1. Before you start a relationship with a
lady,
you must think carefully about what you
are
about to do. A relationship is not
something you should rush into or handle lightly.
2.Are you ready for a relationship with her?
Are you emotionally, mentally and
spiritually
mature to meet her needs?
3. Being sexually attracted to her means absolutely nothing. It isn’t a sign of
likeness,
love or any other thing your mind may
come
up with. It may just be your hormones
messing with your mind. A woman is more than her body and her sexuality. She has a
life
which you should be able to blend with. Can
you do that?
4. This lady has a history. Can you handle it?
She has a past. Can you handle it? Can you handle her mistakes, failures and
weaknesses? Can you handle her dreams
without being intimidated and becoming
jealous?
5. She already had a life before she met
you. Can you fit into and help improve her life?
6. Love is commitment. Are you ready to
commit your life to helping her grow and
become all that she can be, by God’s grace?
7. Is she valuable enough for you to devote
a large portion of your life towards the
accomplishment of HER dream? Are you
ready
to pour your resources into making her all
the
Lord plans for her to be? If you are not ready,
don’t just bother.
8. Before you open your mouth to say ‘I love
you’, ask yourself if this is not just a
moment
of ‘emotional madness’. A lady needs much more than ‘I love you’. She needs your
commitment. If you are not ready to make
that commitment that will lead to
marriage,
please leave her alone in peace and stop
wasting her time.
