BIG ERROR
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A young girl visited her boyfriend few days ago and this guy happens to be my next door neighbour. So reaching yesterday morning been sunday, I started hearing the girl screaming, then I mediately went inside my neighbour's (the guy) room to know what the problem was; and I found out that this guy was seriously beating this girl (his girlfriend) then I had to stop him from beating her further.
To cut the long story short, this morning, to my amazement, I noticed that she was happily chating, laughing and preparing breakfast for this same guy who almost disfigured her face yesterday with blows, this same guy who was shouting at her to leave his house, that she is irritating...the most annoying part is that, she still has bruises and scars inflicted on her face and she still could laugh with this same person who did this and that wasn't the first, second or third time her boyfriend has exhibited such act of brutality on her.
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I know some persons would call this an act of love but I call it ignorance of the highest level. yes it is true that love is forgiveness but everything should have limit.
When someone does something bad for the first time, we call it a mistake. When that person repeats it for the second time, it can never be referred to as a mistake, it is said to be intentional. But I fail to understand why some persons would choose to still remain in a relationship with someone who always inflicts pains on them all in the name of love. How can a guy always use and roughhandle you yet you call that love? That's big error.
I once had a friend who would always lock his girlfriend in a room when ever he was going out, she would remain there until when he returns...not until I talked some sense into her that she had to quit and my friend made me an enemy till today but I don't realy care.
this is same way some young ladies has allowed a guy to reduce their self worth to nothingless and when ever they are around him they see themselves as lower beings to him. They totally give themselves in submission to a guy who is not yet their husband. They flood him with much respect that he doesn't even deserve but these same persons has no respect for their parents who had given birth to them.
My dear sister..why are You happy in bondage? Why have You chosen to be a slave who love her chains?
I know some of you girls would expect me to talk to the guys but I will not because if you don't give a guy so much privilege to treat you like a trash, he can't, he follows the signal you give.
He only remembers you only when he wants to have sex with you yet you are still with him; is it until you die in love that you will quit? Stop seeing yourself as nothing all because of one guy who sees you as nothing. Without him, you can still be happy, you can still be alive and you can still make heaven so he is not your salvation.
I leave you with this ''a word is enough for the wise, so count your teeth with your tongue''
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GOD BLESS YOU.
