This happened live and direct in my church. There is this woman in her 40s who usually
sits at the pastor’s office. I noticed she
behaves like someone undergoing mental
deliverance. I remember few times when
church prayer warriors organize special
prayers for her. She was healed yesterday and our pastor was
happy. I am very close to the pastor. When we
were together, in his happy mood he told me
what happened to the woman. The woman was a Deeper Life member (this is
not intended to paint any set of people bad.
This is a real life story. I have to state out all
the facts. Apologies to Deeper Life Christians). She met her man in the same church. They
were both Virgin. Based on Christian doctrine –
No sex before wedding. After wedding, she expected the man to start
making moves, nothing was happening. The
husband is like a serving junior pastor in the
church. She started making the moves. And whenever
she does, the man was always giving
excuses. “I will minister today, I have to prepare my
sermon notes”
“Its a prayer night…I want to be clean before
God”
“Blah blah” The woman could not longer take it. One day,
she closed the door, forced herself on him,
brought out his pinis, tried to arouse it, nothing
happened. That was when the woman started asking
questions. After a lengthy argument, he
confessed that he is impotent. And he has
been keeping it a secret from his wife (A
pastor for that matter). This lady is core believer (You know deeper
Life people na). She decided to stay. No
divorce in Christianity. Once you swore an
oath on the alter, you are in it for life. Based on
her own believe ooooooo. Not mine. Because
some churches may not divorce, but separation is allowed especially when they are
endangering their own lives through fights and
others. She stayed in the marriage for 20 years. Her
younger sister who got married after her now
has 3 kids. She is still single and a virgin. Her ability to bear all this tribulation started
running down. She started having mental
issues. The first one happened, when her sister was
celebrating her daughter’s birthday. They had
a little disagreement and she scattered the
whole party. When they called family meeting
to settle the issue was when she busted out
and told her people “Can you Imagine, I am still a virgin”. It was like film trick to the family. Ever since then, she will be walking on the
street, talking alone. If you ask her a question,
she will be saying something else. To cut the story short, someone brought her to
our church. Where she has been undergoing
reform. My pastor summoned her husband.
As pastor to pastor. He told him “You are a
wicked human being”. “You have sinned
against man, and God”. Its true you have a problem. You are a pastor, spill your problem
out, let the world help you. You kept it secret
and even subjected your woman to a marital
bondage for years. You have wasted her life.
Where do you want her to start from? The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I
am not supporting anyone to engage in
premarital sex, however, you need to find a
way to know your partner during courtship. Its either you marry an impotent or a
sexomaniac. I remember a man that have sex
with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is
coming back from work, his wife will be crying. Ladies Learn!
