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I Need Ur Suggestionz

By Orezi in 25 Apr 2016 | 07:23
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there's a girl i like in my church, we do discuss together, and am a youth pastor in the church.
i've tried as much as possible to forget this but i can't, i like her but am afraid to tell her due to my position in the church.
what do i do, should i tell her or i should just compose myself and do my job as a pastor in the church.
last week wednesday i asked her to give me her facebook username but she refused, then after much persuassion she gave me the username, but a wrong one then she later came back by herself and give me the right one but am still unable to find it on facebook.
now i have a problem, am a pastor,a leader in church and our miss lives with them, and i have the trust of every one in the church both the youth.
she also talks,smile and laughs with me some times, but am having a problem, should i tell her i love her.
am afraid of what will be her reaction and am afraid of bringing low my reputation, a whole youth pastor.
please what do i do.
25 Apr 2016 | 07:23
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please give me the role list @onahsunday631 @tenniebenson @softie @sofia @pheranmmie041 @victoriouschild @sirgentle @roes @frankkay @ele1 @frank please do the roll call list, i need help b4 taking the decision.\please,please,please,please.
25 Apr 2016 | 07:26
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Pray for God intervention
25 Apr 2016 | 07:30
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what do you mean? a pastor can like someone unless you have an ulterior motive.... the girl sef don notice am that's why she gave you a wrong username... WISE UP ... this got me laughing "a whole pastor" lwkm this is too funny
25 Apr 2016 | 07:35
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note: she only uses her phone only when her school is on vacation, and when they resume she will drop the phone at home, she is a boading student.so she will be resuming on may2 and will not be on facebook till september. i had said in my mind that i will like to marry her, but a 17 years old boy like me should concentrate on my academic. should i forget it 4 nw till am old enough 4 dat, but how do i intend to forget it because it comes back to ring on my head. help me.
25 Apr 2016 | 07:35
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Na crime 2 lyk girl again.... tell her nd pry ova it
25 Apr 2016 | 07:35
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lol...
25 Apr 2016 | 07:37
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25 Apr 2016 | 07:37
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what do i now do, give me a better advice @samnolimit @promzy
25 Apr 2016 | 07:40
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Pray over it and I think you are still to young to have s girlfriend I will advice you to face your academics
25 Apr 2016 | 07:41
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Pray over it and I think you are still to young to have s girlfriend I will advice you to face your academics for now
25 Apr 2016 | 07:41
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but u sud remember am a youth pastor @hauwa
25 Apr 2016 | 07:42
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is their a rule dat junior pastors shud not date or hv a girlfriend or love someone? if no then i don't think u need more suggestions on what to do , unless u need steps and skills in approaching her or talking to her
25 Apr 2016 | 07:46
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Hmmm clears throat i will advise u open up to her and express your feelngs before it's too late
25 Apr 2016 | 07:47
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if u love sombody walk up tu her nd tell her u love her eh..eh bcuz no tym no tym at all
25 Apr 2016 | 07:57
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25 Apr 2016 | 07:58
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a pastor that condemns dating a lady at a tender age, going to make d same mistake, what do u tink of dat @krizzy
25 Apr 2016 | 08:05
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if u truly love her u have to tell her
25 Apr 2016 | 08:16
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@c-roderick u didn't mention d condemnation part earlier but since you do it then practice what u preach....nuff said
25 Apr 2016 | 08:30
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she giv u wrong username?and u claim say dey respect u 4 church, a whole youth pastor, i dnt think so, if it were me, ill form a youth whatsapp group, or facebook group, im sure she is a secondary school boarding student, most of those kinda girls are easy to wash, dont be too forward with her, but u can flirt with by adding pepper and currry to talks with her and with time, she go like u, hope u aint in luv with her beauty and popularity sha
25 Apr 2016 | 08:56
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its not wrong to hav a gf at such age o, as long as u dnt do immoral things with her,
25 Apr 2016 | 09:00
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No offence bt i would say ur problem is pride & lack of self confidence. Imagine d phrase "a whole youth pastor like me". Wise up & knw wht u want.
25 Apr 2016 | 09:18
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Na crime for pastor to love again? Dont pastors get married? U ave to play ur card well mhen..let her knw ur mind..bt in a marriage way not boy friend of a thing
25 Apr 2016 | 09:36
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hmmmmm well I suggest u tell her how u feel jst for her to knw how u feel u are a pastor doesn't mean u won't get married but nt yet u are still nt an adult .. BODY NAO BE FIREWORD.......
25 Apr 2016 | 10:13
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hian! the kind of girl that would give u a rong facebook username..... make she no go dey broadcast say pastor dey toast am oh. Lol leave her Jor. girls and their wahala. I don't even think she has given u any green light. she would disrespect u if things go wrong and that is not good cos of yur post in church
25 Apr 2016 | 10:39
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All the one u said u wana marry her z just fantacy,although I see notting wrong in expressin ur feeling but d part of marriage na fk cux u still have a long way to go nd meet a lot more people especially more gelx to catch ur fantacy :mrgreen:
25 Apr 2016 | 10:50
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My advice is dat u r too young to start dating. For nw ur number one piority should be ur academics
25 Apr 2016 | 11:10
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gbam they don talk am finish
25 Apr 2016 | 11:35
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why do you condemn dating?
25 Apr 2016 | 11:36
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O boy! Face ur studies n forget woman matter for nw.
25 Apr 2016 | 11:44
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How old is the girl?? Cox i learnt she's in boarding school. And how old is the pastor??
25 Apr 2016 | 12:19
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When I first read d tin I wan talk sey shey youth pastor no go marry?
25 Apr 2016 | 13:03
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As I come see d age... Na so I come understand... Abeg wait till when u get liver 2 woo gal... And since u be pastor.. Ask God to direct u
25 Apr 2016 | 13:04
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tell her ur mind
25 Apr 2016 | 17:35
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tell her ur mind....
25 Apr 2016 | 17:35
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it kinda funny buh go meet her first n let her knw ur intention
25 Apr 2016 | 18:01
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A youth Pastor @ 17! Wow! God really called you on time and you should rather concentrate in your service to God. Both you and the girl still have a very long way to go before considering settling down. Now tell me, telling her that you love her would lead to what? "A relationship"! Remember that we are being tempted through our desires. The devil will creep in through this and lead you out of the purpose of God for your life by unconsciously leading you into sin. Had it been you have come of age and is already thinking of settling down, it wouldn't be a problem telling the girl about your feelings but because the both of you is still very far from such reality, it's not to be encouraged. Concentrate on your God giving ministry, take your studies very seriously, fill your mind with the holy ghost and not desires that will lead you astray. Stay blessed bro!
26 Apr 2016 | 11:35
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Pray For God Intervention So As To Enable You To Say Ur Mind
26 Apr 2016 | 14:44
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My Mind Though
26 Apr 2016 | 14:45
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tell her straight... u nd her go keep ham as secret
26 Apr 2016 | 16:01
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U r still young just forget it bro
27 Apr 2016 | 00:53
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leave Galz mata now
27 Apr 2016 | 10:52
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hmmmm..... With God nothing is impossible...... To love is not a crime.... Tell her
28 Apr 2016 | 06:39
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