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I NEED UR HELP N ADVICE. Plz!!!

I NEED UR HELP N ADVICE. Plz!!!

By obafemi in 6 May 2016 | 16:22
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I met dis gal 2 years ago. Lyk play lyk play we don dey date. Even though i knw der is another guy in er lyf. I stil dint care oh. Cus i love er. I told er all abt me n hw av neva been in a relationship b4. Hw i run 4rm temptation n hw i diassociate wit naughty gals. Sum galz tried der best 2 get me laid bt i dint giv dem a chance n she got 2 knw wen dey told er(cus we kept our relationship in lowkey). She even use 2 question me abt gals around me bt am very faithful 2 er(1st love). I taught she ws 2, bt i ws wrong. Just yestaday i ws in d midst of fwends wen dey started her topic. All abt er first love wu used her as a sex tool 2 satisfy himself ever he wants. Hw she cries n begged im. (though d guy is nt around anymore bt he already told his fwends all such of nasty tinx he hd done 2 her, n dis guyq been tryin der luck on er). She later met d guy wum she ws datin b4 i met er. Wat i heard n wat she told me is dat she has noting 2 do wit d guy dat he just a dreamer. Bt dis guys proved dat he already laid er cus he's sumhow igonoring er. dis guy also talked abt d guys she's dating n d one's trying. D painful tin 2 me is abt nt hearing dis 4rm er. I felt really bad wen hearing abt er past 4rm fwends. Dis guys dint knw am dating er. D guys dey see he as a firty hole (d person i lo ve). Even er fwends blive dats wat she is. I dnt knw wat 2 do. Though we had prndat we wunt belive wat ever we hear abt each other. I want 2 confront er bt it will lead 2 quarrel. I really do luv er. Am confused. Plz advise me i really need ur help.
6 May 2016 | 16:22
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Hehe.... You be mumu ooo, serious maga I go advice you not to confront her but also have a share of her free gift and go your way.. Simple
6 May 2016 | 16:27
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Dont know what to say
6 May 2016 | 16:38
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@frankkay @invincible @ele1 @onahsunday631 @victoriouschild.... Come here and give ur advice
6 May 2016 | 16:40
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lol are u serious???....kiki
6 May 2016 | 16:42
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S @starlet worst adviser of the century
6 May 2016 | 16:43
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I will advice you to confront her @softie thanks
6 May 2016 | 16:45
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@starlet pbn. Its nt as u tink i really do love dis gal oh. She's my 1st love.
6 May 2016 | 16:50
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@siryemeex do you know if she love you? Do you know if she will be faithful to you? Use your sense to avoid story that touches @victoriouschild worst ke? That is the sincere truth. How will a girl just deminish her pride just like that?
6 May 2016 | 17:18
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i will advice u confront her @ hear her own side of d story , den if she lie to u dat means she is not worth ur luv
6 May 2016 | 18:17
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hmm cant realy say jezz kinda complicated
6 May 2016 | 18:30
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you know there's another guy in her life, and you are dating her what advice do you need again
6 May 2016 | 18:33
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Dont really get u sha
6 May 2016 | 18:36
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On my way! @softie
6 May 2016 | 18:46
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@starlet and you think if the guy has his own fair share of her is the best solution
6 May 2016 | 19:22
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@victoriouschild if he is a saint, he can just find his way
6 May 2016 | 19:26
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@starlet he should either confront her or he forget her that's just the best solution
6 May 2016 | 19:29
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Thanks guys i really aprreciate ur advice. It helped me 2 ease my mind. @krizzy, @fabulous viccky, @"minoz" n @starlet. Thank u guys. I'll definately heed ur advice.
6 May 2016 | 19:35
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confrnt ha
6 May 2016 | 19:50
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@ obafemi its really heart breaking having to hear nasty things abt ur very first love for that matter,but I'wuld advice u to take the difficult descision nw and feel the pain nw than to regret it later.
6 May 2016 | 20:28
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Oga oo
6 May 2016 | 23:33
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Pray for God intervention
7 May 2016 | 05:32
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@starlet you think everyone is like ben digging ever hole in intermission???
7 May 2016 | 05:33
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Lol @john451
7 May 2016 | 05:42
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Don't confront her by doing that will show you have no atom of trust in her but make sure you catch her red-handed. then you have a real proof and not what your dawgs say.
7 May 2016 | 05:49
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all u have to do is to bring on a pretense nature in d process u have to be trying ur best to forget about d love u have for her.such lady can even sell u ,try to set her up with one of that ur friends when u finally caught her spill d beans and confront her about all her previous wrong doings.but my brother u must have ur share first o.
7 May 2016 | 06:51
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lolz @starlet
7 May 2016 | 06:52
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confront her
7 May 2016 | 07:52
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We a all bound to make mistakes. We all have our dark sides. So I will advice yo 2 comfront her nd here watshe will say. If her words, excuses nd plea are geniune, then forgive nd forget. That is if u truly love her.
8 May 2016 | 04:25
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hmmmmmm
8 May 2016 | 14:36
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@obafemi,,,dis is a confused dilemma,,,since u had ask her bfor abt d guy n she told u nothing is btw dem,i don't think u need to confront her again bcos if u do,,she wil surely deny it again,,,assuming dat dey knew u r dating her,i could hv say maybe dey want to bias d girl in front of u bt since it wasn't so,,,guy use ur brain,,,,d only advice i wil give u is dat u shld play along wit d game she is playing since sne has becomes a sex tools to some people,,,nt forget abt dis first luv u r mentioning.....did any1 tells u first luv don't cheat???....my guy be wise....
8 May 2016 | 18:30
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Go take paracetamol for ur head ache.
9 May 2016 | 15:56
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