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My name is Dayo. I’m a typical Nigerian
guy and I cherish my Fridays a lot; I get
to hang out with the sickest guys every
Friday night and secondly, It’s another
escape from my nagging and boring
wife. I get confused sometimes on
whether she’s my mother or my wife.
Don’t get it twisted; I love her pieces. It
just gets complicated; like I wish we
never got married…marriage has turned
her into something that doesn’t amuse
me. I wish she was still the
adventurous, charming, high spirited
lady I dated for five years.
A lot of people say its unethical for
married guys to be found in a club, but I
wish everyone won’t be too quick to
judge and understand that people look
for fun to run away from their problems;
they just want to breathe, like me.
I forgot to say that I work in Guarantee Trust Bank along Lekki, I love my job and my job loves me, maybe its
because I’m the senior banking officer.Lol.
This particular morning, a lady
breezed into my office. My heart raced
faster because I had not sighted
anything this beautiful in a long while.
She wasn’t the typical slender Barbie, in
fact, she was a bit chubby but her
smile, cuteness and…I was tripped.
“Hi Good morning! Your ATM has
swallowed my card!” She laughed,
unlike a typical customer that would
ram you.
I just tried to form Boss laughter…
“Good morning, You know what? I’d
personally make sure they get it out for
you, but not today. Can you wait till
Monday?” I smiled
“GTB shaaa! OK, can I just drop my
number so you could call me up or just
text when its ready so I don’t come
twice? Please? My name is Nancy” She
blinked her eyes in a funny way.
“Sure” I smiled
We exchanged numbers. What a lucky
Friday!
So it was 10:00pm and I headed to the
club…as usual my friends were chilling
for me. My wife had called a couple of
times, I just ignored it. She knows I’m
never home Friday nights.
“Look at you!” I heard someone say. I raised my head and it was the ATM
lady-Nancy.
“Wow, look at you too!” I was surprised
to see her but I was happy I didn’t have
to wait till Monday to see her again.
“Happy Friday!” She screamed because
of the noise, “Wanna dance?”
I didn’t even have the chance to answer,
she already pulled me to dance floor. I
really suck at dancing but she helped
me; she was a great dancer! I had fun!
At some point we decided to go to a
private area and we talked, ranging from
work, business to personal life. I tried to
hide my ring as much as possible, I
certainly didn’t want this to end now.
“You are a really wonderful lady. You
are so interesting…any guy would want
to be with you all day” I said.
“I wasn’t always like this but I have
learned the hard way that life is just too
short to be sad” she sang
Then her phone rang…
“Hey baby! Yeah I’m at the private
lounge, I’d like you to meet someone…
alright boo” she talked excitedly as
usual.
I was in shock until this tall handsome
man walks up to her and kisses her.
“You were late. Meet Dayo; I met him
this morning, he’s helping with your
ATM I told you got swallowed and Dayo
this is my B to the O-O,” she laughed
“Meet my husband Kolade, we only
come here to dance every fortnight
Friday; away from work, stress and
kids.”
“Wow, a pleasure” I managed to shake
him
Then she stood now excitedly holding
her husband’s arms.
“Why don’t we invite Dayo for Mimi’s
16th birthday tomorrow?” Her husband
said
They have kids too? How long have they
been married and they look like a couple
just dating!
“Silly me, please come for my second
daughter’s 16th tomorrow. It would be
an honor” She brought out an I.V from
her purse.
I began to feel so ashamed of myself…
this was another guy like me, getting it
right with one woman.
I collected the I.V and promised to be
there.
“See you tomorrow! Have you had
something to eat Kolade?” she talked
and dragged her husband along.
They left and I kept staring at the thin
air like I had seen a ghost. They come
just to dance together every fortnight
Fridays? Why didn’t I think of that! Temi
loves to dance…she also likes long
walks, she loves to talk…she loves jazz
music, there’s this vivid picture I have of
me putting her hand on my chest when
we danced at a jazz club on our first
year anniversary…I found myself typing
all the things I knew Temi loved to do on my I pad and I realized I had denied
her of all…I had made her the old
woman she acts.
What the hell was I doing here! I didn’t
even tell my friends goodbye, I walked out of the club into my Jaguar. Temi’s call came through and I picked at first ring. “Temi?” My heart raced
“I know you are not coming home…”
“I am, stay up so we can gist. Been a while” I decided to do everything on that
list and to even add many more for the
rest of my lifetime with her.
“Are you alright?” She was shocked I
suppose
“And I’d like us to go for a birthday
party tomorrow. I want you to meet this
amazing couple”
“You sound different Dayo”
“Maybe I’m different”
“Don’t say it! don’t say it! when you
come we will gist very well” she laughed
She laughed!!! In just that laughter that I
hadn’t heard in a while, she sounded
like the lady I married six years ago…
Dear reader,
I wrote this natural piece just to remind
us that creating memorable moments
with our partner matters. Do you know
that little things are the sweetest things?
Just creating time to gist and laugh with
your partner, having a day in the week
that’s exclusively for you both-No
friends or kids allowed.
Lady, when last have you told your
partner he is so darn hot? Guy! When
last have you told your lady she is the
sweetest thing? When last have you
whispered ‘Thank you’? When last have
you been quick to say ‘I’m sorry’?
Do you even have a clue on what your
partner loves to do?
When you ignore little things, they are
the little pieces of rocks that build up to
become a mountain you can’t easily
break down.
Pay attention to little things, believe that
they work and experience new bliss!
