My friend Ben was shocked when I proposed to Miss Beautiful, according to him,I was taking things too fast,common man, you've dated this girl for less than six months,do you think you know her to well to want to spend forever with her,he had asked...
guy see you don't have to study a woman like a university course before you know her,you could be with a person for 30 days and know her will enough,and another man could be with his woman for ten years and still not know her,with Beauty,I think I have found my own.i had confidently replied,ok Cy if you say so,am only concerned,he added,I know man,I know,and I am grateful..
..After that conversation, Ben became very supportive in my wedding preparations, everyone was happy,her parent were proud and happy that their only child was becoming a woman,that joy that envelope the parents of the bride to know that their child had honored them by bringing a man home to do the needful was all over her parents,and my parents,oh they couldn't thank God enough that at long last I was getting married,,,don't get it twisted,am not that old,am 32,but my parents had wanted me to get married when I was 28 being an only son, couple with the fact that I immediately got a job after nysc at 26,they felt there was no point wasting time,but I wasn't just ready untill I met Miss Beautiful.....
Left to me,I would have wanted a simple wedding,but that was not to be heard by Miss Beautiful,she wanted a celebrity wedding,she wanted things way beyond my budget,I tried to explain to her that there was life after wedding,we needed to plan for our marriage and not the wedding which was just a day thing,she said never, she had been to her friends weddings and she saw how things went,she had done maid of honor for some of her friends and she had told them hers was going to be the best, anything less of the best would not be attached to her,at first I thought she wasn't serious,but as days went by she maintained her stands.
Ben, Beauty is making the whole wedding plans and preparations so difficult,she wants an extravagant wedding,way above my budget,I really don't know what to do,I had told Ben,what do you mean you don't know what to do,guy this is a family you are trying to build with this lady,you have to make her know and understand you are the head,and should have the final say in decisions like this, see guy,now how you take start this whole thing your home go be las las after wedding ohhhh,come on man,a woman that loves you and wants to build a home with you will think about the future in anything she does,,,,,,Ben you know I love Beauty,I want to make her happy,I don't know how to go about the whole thing,you won't believe her wedding gown is 800k,ehennnnn Ben shouted,guy waiting you go put hand,800 what?,na the gown she go wear the day Jesus go come,come onnn CY no start waiting you no fit finish ohhh,well I actually told her to get something else,that it was just too expensive,this is to mention but few of all the extravagant things she wanted.....well guy I don talk my own,if you get ear hear,na you sabi...
I thought about all Ben had said,and I knew he got some points,I mean I would have to define how my home should be now,else it will keep driving to this direction of doom.i decided I was going to talk to Miss Beautiful one on one calmly,and hope that perhaps she'd listen...
Sweetheart you know coolval stories I love you,and trust me,if I had as much as you are asking,I won't even think twice before giving you your demands,but my darling,I want to be able to take good care of you after the wedding,please let's cut down on our expenses,and focus on our marriage which is forever,I talked and talked and talked,she was mute and calm all through,my words may have fell on the fertile part of her heart,she exhaled and then spoke,ok,no problem,she said,just give me what you have for the wedding and I'd know how to plan she said,,I was very happy and I hugged her beautifully,I made a transfer of 3million naria,and she thanked me,,,
Oh how blessed I am to have such a wonderful lady for a life partner,I thought,I went to bed that night feeling myself and smiling....
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