GO ON, MARRY A BROKE GUY...JUST
DON'T BLAME LOVE
I Was watching a Television program and
the host asked
"Is love enough for marriage"?
Instantly I knew what I thought the answer should be. Of course Love is the
bedrock of everything especially
marriage that is the bla bla
bla......WRONG !
Love is NOT enough for marriage
First of all, most of the marriages out there don't start with love, they start with
advanced attraction. Luckily a lot
transforms into love after the union. But
say love even existed before the union, it
would be expected to guide every action
and decision. Understand, that just because you love a
person, it doesn't mean the person will
love you back. So are you even sure that
what you feel is mutual? Okay, lets
assume it is. You both love each other,
tests will come before , during and after. This love is what you intend to face the
battle with right?
Don't get me wrong, it is a good weapon
but what you need is a good enough
weapon.
You might have heard that if the love is true, you can overcome anything. The
problem is knowing how true the love is
before subjecting it to the test. A lesson
most learn after failing.
Broke guys like myself go about telling
people it's not about the money. I beg you, don't listen to us.
That decision belongs to you and it
needs no influence especially from Mr
Broke himself.
While I believe it is "not all" about the
money, my dear, money is important. I am not saying you shouldn't listen to
him because he is broke, I am saying
"how to make money should be important
to you both".
If he isn't saying anything that makes
sense to you, lend him some. It is not just money that is important,
there's family, health, social compatibility,
and a lot of other things that you need to
consider deeply.
Take your time making the decision
because once you pledge loyalty to a broke marriage, you lose the right to nag
about it.
He may not own the world but sister, he
has got to be able to work something out
with you (that actually works).
While this looks like a tough post for the guys, it actually is a wake up call to us.
(Freebie Bandits, lol)
"These girls ain't loyal"
It won't always be smooth flowing in life
so if a lady wants to leave you now
because she thinks you are broke, brother let her leave. You are someone's
rich man.
Marry someone who can love the worst of
you so that the rest of you is guaranteed
to be like the best of you
Peace
