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I HAVE A PROBLEM

I HAVE A PROBLEM

By XTOPHER in 30 Mar 2016 | 05:05
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Ladies and gentlemen, am in my early 30s, am a divorcy with 4 kids, i divorced my wife when i couldn't cope with life without hapiness, now am deeply in love with a girl of 24 and i never told her i have 4 kids, i only told her i had 2 just to win her heart, though when we first met; i just feel like using her and dump but along the line i discover she is the most decent and faithful girl have ever met, this makes me fall for her, now that i wanted to propose to her i have to let her know about the two kids and i did, but she is hurt and she is not happy with me, she broke up with me 4 months ago after a year of perfect relationship, we do talk on daily basis but she will tell me she cant marry me, she even explain that am the only man that have ever show her love but with 4 kids she cant marry me, if i didnt call; she will call me to ask about my well being.
Guys what should i do? Am confused, assuming we dont talk again i would have get over it, pls help me out.
30 Mar 2016 | 05:05
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biblically you shouldnt marry anoda woman in asmuch as ur wife is stil alive
30 Mar 2016 | 05:16
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She didn't break up with you for having four kids but because you kept it away from her She is still in love that's why she still keep in touch with you just give her some time I believe if you guys are meant to be she will later accept the four kids and marry you But me I no fit marry man with four children o
30 Mar 2016 | 05:17
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U made a mistake by lying to her that u ave only 2 kids...bt u ave to respect her decision by letting her go..bt dont stop showing her that u really do care abt her,. . Confusion dey o..early 30 and u already ave 4 kids?and u married someone that u dont love and u keep on aving kids until it reach 4, den u decided to divorce her,thats not pure bruh
30 Mar 2016 | 05:17
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Honestly i fimk u should let her go and i neve supported divorce in d first place marriage z for beta for worst i advice u go bak to ur first wife and let her go she can only be a close friend to u
30 Mar 2016 | 05:18
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Onasunday u hav a point der
30 Mar 2016 | 05:19
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.....................
30 Mar 2016 | 05:21
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Lol critical thinker @onahsunday631 refuse picking her calls.
30 Mar 2016 | 05:25
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@victoriouschild you for do the list nah
30 Mar 2016 | 05:49
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@onahsunday631 u are on point bra :) bros @xtopher I advice if ur wife is still much alive nd single pls go back to her u loved her dats why u married her I knw it was along dey line everything changed to DAT way nd u divorce her pls try to understand marriage is of dey lord is nt tin u can enter nd commot anyhow why nt reconsider ur wife if she is ready to be back nd for DAT gal u met yea is true she love u but it can't work even if it workout I Dont tink she can take care of ur children..... stop stressing ur self waiting for her to change her mind do what is right my advice though :)
30 Mar 2016 | 05:49
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hmmmm go back to the mother of the children, by marry another lady you don't know to take care of this children is unfair because you won't know her real mind so please go back to your wife even tough you can't do it for yourself then do it for the kids do as not to subject them to another woman
30 Mar 2016 | 05:54
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#lipssealed
30 Mar 2016 | 06:00
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@xtopher you go pay me for the roll call
30 Mar 2016 | 06:17
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@frankkay et @onahsunday631 I no know say the two of una na marriage councillor
30 Mar 2016 | 06:20
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@frankkay et @onahsunday631 I no know say the two of una na marriage councillor una be
30 Mar 2016 | 06:20
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30 Mar 2016 | 06:30
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@Victoriouschild lol am nt o am jst telling him dey right tin though it will be hard to do
30 Mar 2016 | 06:56
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let her go.
30 Mar 2016 | 07:05
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damn! u made d first mistake by not telling her about ur kids in d first place.....well all hope is not lost yet
30 Mar 2016 | 07:16
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@frankkay I don hear you
30 Mar 2016 | 07:54
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@victoriouschild lol..
30 Mar 2016 | 08:11
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let her go
30 Mar 2016 | 11:12
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see analysis... @onahsunday631 you are point bro. Seems i will start awarding the best counsellor, @frankkay @victoriouschild @invincible part two is on the way.
30 Mar 2016 | 13:03
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@xtopher part two of wetin ?
30 Mar 2016 | 13:29
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Hmmmmm... Simply stop d call... Nd dont receive her calls too
30 Mar 2016 | 13:33
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chaii! this guy sef @xtopher so na movie be this I thought is real o :) u even get part 2 hahaha funny u
30 Mar 2016 | 15:41
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@victoriouschild @frankkay dont be disturbed just take it cool
30 Mar 2016 | 18:04
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hmmm.... just reading comments sha
30 Mar 2016 | 18:17
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@cedar1, u nor hear say dem don divorce??? MR man, na ur wahala face am ursef #@pharm-vickymears don marry sha #u fit ask her
31 Mar 2016 | 22:01
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let her go, she is not yours. bring your wife back and build up your fall family. it we be good for u.
1 Apr 2016 | 14:24
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Nawaooo make u forget d gal oooo
1 Apr 2016 | 16:17
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