These days marriage seen to be a calling for some, a treasure for some, And a do or die for some. Especially for some ladies. Many are beginning to loose themselves their esteem, worth value and purpose because of marriage... She cooks, washes, cleans and do all the domestic chores for him,and pet him when he is angry over his flirtous lifestyle. I read a statement where ladies watches girls troop in and out of her boyfriends house and ignores it.and even when they call she gives him his phone and tell him " my second is calling" laughs... Has it gotten to these? All because u dont want to loose a man or because want to get married this year. DESPERATION has turn you to a fool, DESPERATION has made u loose taste, value, essence and real beauty. DESPERATION has made u see wrong as right, and abnormals as normal. U av no future dreams or plans anymore because u av based all on up man. All that matter to you is that a man a relationship and marriage. U give him all the benefit of a husband, what will ur husband enjoy he you give our everytiing? What will u even enjoy in a marriage that has nothing new to show or bring? Desperation will only keep misleading u and put u in a place where u are not purpose to be. Respect yourself, dont tolerate what u is evil and abnormal, say on to wrongs in your relationship. Carry and treat yourself well wit some respect. Stop showing your cooking and washing skills for a boyfriend on a daily basis. He u want to do it. Do it when he is sick or on a special occassion or make it a suprise, make him desire and value who u are, keep something out of the picture of relationship for the future of marriage. A man can pretend he likes all you do, but truth is deep down he will always prefer the woman who holds back some things and make him feel the worth of finding a good woman. Don't get desperate and through caution to the winds. Respect yourele so your man can also accord u some respect. Marriage offer not love only but respect also. Relationship are time to build mutual friendship study yourselves and know ur likes and dislikes. Give to each other the little you can, build a foundation of friendship. Foot turn relationship into marriage everything has it time and process take things easy and put yourself av the top and lady everyone want to be like. Work get busy wit other things academic, social activites. Personal growth etc find ur bearing in life as a woman and identity areas. As a woman dont allow a man define you or give u a life before u start living. Be a plus not a minus and a good self esteem dignity and respect for urself. Say on to being DESPERATE....
