Myself and this particular girl have been dating for quite
sometime (let's say like 2yrs) now. This is someone I do
everything for. I pay for the house she's currently living in,
send her money for her upkeep, paid some of her fees in
school and once in awhile take her on some of my trips within
and outside the country.
I've noticed that most times when I call her in the evenings
she's never with her phone and she doesn't even pick when I
call. I thought maybe she's reading or something. So I don't
usually bother to ask her. At some point I noticed some strange
behaviors in her. This was someone who was never a club
person and all of a sudden she started clubbing and smoking
shisha. I confronted her and she said it was just once but I kept
quiet. So I decided to do a little investigation without her notice.
So I called her one day and a guy picked up and asked who I
was. I ended the call and decided to pay her a surprise visit. As
soon as I entered, I saw a guy on boxers and singlet sitting on
her bed and as soon as she saw me she almost developed high
BP. But I pretended like nothing was happening and told her I
just came to check up on her.
I left her house that in anger. I went straight to the bank the
following week I opened an account for her and closed the
account. I stopped with immediate effect the visa processing I
was doing in her name. Burnt all the clothes I bought for her
from dubai recently and gave all the jewelries I bought for her
too to one of my neighbors. I told the landlord to issue a quit
notice to her in the house she currently stays. I'm supposed to
be renewing the rent by October 17. I'm equally thinking of
coming to remove everything in that same house by the
weekend with some mobile policemen. As for the school fees
she can forget about it. She will have to source for that herself.
Just yesterday she and some of those her useless friends and
family members have been disturbing my phone begging.
Saying I'm taking things too far.