Help Me, My Dad is Using Me to satisfy himself!!!

Seriously i was shocked with her story when she told me, i couldnt give her any advice that why i told her to share it here on coolval, she insisted i help her with my account so that people wont know who actually she was... Pls with a sincere heart help my friend we are about writing our first semester exam she's not getting herself, she's not concentrating at all, pls help her with ur advice. 1 love keep us together.

Hmmmm. This is hilarious. I think you let people. Like ur relatives know wats wrong

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Just report this issue to your relation

I suggest u report this to ur relatives some father's ehn

Uhummm...what kinda pastor is he? Doesn't he know that this is incest and a great sin in the sight of God...saying u don't want his reputation to be runied, how then is he going to stop it? Please report to a close relation and pray to God to forgive ur dad and u also because this act has future repacautions. * * * * Goodluck.

1st tin,pray to God n ask him for forgiveness of ur sin n way to follow. 2nd tin,go to ur relations n report to dem n i dont tink he is a true man of God.

First thing is there any of ur relation u can trust? Cos not all relations are willing to help in this kind of case nd not everyone u can trust with the kind of things happening these days....if u av anyone u can trust then go the a welfare office in ur state to report him.....you are a woman u dnt deserve wat he is puting u thru....forget abt dat skul thing now my dear atleast u av ur ND already save ursef nd ur future....there are NGOs who train ppl with handwork and in this kind of situation pls be very prayerful cos ur dad is nt a man of God at all

Asshhh i feel wounded being molested by ur fada dat calls him self a pastor hw patetic grl pls open up to someone mature nd trustworthy nd make sure for nw d news doesnt get to ur mum cos of her ill health.... Pray to God to see u tru.. Yea openin up, u may end up dropin out cos ur dad may stop payin ur fees nd even chase u out i jst pray ur relative ar good pple hu wuld b able to take u in nd sponsor ur edu sori to say bt dat fada of urs needs to b hanged for God's sake is it nt beter doin it wit an 'ashanti dan ur own daughter hmmm the evil dat men do!!! May God see u tru Amen

body no be firewood o @Besty.........ohhh God i dnt even knw wat to write.....well waitinq 4 my children to talk like @delight and others........so @Victoriouschild nah u dey call register no be t-dak aqain.....#passin by

wey all dis saint nah.....abeq show face............

Yes.... I support u @humblegal

What the hell! Am very sure God didnt call him into ministry, he's not a pastor but devil's messenger. How could he be molesting his own daughter for christ sake! This is hilarious pls, my dear sister let ur family member know what is happening to u before it get out of hand. Most of the fathers needs some screening test, before they becomes a father.

I think you let him suffer...record a video tape and show it to the world but if you know you are enjoying you keep the secret..........you dad is destroy your future little by little oo

My advice for her is to leave her vincinity and move to somewhere far...look for job with your ND CERT and try to continew ur EDU....cuz ur father must have been posesed by ur village Demons...... #Stillremainyouboy #itzMrGrinny

Vhiz iz serious......i dnt rili knw if dis ll work out,present dis mata to ur mum,in anoda dimension...seek 4 her advice,nd hear her out,b4 taking any step

He need ur prayer as well but I fink ur church elders must hear ds and u must have an evidence or else u will just f**k d whole tin up

[IMG]http://i.imgur.com/LLpi1Nz.png[/IMG] wtf

Its so unfortunate,but anyway i believe you can help ur situation.u are in hnd2 and i believe u should be interllectually balanced to help ur financial situation by seeking for a job,ur dad do not need to knw,u can aswell get an accomodation and get away from him.and also seek the help of a human right activist.

Your dad is a jenge pastor, not a real man of God. My dear you can't continue to allow your so-called dad to continue to molest you! My advice to you is to first threaten your so-called dad that you will lick out his dirty secret, he will be forced to let you go, or stand the chance to loose all his members and also be the headlines on all newspapers. Forget about who will sponsor your education only have faith in God, cox he is the helper to the helpless. My dear, you can call me on 08060167965 or e-mail me on [email protected]. if you need my assistance. I reside at airport road warri delta state if you you want to see me in person.

May almighty God change his mind,cos i dnt even kw wat 2 said...

A man of God molesting his own daughter? Hmmmmmm! Well, I am not to judge anybody. Dearest! I want you to know that that promise he forced you to make to him on his altar holds no water. It's useless and doesn't have any hold on you. It cannot harm you if you go against it. Another fact I want to establish to you is that you cannot get over this abuse without damaging your Dad's reputation (that's if he even has one). On your own, you cannot withstand and overcome him. People must be involved and I guess that's what you calls tarnishing his image. Dear He's already destroying your life and If tarnishing his image and reputation will rescue you from dis damnation, it's not too much a sacrifice for your freedom. Ensure that you have an evidence one of his molestation either in voice record or video. This will give you an edge over his denial. If the church elders wields a certain amount of power and control in the church, report to them. Also report to a trusted family relative. If those didn't work, visit all these human rights activist and lay your complaints. I'm certain they'd be glad to help. NTA News line would even be another excellent place to run to for help. My dear! Prayer can solve even the biggest of problems. You'd need strength to win these battle bcos challenges will come along the line. Pray without ceasing in this period if not for anything but for strength to fight to the end. He shall see you through dear

am totally speechless am devastated

@hardehbaryor112 yes o na my new work be this o because me dey collect money

My question is ..So a man can actually be aroused by his own blood? Assuming I saw this on another site,I would have concluded its one of the Nollywood dramas. Sister, @21 years you are no longer a kid.my younger sis that just got married last month is barely 19,in her 2nd year in one of the Federal Unis in the East.Now she is going to handle her home all by herself. You gave your dad the room to molest you coz if you had given him a sound slap the first time he tried it,he would have retraced his steps. My candid advice, 1.Look for that person your Dad Reverends soo much, Someone he can't afford to disobey,Threaten him by trying to tell the person.Or even his Church members. 2.Report to any of your relations you can confide in if possible the oldest man,et him/her call your dad with you and sort out the matter coz this is a Taboo in my own side. NOTE: Do not involve the whole extended family coz if the matter escalates,it will definently dent your image and that of your father 3.Fast and Pray for your dad,he has been possessed by forces greater than him. 4.Try to focus on your education coz that will be a kind of liberation to you in future and remove the mentality of Without my Dad,I can't make it. • • • [b]If this continues,you will one day loose your virginity to him[/b] [b]Bishop Says So[/b]

Waooo this is serious ... Pastor indeed

This matter tie rapper o...u ave to tell ur mum what z going on and u got to expose that dad of urs..u are his blood for God sake..if he z truely a real man of God,he will forget abt love making and sexual satisfaction..chai (ihe emebigo)things ave spoil....there z God o

it is demonic believe it or not your father is using you to develop his church through diabolical means.that was What He is using your mum to do and your mum is dying. pray to God and. seek for help both in Christ and in child abuse NGO. goodluck

Jus passin

uhmm,,m confused,,END TIME!!! sowie dear 1st thing go bk 2 ur creator 2 guide u n favours u in d sight of ur relatives so dt dey wl bliv ya story den mayb u shld juz lif d aoux 2 ur mum's place 4 a while

If this story is real as u said then u sure amaze me by saying u don't wnt to ruin ur father reputation by speaking out,wat reputation are u even tlking abt in the first place if I may ask,the reputation of ruining ur life? Or dat of other girls u may nt be aware of? Please,am nt judging u or ur father but in this life we all av the right to choose from right nd wrong. The first thing u should av done since the onset of this is to wlk up to ur God,confess ur sins nd pray to him to help u out cos u av no other ways but its nt yet late to do dat. Trust me dear,we can all give u various advice but the confidence nd ability to do something abt this lies in ur ability to pray nd tlk to ur creator nd u will be surprise hw things will fall in place. Pray for the courage to do wat is right nd stand up to ur dad,he may be ur dad who gave birth to u but by him engaging in dat sort of thing wit u make him lose his right to be call a father. Prayer solve all things nd God neva forsake us no matter hw much of a sinner we are,he still listen nd answer.

I feel your pain my sis but you'll have to secure your future..Yea you don't want to spoil his reputation in front of people but what of infront of God,his reputation is already spoilt even before he did it...Weigh it thoroughly is it his REPUTATION that matters or your FUTURE... You need to pray fervently to God to send out devilish spirit in him..He's a man of God and that's what people believe and he brought you up in a christianic way...Is there any place in the bible that says because you don't want to cheat your wife you should be molesting your daughter?....no This matter has past the matter of telling someone who is matured or who you trusted,if you tell such person will he/she stop him.. no.. By not telling on him you're not helping him at all you're encouraging him...go to CAN explain what's happening to them and I believe they're ready to help you as long as you're ready to help yourself..they'll foot your education bill and you'll gain freedom for yourself... Once Again is it his REPUTATION that matters or your FUTURE.. Charliebryn speaks..... Peace be on to you..

@drsolem I support ur opinion, u need a prove b4 reporting 2 any1 especially since u said he is a pastor. Erm who said am his child here?

@Victoriouschild who dey give you money....??...so mak i quickly join you because i need money.....

@Delight nah me o....or shey i be ur mate...?? U fit ask @Victoriouschild qon sef.....lol..........@drsolem she can't do that or ave u forqottten that he's a pastor nd her father,he is the one takinq responsibility on her.......i just pray her mother should quickly recovery because it's an abomination....pastor!pastor!!pastor!!!....nah all this pastor qo dey preach all dis kind stuff dat is bad......i juba for u oo#passin by#wavinq hand

Afo shey if the man forget bfor say hin be pastor be hin dey sample hin own pikin abi See make the girl report quick .because if the thing link out it self na d girl then shift the blame put oo

Hmmmm....whut z dis world really turning into? A pastor taking advantage of her daughter for his selfish satisfaction in the name of not wanting to ruin his marriage......AAH..WONDERS SHALL NEVER CEASE TO HAPPEN... My dear my advice for you is to seek God in prayers...prayers made with a concrete ad broken spirit the lord does nt forsake......... Report him t his relatives......he z nt even worthy to bear that name PASTOR,mtcheeewn i feel like smatching his head now.

@hardehbaryor112 you too like money but my payment na thank you

Firstly Pray To God About The Matter... And Inform The Matter To The Whole Member Of Your Dad Relatives

Hmmm seriously i am grateful 4 all advices u've given i know she is also following. God bless us all. Thanks for the love.

firstly first brake the convenant btw u nd ur dad by prayer

Speechless. Pastor for that matter.. Dat's was so ridiculous. How can a pastor molest nd maltreat his child. In as much he can did this to you.. How much his church members. My advice for you is to to get get closer to God and pray fervently, I know God will fight for you dear.

D best tin is to report to ur close relative,pray to God to lead u thru....u can also threating to shout wenever he want to molest u by dat he wil not wnt to create a public scene....also avoid being wit him alone

I have 3 advice 4 u: 1: In this world we are right now, learn how to be 'INDEPENDENT' cos dats the reason why u are in this mess 2:Learn how to be strong and don't be a weakling, go out there and look for a job to take care of urself, u are a HND student 4 christ sake, stop doing evil cos of the fear of dropping out from skul FINALLY: Have u ever realised or imagined that oneday he might ve sex with u and get u pregnant? As a pastor's daughter, u knw gud, educated and wise people in ur church and even ur relatives, go and explain the whole thing to them and i fully believe they will help u, SORRY TO SAY THIS BUT UR FATHER IS NOT A MAN OF GOD, SO BETHER EXPOSE HIM AND SAVE THE INNOCENT SOULS HE IS DECEIVING

Hmmm everyone has said it... Infact..... I love the response... So quick and fast.... . . . @geeadore tell you friend this . . Her father isn't a real pastor.... She shouldn't be afraid if his fake ministry is destroyed, if she needs help.. She should go to a women welfare office around her area.... They will help her with her studies and give he father the punishment he deserves.... Either he had sex with her or not, what he is doing is woman abuse... For heaven sake how old is she? She need to wake up and know this isn't a joking matter... You know what.... Add me up on whatsapp I will help her to fight this out.... I will send my number to you via message, guild and show her each step to take... But if she know any woman welfare around, she should run to them for help as soon as possible... She would go to school, they will pay her school fees and she will live a better life, her father will definitely eat from his coin because he doesn't even respect God....

pray 2 God,expose him 2 ur family and also keep distance from him 4 a short period of time.

Instead of him to pray that the spirit of Konji shuld leave him..... he chose to molest his daughter..... Aru!!!! **Now I bliv that VEINs knows no same blood** Well my dear....If I say you should fight for ur right,its gonna be difficult for you. To hell wit his reputation threaten to disgrace him in front of the congregation If there's no change in him then After telling most of ur relatives,Tel his church council. ***His reining ur future***the consequences is higher than his reputation. pls

Mehn, Vhiz is damn serious! ..I advice you begin to tactically distant yourself from him.. Cos if u dnt, u're certainly going to lose ya virginity to ya own father someday. I want to also assure u that that promise you made to him if u go against it, means nothing. You need to talk to someone abt these whole stuff.. Ya mum would av been the best option, but since she's sick ( i wish her quick recovery), please get someone older than ya dad and very close to you prefarably a lady and confide in. Finally, please take this case to God in prayer. Cos i beleive there's nothing He cant do. . It is well but Hmmm What a Father!!

hmmmmm! ur dad z a devil in sheeps clothing

The solution i know is asking God for direction and confiding in someone u know can understand u, or else one day he might take ur virginity and have sex wit u. that might damage ur action towards life now and forever, allow him know dat its a sin b4 God and pray dat ur mum heals faster. u can also discuss wit mi if u feel u need someone to talk to. God bless u

abeg it is better u start telling people if his ministry 1 scatter make it scatter d tin wey e dey practice wit u where e see am 4 bible so my sister d early u start telling people d better b4 d silly man destroy u..

@Victoriouschild i like money o....abi who knw lyk money...?......so miss reqister caller start invitinq me too if any story buzz up or advice.....so that i can pay you....lol #passin by

My dear just fap his money nd runaway totally.or report to ur mum relatives

such is life

[b]Reportinq it to ur relations will not do this if u can't back it up with prove(s). Besides, I am very sure he 'll hastely deny it to say it was a false alliqation on him if u report without any prove. So, I'll advise u look for a prove by recordinq his statements while u try lure him to say somethinq to ur own advantaqe without his notice or whatever u think its deem fit 'll do as a prove for ur innocent and u should be more discret about ur dealinqs to prove ur innocent else the rest qo be story4the qods oo... Anyways, sorry to hear that sha![/b]

[color =maroon]This is so sad. abeg who is to be trusted in this world? u contribute to ur problem yourself, you should av asked for help when the first time he molested you. how are u sure he has nt slept with most woman in ur church, yet he tag himself man of god. reveal his secret to all church member, once u get a concrete evidence. if he decide not to sponspor ur education, god will surely make a way for u...[/color]

Candid speaking......ur dad us not a real pastor! Sorry 4 using that statement, u want to go to Hell just to satisfy ur fada? Hav u not read the Account of Joseph and Portiphat's wife? Mayb u've not hrd wat d Bible say, that I will not leave nor forsake u? Or when one door closes anoda one opens? Miss, u av relatives, ur mum's ppl n ur dad's ppl too, relay ur problems to them, stop allowing ur dad to commit immorality with u, it's an abomination in God's side!!!

Wait....U dnt wanna lose ur V bt he alwayz work his handz/finger in ur Hpot. My dear u aint a V again. Again ma advice for u z dat u shuld relate dz prblm 2 ur extended family.

im sorry to say this..but your father is not a man of God like he claimes he his

That ministry has been destroyed already.... The only way out is to leave