Just as different acts count as cheating and people's’ reasons for cheating are so varied, there are also different levels of cheating.
Being unfaithful in a marriage could be considered worse than cheating in a 2 month
relationship. In a marriage, the couple has made vows and a long- term commitment to each other. Whereas if it
was a short-term relationship it could be said that you got a lucky break since you might not have invested a lot in the
relationship within that time.
But this doesn’t mean that your feelings won’t be hurt.
If there are children in the relationships or marriage it could also mean that there’s more at stake to lose. Each
level has it’s own unique consequences that’s why each situation has to be approached differently.
As the person cheating, being aware of the emotional and psychological damage your actions could have on your partner is important.
You’ll need to acknowledge the hurt you’ve put your partner through and also give
them time to deal and process what has just happened.
The best way to do this is to imagine how you would feel if your partner was the one
cheating on you. Put yourself in their shoes.
As the person being
cheated on, you might feel alone, vulnerable and insecure or enraged and full of a desire to get your own back. Try to hold back from any immediate impulsive actions,
especially if these involve any harm to persons or property!
Having a strong support system can greatly help you deal with your emotions as
well as getting out of the relationship if you and your partner can’t get past your differences.
