advice needed urgently

@Hormortiyor ET @john451 both of u your advice is needed I know u guys have been in similar situation before :s

be there for her na

just be there for her as a brother will be for his Sister and forget the lpve thing least u hurt yourself more thinking where did u go wrong.but help her in every need as u will do for your Sister and God will bless u with a faithfull partner oneday .thanks

Try to make her happy if yu can,,,bt 4get abt love just take her as yur younger sister

@frankkay i second ferami latunde on this, you gat to forget anything like love between the both of you just be there for her like a brother, cause i do not understand why she gut pregnant for another fellow when she claim to love you,, and you guy are even dating within those period

Am not sure if she truly love has claim

i don't even know what to advice. but has they have being saying just be there for her so that she won't do something nasty to hurt herself and the baby

@fb-joshuajohn it is not me o but a FRD which I know he is reading your advice

Hmmmm, I don't know wat to say bcos to me, I think she doesn't love u,,, bcos u said u Hav been dating for 10months and I bliv dat pregnancy is not 11 or 12months, so it means she was not pregnant b4 u met her and which means, she is dating you and at d same time dating d guy dat impregnated her,,,,, am not in support of abortion and if she wants to abort Gud for her, but if she doesnt, Gud for her but don't ever make a mistake of lying to her family or frnds or urs dat u are d one dat impregnated her just bcos u want to be dia for her but u can be advising her and help her wit d little ways u can,,,,, but let her know dat u can't continue dating her,,, she can not eat her cake and also have it

Owk bro @frankkay

my advice though or my POV @frankkay

hmmm! This is Critical case, just follow your mind God will help you

If she wants to terminate the baby let's her go on with it but you can't love her again

@fb-ireoluwaemmanuel thanks v much for the advice it will help alot

If you actually love her you'll stand by her side and make her feel wanted and accepted be the reason why she smile dnt condem her make her open up everything that happened and make her see everything dat happened as a mistake which wnt b repeated and fate may have it that u two find love and that child may be d best thing u ever had as u knw the rejected stone become the corner stone NOTE u dnt choose fall in love u jst fall so deeply that u cnt fathom or comprehend it and u may take her to d alter and say for better for worse

i will advise u b dere 4 her, don't ignore her at all. according 2 ur write-up i could see dat she loves/is attracted 2 u, just dat sumtin z drawin her 2 d oda guy. my advice z dat if u knw u can't cope z beta u opt-out of d relationship but if u knw u can cope u may go on, just as itz stated dat u luv her, nd dat luv pulling d oda wen he/she falls d oda person shuld pull such person up. @sabinto abegi kum give advice

u let to forget about the girl and go on with ur life she has gotten what she wat

hmmm dix a critical situation o 1.She didnt love u as u think becos if she does she wunt be in dix situation 4 it happend within d period of dix r/ship 2. If am 2 advice:jst be dia 4 her becos she want somebdy to share d pain and shame wit 4 everybdy knw u guyz to be lovers jst be dia 4 her and let her realize her mistake bt it is left 4 u to decide if u stil LOVE her THANKS 4rm kelly-kelvin

dis na big issue oo! if nt dat it is nt gud to pay evil wit evil i wud av say u shud live her to carry her cross alone. but as other av said u shud 4get anything like love and took her as ur sister

It's not necessary you grant her request but if the love you have for her is strong enough to stay with her, then, go on. We will understand

Be there for her ke?......no no no it's absurd......am here @adeyeye

Aww! What have I missed in here?

It is very obvious that you are the only one in love here. But realistically, I would say you are a bad lover. I mean 10months and you don't know the type of love that exist between you two. For her to still come to you means that you are her only hope of survival. Since many knew the two of you to be close pals, keep that cool but make her realize her mistake in the most friendly manner. With that,you won't be trapped. but after the delivery, don't ever accept to be a supposed father. Because she might want you to play on with her as her child's father. Be there for her at the moment but do away with the erotic love towards her. Have a Sisterly love towards her.

thanks for the advice @Hormortiyor I know u are speaking from experience :g

@frankkay kukukukukuku as DeVoe when he was in Dominic Lance's body says [b]I don't know[/b]. The question is not what should I do. The question is what do I want?

@frankkay, it wasn't my handwriting oow. Savage reply from @john451

@frankkay, it wasn't my handwriting oow. Savage reply from @john451