image
::::: I discovered telling guys I love them first is a very Big Mistake ::::

::::: I discovered telling guys I love them first is a very Big Mistake ::::

By THANKMIC in 12 Oct 2015 | 16:18
share
THANKMIC THANKMIC

THANKMIC THANKMIC

 Student
Faithful User
Forums Best User
Forum Loyal User
Posts: 91
Member since: 3 Apr 2015
Daily Heart2Heart Evening_post with Thankmic

::: I discovered telling Guys I Love them first is a very Big Mistake ::::

I'm a 23yrs old copper, I've mostly been unlucky with men. I have the class of men i usually fall in love with. My problem has always been that once i have studied a guy and he falls into the class of my taste(am not really that type that falls for money or flashy things) i instantly fall in love or lust and then after some time i tell the guy how i feel mostly through...

text messages. I discovered telling guys i love them first is a very big mistake so i vowed to myself to stop. 2years ago When i was doing my IT i met this young doctor, he was my kind and as usual i started tripping. I didn't tell him i love him but after some time i added him on Facebook, got his mobile and we started talking. But then he already had a fiancee, he just...

kept me as a side chick, i was even worse than a side chick becos he pretends as if he doesn't know me when his Friends are there or when we are at work. I was heart broken but gradually i was able to move on. He never stopped calling or chatting through whatsapp. I  blocked him severally both phone calls, Facebook n whatsapp but after sometime i unblock...

him and he starts disturbing me. All he wants is for me to come and spend time with him we kiss, smoosh, romance etc but we have never made love. Last year i met this guy, he was almost my class just that he did not go to university, he is a fashion designer in abuja. He loves me too much, am not exagerating but he can die for me. But the problem is that he is...

not a graduate, he dress sense Sometimes is not just it. He lives in a single room, he's not social. He loves me and WANT to marry me. I dont really love him and am scared if i marry him people would laugh at me that is this what I finally ended up with. Also about 2years
ago i prayed to God one night, i told him i...

was tired of heartbreaks and that the Next man that should come my way should be the husband he has destined for me. Months after that night was when this young man came. My doctor boyfriend is still here, i still love him even though he hasnt really changed his old way, he has also broken up wit his fiancee. Doctor is...

still nt proposing marriage and the fashion designer proposing marriage is someone i don't love.

What should i do, am seriously in love with the doctor.

Please advice me.

The End.

*Kindly COMMENT on this Post please.
12 Oct 2015 | 16:18
0 Likes
 
 
come ehn,am not sure d doctor wants u for a wife and for d other guy who isn't a graduate I guess u should consider him since u said u re not d type after money or flashy things. its better someone loves u Dan to love someone who doesn't care if u exist. if u are a bit financially buoyant or connected I think u could help d poor guy get a good job. dat doctor na no go area or better still forget dem both. u re still young to be soo worried abt marriage don't make it seem like u are in a haste to settle down wit any available guy.
12 Oct 2015 | 16:31
0 Likes
First of all, yeah telling a guy ur feelings for him first is really nt nice cos if eventually u guys start dating, he wnt value u much cos he nos dat no matter wat he does u wil 4eva b his. He might even rub it in ur face sometimes. Secondly, am nt advising u to settle down with someone u dnt luv bt neither will i advise u to settle 4 sumone wu uses u as a smooshing machine(you dnt even no weda he jez wants to use u pending d time he wil get anoda gf). So dear, follow ur heart and if wit time u get to luv d designer, true luv does nt consider class or level.
12 Oct 2015 | 16:36
0 Likes
Someone class u as wife materials nd another class iu as bitch cux d choice is urs must u marry a graduate? Or is it bcux u're graduate nd ur husband should b also cux u're on a long tingggggggggggggggggg oooooooooooooooooooooooooo
12 Oct 2015 | 16:41
0 Likes
My dear sister it either u stay wit d fashion designer or u let d two go cos d doctor is no go area he his not ready to marry u just forget him
12 Oct 2015 | 17:41
0 Likes
Is It All Abt Marriage Or The Person's Educational Qualification Dats Ur Problem Nw Young Lady? Listen, No One Rushes God Into Doing Wat He Sees Best 4 U. Buh Many Mistake We Mortals Xpecially D Ladies Do Make Is Giving God Conditions On Wat U Want And Dats Jux So Abysmally Wrng.. As It Is Nw, Ur A Confused Soul. Jux Let Go All D Men In Ur Life 4 Nw And Focus On Ur Life Endeavours, Marriage Aint A Do Or Die Fin Lady, Wen Its Gods Tym He'll Certainly Direct D Ryt Man 2 U, Dnt Try 2 Control D Wheel Of Ur Life, Allow God Take Charge Pls. Ah Wont Say Follow Ur Mind Buh Rada I'd Say Be Focus On God's Plan N Purpose Concerning You, Its Well Young Lady.
12 Oct 2015 | 18:48
0 Likes
Only your heart can decide that, u said u prayed and days later u got the fashion designer and u are still asking if u should marry him? Na wa for you oo follow ur mind sha
12 Oct 2015 | 19:00
0 Likes
.
12 Oct 2015 | 19:06
0 Likes
If afta d numeroUs advice given by dis exceptional ladies n gents u stil don't know wot to do, kindly consult a STRONG BABA :-)
12 Oct 2015 | 19:14
0 Likes
@jummybabe @adorabledaobi95 som1 said she did not love him(fashion designer) u cnt ask him to stick with him,nd also come to tnk of it how can a literate marry an illitrate do u tnk d marriage will work,u knw as a literate u ar expose to some tnx lik if ur iliterate spouse do some tin u may get pissed off easily,how do u want d marriage to last,this thin z a mata of choise,though am nt advisin she sud go 4 d doctor wu dnt give her due recognition,but @ least since u said shex disturbin u,u can ask him to define ur relatioship,u get w@ I mean or simply wait 4 God tym.Or u can ask ur fashion designer guy to get back to sch @ least we get part tym student,since u care about education. . . .but I will advise u not to marry som1 out of pity @susiecutie i dnt see anytin wrong a lady tellin a guy she loves him,it only in nigeria or let say Africa we turn it to somtin else
12 Oct 2015 | 22:37
0 Likes
I don't knw, jus do wateva pleases u nd rememba, 1 li2l mistake can cost u d rest of ur life
13 Oct 2015 | 02:34
0 Likes
@Ndu Adaobi @susiecutie @Taiwo @DonMikie @NextAnge @Chris_Wayne. A big thank you to you guys for ur comments.....
13 Oct 2015 | 05:49
0 Likes
The fashion designer is in ur destiny 2 marry him, atleast u can change him even if he is nt educated, ur friend doctor will jst waste ur time...so dear follow ur heart and always pray 2 God 2 choose d best 4 u...
13 Oct 2015 | 09:23
0 Likes
Someone said that marriage is like a life sentence so choose your prison mate carefully because "till death do us part" is a very long time. Lady, i thought love cover all odds? So why should one's educational background be a hindrance to marriage as long as u love the person? I will advice you to do what will make you happy.
13 Oct 2015 | 09:57
0 Likes
@DonMikie. I liked your advice.
13 Oct 2015 | 10:00
0 Likes
U asked God 4 a husband nd he gave u one, u ar giving xcuses abt his educational bckground nd dress sense yet u ar nt interested in material or flashy things, ar u for real? Babe its ur choice 2 make, b d doctor's side chick or u marry d designer. Every1 must nt b a graduate in other 2 live a life nd b responsible
13 Oct 2015 | 10:36
0 Likes
U prayed 2 God 4 ur destined husband,he brought him ur way yet ur asking if u shd marry him? Nawa 4 u oh!
13 Oct 2015 | 11:31
0 Likes
Hmmmm wat do I advice u do
13 Oct 2015 | 13:08
0 Likes
Jst follow ur heart nting more
13 Oct 2015 | 13:09
0 Likes
Ur not in love with the Doctor but his profession,check it very well,my advice is that u marry the tailor that proposed to u,,with ur help and encouragement he can become a graduate 2moro
13 Oct 2015 | 13:12
0 Likes
Its Your choice oooo.follow yhur heart.
13 Oct 2015 | 15:24
0 Likes
When I'm having crush on a girl and probably she is also crushing on me,and she eventually be the one to tell me she is IN LOVE WITH ME first,automatically I loose interest though I will still like the person but will never date her unless she pesters,that means she is gonna be a SIDE CHICK. It has happened many times TO all the ladies,it is not good to approach the guys first.I guess 85% of us doesn't think its cultured •Bishop
13 Oct 2015 | 17:18
0 Likes
Hmmmm so the other guy gets no love because of his profession or social status ....?SMH No wonder most girls are not yet married
13 Oct 2015 | 19:04
0 Likes
@skookum i did not say she should marry him by force nao (fashion designer) read it very well l said if she can she should and if she cannot she should let d two go and wait till her own time
14 Oct 2015 | 05:11
0 Likes

Report

Please describe about the report short and clearly.

(234) 9121762581
[email protected]
Reward Courses

Your privacy matters

Cookies and similar technologies are used on our sites to personalise content and ads. You can find further details and change your personal settings below. By clicking OK, or by clicking any content on our sites, you agree to the use of these cookies and similar technologies.

GDPR

When you visit any of our websites, it may store or retrieve information on your browser, mostly in the form of cookies. This information might be about you, your preferences or your device and is mostly used to make the site work as you expect it to. The information does not usually directly identify you, but it can give you a more personalized web experience. Because we respect your right to privacy, you can choose not to allow some types of cookies. Click on the different category headings to find out more and manage your preferences. Please note, that blocking some types of cookies may impact your experience of the site and the services we are able to offer.

  • These cookies are necessary for our website to function properly and cannot be switched off in our systems. They are usually only set in response to actions made by you that amount to a request for services, such as setting your privacy preferences, logging in or filling in forms, or where they’re essential to providing you with a service you have requested. You cannot opt out of these cookies. You can set your browser to block or alert you about these cookies, but if you do, some parts of the site will not then work. These cookies do not store any personally identifiable information.
  • These cookies allow us to count visits and traffic sources so we can measure and improve the performance of our site. They help us to know which pages are the most and least popular and see how visitors move around the site, which helps us optimize your experience. All information these cookies collect is aggregated and therefore anonymous. If you do not allow these cookies we will not be able to use your data in this way.
  • These cookies enable the website to provide enhanced functionality and personalization. They may be set by us or by third-party providers whose services we have added to our pages. If you do not allow these cookies then some or all of these services may not function properly.
  • These cookies may be set through our site by our advertising partners. They may be used by those companies to build a profile of your interests and show you relevant adverts on other sites. They do not store directly personal information but are based on uniquely identifying your browser and internet device. If you do not allow these cookies, you will experience less targeted advertising.