When I was in the University, I met this fine girl that I
truly love but she said she wasn’t interested in dating
any student at that particular moment because of her
previous bitter experience. Six years later we met
again. Surprisingly, she initiated interest in us having
a relationship and we got along.
It’s a year into our relationship and I’m thinking of
backing out. She’s growing fatter every single day and
she’s becoming too bulky for my liking. I love
slimmer girls. I don’t discriminate but I think I have a
right to the type of person I’d like to spent the rest of
my life with. The problem is that she deeply, truly in
love with me.
I think I should quickly add that every attempt to
encourage her to reduce weight has fallen into her
deaf ears. Besides, She has refused to take my advice
like trying some exercises and particularly, her
craving for junk foods. Sincerely, I’d support her in
everyday humanly possible to help her through the
weight loss if she’s just willing to commit. She says I
should love her the way she is. But then, I loved her
the way she was when me met seven years ago. And
she was just the same a year ago. I mean, If I’d met
her the way she is now seven years ago and now
asking her to change might be unfair, but she was
slim before. What do I do?
