head of the house. as fr ur inlaw, God hlp u make it big. she x gonna respect u wwella wen d money comes

In our language we say ''Ise ewhuoro zo meh enwukata ozo meh'' which means ''What peace or patience can do, war or violent or furiousness cannot do it''. That's to say you have to calm and watch the endness, two of them will starting qurrelling and fighting. And she will come and seek forgiveness, that can only be done if you are patience in this situation which dillema is gurranteed. THE HOLY QURAN TOLD US ''THE DAY A LADY GET MARRIED THE DAY HER HEAVEN IS IN HER HUSBAND'S FEET''. Pls be patience and watch the end.