In some quarters, guys will say you do
not woo a girl in this current time. And certainly, events have shown
that this true. I was busy professing love, speaking
how much I want this girl and want
her to be mine BUT all I get was
rejection, or indifference. After while I switch to flirting mode
and all seem well with her. Another girl whom I kinda have a
respect for have been acting same
way as well. She wouldn't want to
admit outrightly or accept when the
question is ask. She would prefer I do
not even ask her to date me but to just flow along. Mind you, if I choose this route, I can
easily bolt out--after all, "we were not
dating" or "I never asked you out" Compared to case whereby the
relationship is defined from the onset. So I ask: Do modern day Nigerian
lady prefer not to wooed? Do they
prefer undefined relationship to a
defined one, a case that seem like
flirting?
