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I'm a 23 year old lady. I met a 29years old banker March 2012, he asked me out and after about 3 months I accepted his love proposal bcos he was really on my neck. I eventually fell in love with him and he dis flowered me. His parent rejected me cos of my state of origin (Ogun state), he's from osun state. He stood by me trying to convince his parents. Few...
.... months to end of 2013, I got pregnant. I informed him about the news and he was so happy, his immediate sister got to know about the pregnancy when she saw the result in my room. In a nutshell, She told their mother about it and his mother invited me to her house and told me to have an abortion, telling me i must not tell her son what we discussed. I told my...
... BF about what his mother told me to do and he insisted that I should keep the baby. My Bf and his parents fought about the issue of me having an abortion, later on it was settled and a mini introduction was done between my family and his. My father rejected the wedding suggestions bcos he was very mad at me. Few weeks after the introduction, my BF started giving me...
... attitudes. I fell sick (first transmitted sickness), so I went to his place (another town in osun state) he sent me out in the rain back to school while I was sick bcos he wants to bring in a girl. He was even asking another girl if she misses him or not in my presence, he cheats on me and uses abusive words to describe me. I talked it out with him about the things...
... he's been doing to hurt my feelings, he always say that he is an african man. Whoever I tell the story will always be on his side bcos he is a man and he can cheat me but I can't (making me regret why I came to world been a girl not a boy). One day, I was frustrated with his acts and went to his parents to report him. Surprisingly, his parents said I was too...
... jealous, without talking some sense into his head. I made a decision that no matter what happens I'll keep things to myself and pretend as if I don't care even if it kills me inside. At the 7th month of my pregnancy my school went on strike, I was with him and I made sure he gets EVERYTHING a man wants from his wife. Most times I will cook and he won't eat...
... until I kneel down and beg him with food before he eats. A month to my due date, we resumed for exams, he insisted I stay with his parent so that they can take care of me. I gave birth to a baby boy a week after my exams in April 2014, the following month, I was suppose to start my SIWES program which I submitted to...
... UCH in Ibadan, I had to switch to LAUTECH teaching hospital in osogbo cos I just put to bed. I stayed with his parents throughout the four months program (SIWES) and he never supported me. Thank God for my parents. I don't feel anything for him again (love nor care); another school session came no support from him again. Last month, I don't know...
... what his parent told him about me, he came home to beat me in the presence of my one year old boy(have never for once cheated on him or abuse his parents) I don't know the cause of his action. He always feel insecure whenever am chatting with any of his friends. Last week, I was in my room praying, his...
... mother came in and she found out that I was praying and went back to her room. Surprisingly, she started giving attitude, if I want to help her do laundry or anything she would say I should leave it. 2 days later my baby father stopped calling till now, I tried calling him but he won't pick up. I know his reaction again was...
... something his mother might have told him. Now have apologized to his mother even though I know I didn't offend her yet he's not calling not even to ask of his baby nor ask me how my exams went. I'm tired of his attitude and am thinking of leaving him for good but am scared of my baby's future. I intend to go to my parents...
....house to inform them about moving out then I will find a job and get an apartment cuz presently i can't afford one but am sure I will eventually. I'm broken and I need help.
Please I need your opinion or advise on this.
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