Hi coolval I have read alot of relationship issues on this platform and I know many have gotten their solution from here. Am presently in a great confusion about a life time decision. I met this lady while I was still serving, i.e 2015. I mean during my NYSC days. I love and cherish her so much and she knows. Immediately after my service, I moved to Abuja to find a greener pasture, after being through hell, I finally got a place with an Estate developer. Money wasn't my problem and I do send my babe money as a nice guy. Her birthday came, I did the necessary things a gentleman will do to please his woman. Fast forward, I lost my job cuz the company was sealed up by EFCC. I started managing my life with the little I saved. My babe started displaying some nasty attitudes like she no longer call unless I call. She now compares me with how other guys are taking good care of their babes. Though I recently got a job with National Open University of Nigeria, and my pay is not too bad. I used my first salary to r