Its a true life experience!
I met this girl around October 2013 and from the onset I told her i wanted a relationship that will lead to marriage. We dated for about 4 months, I proposed to her, she asked for sometime to think about it and around November 2014 she accepted my proposal and we started planning for tradtional marriage which took place in may this year. Two months after we started planning our white wedding, she first told me bfore I start planning for wedding i should budget N800k - N1m and I asked her if I have N500k would it be enough? she said she didn't say so. I asked whether i should cancel the wedding for now and she said it hadn't gotten to that. Well we started planning, I paid for the hall, printed IV cards and sent out. All the purchases nd arrangements we did together; everything was done with her full knowledge, she never said she was pulling out of the marriage but she complained about the environment and I assured her that before the end of the year we'll get a place bt it will be diff running around for the wedding n looking for a house. On the 22nd of august a month to wed, she called me and asked where I was and I told her I was buying drinks for the wedding, she told me that i should call her when i'm thru so as to join me home. Unknown to me she had gone to the house picked up most of her things. When we later met and discussed for about 2hrs n she never mentioned she went and took some things frm the house. I got home n noticed her thins were gone. I called her and she said she forgot 2 tell me. The following day being 23rd, I called her and was asking her wht was goin on; that she was supposed to be around to enable me tidy up the remaining things but she said she wanted 2 remain at her parents place for awhile, she asked were i was and i said i was home and she came over n started complaining again abt the house/environment that she is not getting the excitement as someon about to wed and said she is calling of the wedding. I was devastated, I asked what she wanted me 2 do now after all the arrangements n IV sent out, she didn't say anything n left. I went to her parents n complained to them to see if dey will weigh in but to my surprise i was told to forget the marriage. I'm still in pains as i write this mail and i hope someday i'll find a place in my heart to forgive her for the pain she caused me
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