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IJE (THE JOURNEY) Weekend Special

IJE (THE JOURNEY) Weekend Special

By Saintkenz in 9 Jan 2016 | 04:30
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[b]IJE (the Journey)

My name is Joy, funny how my name sounds to me, when I tell you my story, maybe you would understand the irony of my name. I was born into the home of a military officer, and my mother was a trader. The fourth child, in a family of six (as it was back then).





I lived the carefree life most children in the barracks live, and never really knew anything that went on in my family. All that changed, when I turned thirteen. I remember that day, like it is yesterday. I was on my way back from school, and was in a haste to remove my school uniform and join my friend Elizabeth and her brother Moses on a mango plucking spree. I got to our block, and saw my sister, Sister Hope on the ground crying. My father was throwing clothes at her from our house on the first floor, and my mother was pleading with my father. I ran towards Sister Hope, and my father shouted at me to stay away from her or else he would beat stupidity out of my head. I froze, and stood there watching. My younger brother Andrew had been behind me, and he also joined me, wondering what was going on.


Later that evening, my father called my siblings and I into our small sitting room, and announced to us that Hope was never setting foot into his house again, and that if he ever saw or heard that we had any communication with her, we would also join her out of his house. Our first daughter Sister Faith, started crying and my father went on to say that Hope had gotten pregnant and that any of us that gets pregnant would face the same fate. Our mother didn’t say a word throughout that meeting.


Later at night, while others slept, Sister Faith explained to me how a girl can get pregnant. She told me to stay away from boys. Boys were bad. I listened to her lecture and fell soundly to bed. The next morning, I had forgotten all about girls and pregnancies, and Sister Hope came to my mind, when it was time to make my hair. She was the one that weaved our hair.


Three months passed, and pregnancy stared me in the face again. This time, I was the only one at home, when Mama Rose dragged rose to our house. Rose was crying when I opened the door. “Where is your foolish father” Mama Rose asked me. I was shocked for two reasons. First, nobody has ever called my father foolish, and secondly Mama Rose was supposed to be my father’s friend. I know he goes to her bar many times. I told her that my father was not around, but no sooner had I said this, than my father came up the stairs.

The speed at which mama Rose grabbed my father’s trousers, was alarming. Mama rose was a very tiny woman. But apparently, she had the strength of a lioness. Soon my father’s shirt, his favourite shirt was in shreds. All the while, Rose continued crying and all I could pick out from the chaos was….. “cheat”, “mother and daughter”, “wicked man”. Neighbours from my block and neighbouring blocks, gathered. I was still confused, when my father finally extracted himself from the claws of Mama Rose, and ran into our house, locking the door behind him.



My mother was called from her shop, and she came to the house. She listened to Mama Rose for two minutes, and fell to the ground crying. Then she stood up, hit our door for minutes but my father did not open the door. Little by little, neighbours dispersed and even Mama Rose left, but Rose stayed behind.



Once again, a meeting was called but this time, I can’t remember who called the meeting. My mother did most of the talking, and Sister Faith, Brother John our first son talked also. My mother said she was going back to her village, that she was tired of staying with our father. She said she was going with Andrew our little brother and the last child of the family who was seven years old.

My younger sister Peace cried, saying she wanted to go with our mother, but my mother said she couldn’t take care of her. Peace was ten years old. My father was silent, throughout this meeting and Rose was outside in the corridor. The next morning my mother was gone and so was Andrew.


That was the end of life as I knew it. So many changes happened at the same time. Sister Faith left her school and started running my mother’s shop, Rose became a permanent part of our household, and her stomach grew with every passing day, as did her mother’s. I and Peace started hawking pure water and kerosene from Sister Faith’s store.

Years later, my father was transferred to another state and he informed us that we had to stay behind. By this time, Rose had two children, brother John had left the house for Lagos, I was still waiting for all the money he promised to send me when he got there. Sister Faith was still running the shop, and had a room of her own, somewhere in town. I and Peace were the only one at home, with our father and Rose. Father said we would have to move in with Sister Faith. I was sixteen years old.

I left secondary school the same year we moved in with Faith. Life outside the barracks was nothing like the life I had lived. The people in sister Faith's compound, lived a fast paced life. All the men in the compound, the landlord inclusive, asked me to be their girl friend. I spent a lot of time in Sister Faith’s store, I didn’t have time for any of them. I wish I could say the same for Peace. I started to notice something was off with Peace, when I saw her with a lot of money one afternoon. She refused to tell me who gave it to her, and even Faith could not get it out of her.

Peace started buying clothes for herself, and always had one new gift or another. She didn’t listen to me anymore, and she spent her time in the compound, so she was alone most of the time.


I came back from church that Sunday afternoon, and went into the room. My sister Peace was lying face down on the floor, close to the door. There was blood everywhere. She had not followed me to church, because she said she wasn’t feeling too well. I screamed, and grabbed hold of her, she was very weak, and the blood coming out of her was scary. She was crying in pain. She gave me a bloodied piece of paper while I screamed my lungs out, for help. When help came, and we finally got her to the hospital, the doctor said DOA dead on arrival. She had died from an abortion that wasn’t properly carried out. The doctor said she might have ingested something in a bid to remove the baby.
When we got back home later that night, the bloodied paper was on the floor by the door. Peace had scribbled a note. I gave the note to Sister Faith read it, and wept.


It told a tale of how she had slept with five men in our compound, and that our landlord raped her. when she fell pregnant, she didn’t know who was responsible, neither did she even know she was pregnant until one of them told her she was. She didn’t say who, she also didn’t say who gave her the concoction. But she listed the men that slept with her. Peace was only fourteen years old.


My elder sister went to the police station the next day, and reported the case. All the men including the land lord were arrested. Two days later they were bailed and the landlord gave us the remainder of our rent and sent us packing. The matter died at the police station. I decided that I was going to become a lawyer.



I never got over the death of my sister. For years I would close my eyes and see the blood and imagine the way she must have dragged herself on the floor in pains, trying to get to the door. I swore off men, I realised that all the problems that came to my family had to do with men and pregnancies. I was having a battle with getting into the university, to fulfil my dreams of becoming a lawyer.


Sister Faith got married, and that was the beginning of another phase in my life. her husband was a never do well. I could see it from the first day I met him, and I always wondered why she couldn’t see it. Our father wasn’t even present to take the bride price, it was his younger brother that stood in for him. As for our mother, it seemed like she had jumped out of this world with our brother Andrew, that morning they left us.


Two months into their marriage, Uncle Amos raped me. That day my world came crashing down. I have never been of a big stature, and it was very easy for him to overpower me that evening when my sister sent me home from the shop to make dinner. I lay on the floor weeping, until my sister came. She asked me what had happened, and when I told her, she took me into the bathroom and bathed me. That was the end of that incident. We never spoke about it. It was like it never happened.


A repeat performance followed the very next month. This time, Sister Faith blamed me, saying I was seducing her husband. That was the beginning of the end of my life in that house. I soon found out I was pregnant, and the house became a place of torment. Uncle Amos wanted me to have the baby, stating that my sister had not given him any yet. This was barely four months into their marriage. My sister said that would happen over her dead body. I was scared and felt trapped. I didn’t want to end up like peace, and I didn’t want to have a baby, least of all for the devil called Amos. I had dinner one night, and went to bed. A sharp pain in my abdomen woke me up, and I was bleeding.

My sister and her husband quarrelled In the middle of the night, while I bled out on my bed. That night, I stared death in the face, but in my suffering, I refused to die. I was not going to end up a failure and refused to die so young. Uncle Amos accused Sister Faith of giving me something to remove the pregnancy, and Sister Faith said God was vindicating her of the evil she married. They went on for hours.

By morning, I had stopped bleeding. I knew Aunty Faith was responsible, but I was simply glad to be alive. Two days later, she sent me to live with her friend in another town. Her friend owned a saloon, and I was to learn the trade. I asked her what about my plans for school, and she asked me if she had a university education?



Madam Linda was older than I expected. I wondered how exactly Faith knew her. I spent one year and three months with her, working like a slave. She was a miser, and giving us food to eat was a hardship. She had six of us under her in the saloon and we all shared a room in her two bedroom flat. That was my first experience living without family. I became close to Gladys. We confided in each other, and were counting the days till we would free to leave. I learnt everything there was to learn, saving all the tips I got, with dreams of opening my own place after my days with Madam Linda. Dreams I shared with Gladys.

You can I imagine my Joy the day we ended our apprenticeship. Gladys invited me to stay over with her at her uncle’s house, until I got a place of my own. We set out that evening, as Gladys said it was not far from where Madam Linda stayed. We got on a bike, and stopped at a junction. When we got there, the bike man said he did not have change and Gladys went in one direction to look for change.

When five minutes passed and she was not back, the bike man asked me to go and look for her. I went in that direction, and asked people of her and I was told a lady of her description, had gotten on another bike there.
I couldn’t believe it. I had only five hundred naira in my pocket, as my money was in the bag Gladys had with her. It had been her idea for us to use just one bag to pack our things, since we were going to the same house. Thirty minutes later, I had to accept that Gladys had played a fast one on me. I was penniless, homeless and alone. I walked around the area, until shops closed then I looked for a corner by one shop, and wept.



I wondered what I had done to life to deserve all this misfortune. I thought about my life, and my family. Things were not supposed to turn out the way they had. I was twenty-three years old, and it seemed all my dreams were never coming through. That was the longest night of my life. I wondered the usefulness of my existence and if there was ever a time I felt there was no God, it was that night.


The next morning, I sat deep in thought, wondering what I was going to do and where I was going to go. I knew I wasn’t wanted in Faith’s house and I didn’t even want to go there. I had nowhere to go. I was wandering around the area, deep in thought, when I was hit by a car.



I woke up in a hospital, and stared into the eyes of a very beautiful woman. She was smiling down at me. She was the one that hit me, and brought me to the hospital. She told me her name was Mrs. Anna. She was an elderly woman. I stayed in the hospital for two weeks, I had two fractures. Mrs. Anna came to see me every day and she consoled me after hearing about my misfortunes. When I left the hospital, I moved in with Mrs. Anna. That signified another turn in my life.


Mrs. Anna was a widow and she had children older than I was. While I was with her, she enrolled me in jamb lessons, and my life was back on track. That year, I got admission into school but not for law like I wanted, but mass communication. Mrs. Anna paid my tuition and I resumed school. It was a happy time for me. Then the devil struck again and my benefactor died. I was just getting into two hundred level. I got a call from one of her sisters and I went home to see the house overrun by strangers. After the burial, the house was locked up, and I moved into the school hostel.

I started making hair for students, to carter for myself and it was taking its toll on my studies. Three hundred level was a very difficult time for me. I could barely feed myself, and buy books. I had some offers, to join girls to go for those types of parties where you are paid for coming. I always declined. Not because I was spiritual, I was never a spiritual person. But because I didn’t want to go through the pain of having a man touch me. I had vivid dreams of being raped by Uncle Amos regularly.


Then I met Daniel. I was in my final year in school, and still struggling to make ends meet. I went to a cybercafé in school, with the aim of searching for my siblings on facebook. I found John, but didn’t find hope and Andrew. I sent John messages, and I was excited about hearing from him, after all these years. In my excitement, I ran into Daniel. He was coming into the café while I was going out. For the first time in my life, I felt an attraction to a man. Apparently he felt it too. We exchanged numbers, and became fast friends.


Daniel was not a student, he told me he had finished his university education three years before. Our love blossomed. For the first time since the death of Mrs. Anna, I didn’t have to worry about money. Daniel catered for all my needs and he became my world. I told him about my life and he was very understanding.

Three months into our relationship, I spent the night with Daniel and he changed my perception of men. The next morning, we were awoken by a cold bucket of water, being poured on us. I didn’t understand what was going on, until I heard Daniel apologising and pleading. Daniel was married and at closer look, I found my missing sister Hope.... Daniel's wife..

[color =blue]Kindly check back before 1PM today for the concluding part. Thanks thanks & happy weekend to you[/color][/b] :)
9 Jan 2016 | 04:30
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9 Jan 2016 | 04:37
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What misfortunate ! Nice story you got there
9 Jan 2016 | 05:00
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chaii!! This one is strong
9 Jan 2016 | 05:04
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Wow! Interesting
9 Jan 2016 | 05:16
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Hun?
9 Jan 2016 | 05:33
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wat a life.
9 Jan 2016 | 05:40
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Hmmmmmmm intresting
9 Jan 2016 | 05:52
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This is serious,some people are realy going through a lot of things
9 Jan 2016 | 06:04
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still with u cos it inspiring
9 Jan 2016 | 06:06
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What a life!very touching...
9 Jan 2016 | 06:12
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It is well wit us
9 Jan 2016 | 06:15
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Yawa too much
9 Jan 2016 | 06:19
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Such is life...... @saintkenz nice story u got here. @wyse-one @frankkay over here
9 Jan 2016 | 06:52
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Nice happy weekend
9 Jan 2016 | 06:56
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Hmmm... Ur life tie wrapper
9 Jan 2016 | 07:30
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Some people are really going through a lot in life
9 Jan 2016 | 08:22
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[b][color =blue]Continuation[/color] I wondered what other trick life could ever play on me. Hope was not glad to see me, especially not in the circumstances of our meeting. She was no longer hope, she was now Celia and she was rich. It was her money Daniel had been showering on me. She walked me out of her house, and told me never to come back. Life was so cruel. I cried all the way back to my hostel, cursing the day I was born. Months later, I was supposed to graduate, but I had a pending course. That gave me one more year of suffering. During that period, I decided to check on sister Faith. I went back to their house, and was told they had moved out. I got another address, and there I was informed that my sister had passed on, during child birth years ago, but that the child a girl, survived. I asked where I could find her husband, and they said he ran off upon hearing of her demise. The child had been in an orphanage. I didn’t know what to do. I went to the orphanage, and saw the girl, a spitting image of Peace. The matron was shocked at how I was able to pick her out of the crowd of children without help. I knew that I had to take care of the child, so I explained my predicament to the matron and we reached an arrangement. I was introduced to Blessing, who was three years old and I went back to school. I had a new reason to live and I decided to turn things around, in order to give Blessing a good life. I got a small corner close to a market, and I began practising my trade. I worked tirelessly days and far into the night sometimes. I saved all the money I could get. Then I got a bigger space, and bought one hair drier and made the place look a little more like a saloon. In eight months, I employed my first worker. When it was time to go back to school for exams, I sat for the exams and I passed. I became a graduate. I didn’t want to for for nysc, because of my business. I wondered how I was going to manage. I was determined not to go back to living a life of uncertainties. The NYSC list came out, and I was posted to Lagos. I packed my bags and went off to camp. On the third day of camp, I was on my phone when I heard a group of people laughing and someone said “this Andrew is just a clown” I do not know what made me turn around, but I did and I was staring at a copy of my father. I stood transfixed. It took me three days to pick up the courage to approach him. When I did, I became friends with him, he was twenty four years old. The day before the end of camp, I told him who I was. He was shocked. He couldn’t remember a thing. I told him to ask his mother and few hours later, he came to me saying his mum wanted to speak to me on phone. I listened to my mother call me a liar from the pit of hell, and rain insults on me on speaker phone, to the hearing of her beloved only child Andrew. The next day, we left camp. Two days after we left camp, I turned thirty. That night, I cried an ocean into my pillow. I wondered what shape my life was taking, I wondered why life was so unfair to me. I started work at a radio station where I was posted and I was given a room in their staff quarters. I decided to bring Blessing to stay with me in Lagos. That was one of the wisest decisions I ever took. I enrolled her in a school close to my office, and my boss allowed her stay with me after school until the close of work. I told everybody who asked that she was my daughter. True to her name, my daughter Blessing brought blessings into my life. I was favoured everywhere I went, and everybody doted on my daughter. We had a guest on one of our shows, and as the errand girl, which was basically what they wanted to turn me into, I was asked to pick up lunch for the guest and my boss. It was a health show, and when I went in to deliver the food, I realised the guest was a young and dashing doctor. The next morning, said young and dashing doctor was at my desk, to ask me to have a lunch date with him. I turned him down. He came in every morning unfailingly for two months and my answer remained the same. Then one morning, he didn’t show up. I was alarmed. I had to ask around for his number. I had gotten used to bantering with him every morning. I wondered what had happened to him. I finally got his number from our personnel manager, and I was dialling it on my way to my office. I opened my door, just as he was bringing out his phone from his pocket to answer my call. He looked at his screen, smiled and said “Sorry I am late”. We were married nine months later, after my youth service. I couldn’t believe the turn around my life took. Richard walked into my life, and never looked back. He accepted Blessing, and opened his doors to all of me. I didn’t hold back and even in moments when I thought surely he would be overwhelmed, he was like a rock. His family accepted me and for once I experienced a peaceful and coordinated family life. I thought life couldn’t get better but knowing how my life had been, I always anticipated something bad. Two years after our marriage, I was yet to conceive. I thought about the abortion from my past, and my husband made sure we ran through every test possible, and we were certified ok. I became really worried. Richard never failed to remind me that we had a daughter already. I was not consoled. I wanted to give him a child of his own. I received a call from a strange number one Saturday morning. I picked, and it was Andrew asking me where he could meet me. I wondered what he wanted to meet me for, but he insisted on seeing me physically. I went with Richard to the restaurant where we agreed to meet. We waited for over ten minutes, when Andrew walked in with a frail looking woman. They sat down, and I stared into the eyes of the woman who bore me, abandoned me and denied me. I walked out. I couldn’t bear the hatred I felt for her at that moment. Richard convinced me to at least give her an ear, so we went back in. She told me of how she came to Lagos, instead of going to her village. How she met a wealthy man, who couldn’t have children of his own, she married him and they raised Andrew as his son and kept up the charade even after his death. She apologised for denying me that day in camp and asked of my siblings. I told her of how she destroyed our lives by leaving, and killed Peace by not taking her along. I blamed her for all the misfortunes I faced in life. I cursed her for all the tears she had made us shed while she lived in plenty and I told her I never wanted to see her again. My mother died two weeks later, and I never had the chance to take back my words. I got pregnant in my third year of marriage and gave birth to a baby boy, I named him Peace after my sister. I finally met my elder brother John. He was in the military like our father and had been, and had gone on various peace keeping missions. I was very proud of him, and he had a beautiful family. I met him by chance at a store in Dubai, where he was on vacation with his family. I had two other children after my first son, I run a business empire and my family life has not suffered. I put my family first, and still have a fulfilling career. I have won numerous awards, and run an NGO that counsels children from broken homes and deals with abuse of women and children. I and my remaining siblings might not be as close as we would have been if our family had stayed together, but we talk from time to time, and attend family functions together. In all of this, my husband has been my bedrock. He stuck with me through my recurring night mares, to my hilarious fears of him towing the path of my father, or turning into a beast over night. He has been my best friend, and together we raised three wonderful kids that have given us five grandchildren so far. My life might not be perfect, but it is fulfilling. I no longer have unanswered questions, and I am a better person than the devil planned. Life is better when we are determined to live. If I could survive, you can survive also. Life would throw you curve balls. Expect them, feel bad and alone and unloved, but only for a little while. Then dust yourself off and hit the road road running. You will survive if you see survival as the only option on your plate. I survived. THE END...................[/b]
9 Jan 2016 | 10:01
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Wow!!! Dah ws inspiring, em glad u made it in lyf... Lesson learnt.
9 Jan 2016 | 10:14
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Wonderful, thanks 4 dis
9 Jan 2016 | 10:28
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So loving.... Am inspired... I will survive
9 Jan 2016 | 10:32
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Waow....what an interesting et inspiring story....I just learn something from this....that no matter what you're going through don't give up becoz you'll still make it in life....no matter how far/long....you'll definitely survive one day if u don't give up....thanks
9 Jan 2016 | 10:50
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hmmmn this life sef.
9 Jan 2016 | 10:52
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Woah...Interesting
9 Jan 2016 | 11:03
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Wow this is so inspiring...... Thanks dude
9 Jan 2016 | 11:04
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[b]@saintkenz u are de best dis is great I have learnt a lot in dis never u give up wen life is treating u bad temi tanks for dis wonderful piece of story[/b]
9 Jan 2016 | 12:25
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wonderful
9 Jan 2016 | 13:02
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really interesting... touching th0
9 Jan 2016 | 13:20
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Motivatinq story.... Happy weekend sir @saintkenz
9 Jan 2016 | 13:40
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Waooooo nice write ..... Adun lon gbeyin ewuro....sweetness always end the story bitter leaf
9 Jan 2016 | 14:30
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wonderful story #sobs
9 Jan 2016 | 14:36
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Nice story here.... If u can survive this. Who am i not to survive........ I shall survive
9 Jan 2016 | 14:41
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That is rather unfortunate.
9 Jan 2016 | 14:47
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[b]It really inspired me alot. I need to survive![/b]
9 Jan 2016 | 15:08
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I will not give up,GOD time is d best.
9 Jan 2016 | 15:16
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JEEZ, WHY THIS NAH
9 Jan 2016 | 15:50
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Hmmmmmm.........life is unfair for u joy.
9 Jan 2016 | 15:58
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Whaooo! This is so so inspiring. Hav learnt a lot because u survive, i shall survive too.............hmmm @saintkenz good job!
9 Jan 2016 | 16:15
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Wonderful
9 Jan 2016 | 16:57
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Wow! This is a masterpiece! [b]What a life's journey[/b] Life like a popular adage says "Is not a bed of Roses". It throws many eventualities on our way and it's only our resolve to scale through life's hurdles cum the grace of God that keeps one going. This piece is indeed 'soul lifting' and has greatly encouraged me not to loose hope and focus in life no matter how tough the going gets.
9 Jan 2016 | 17:03
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WOW. NICE 1.
9 Jan 2016 | 18:15
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Waow..nice one
9 Jan 2016 | 18:42
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woooow wat an intresting nd inspiring story..... I really learn alot frm dis piece.... Thumb up to d writer.... Nce work..
9 Jan 2016 | 23:05
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Hmmm... Am inspired to aspired wat eva lyf gves me... Lovely story
9 Jan 2016 | 23:15
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Interesting
10 Jan 2016 | 00:56
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See life
10 Jan 2016 | 01:33
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wow you really went through a lot.... I WILL SURVIVE
10 Jan 2016 | 03:07
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Interesting, Luv Everybit Of It. No Matter What Do Nt Give Up On Ur Hope
10 Jan 2016 | 03:09
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Interesting
10 Jan 2016 | 03:53
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waow....very inspiring...really learnt frm it...
10 Jan 2016 | 05:27
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What a life
10 Jan 2016 | 05:55
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So touching...now am qonna cry! God bless the hustlers
10 Jan 2016 | 06:16
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Chai see az i dey clean eyez as i dey read dz story. Dz z really a hrt feeling story.
10 Jan 2016 | 06:20
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Mehn Life sucks
10 Jan 2016 | 06:22
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Wow xo wonderful a story
10 Jan 2016 | 08:01
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Thanks. .
10 Jan 2016 | 08:02
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Hmmmm nice
10 Jan 2016 | 08:48
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waoh dat was really inspiring,learnt a lot frm it,i shal liv tru al lyf challenges
10 Jan 2016 | 14:13
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so touching and inspiring
10 Jan 2016 | 16:48
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Hmmmm still re-reading dz story
11 Jan 2016 | 03:01
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The lord is always at the bak of His own piple.
11 Jan 2016 | 03:47
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waoh thanks cos you just lifted up my spirit
11 Jan 2016 | 07:42
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Dis is an educative,interestive,inspiratve and touchtive story
11 Jan 2016 | 13:27
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Misfortune upon misfortune. what a miserable way of life. even the devil will pity you when he hears your story
11 Jan 2016 | 14:44
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Misfortune upon misfortune. what sort of badluck is this. even the devil will pity you when he hears your story.
11 Jan 2016 | 14:45
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Wow
13 Jan 2016 | 15:22
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Wow!! That was so so Inspiring and challenging. If you can make it, i will definitely make it someday. Nice One bro @Saintkenz. :-)
15 Jan 2016 | 05:45
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Soo.....inspiring
15 Jan 2016 | 19:02
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I loved this
15 Apr 2016 | 15:06
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Nice story
15 Jul 2016 | 13:20
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Nice story
18 Jul 2016 | 16:01
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Kudos
19 Jul 2016 | 05:21
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Nice story
19 Jul 2016 | 05:22
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Hmmmmmm
19 Jul 2016 | 11:27
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Interesting
19 Jul 2016 | 13:10
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Nice story
20 Jul 2016 | 12:17
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Nice story
23 Jul 2016 | 15:50
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Nice
23 Jul 2016 | 15:52
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I don't know how long this story was written, but what I do know is that its a timeless master piece. we all have our story to tell someday and we will keep fighting to get it right at the end. Thank you for this, am inspired...
13 Sep 2016 | 17:24
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Inspiring
1 Dec 2016 | 20:52
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Full of lessons. I'm glad you made it, we all can make it.
20 May 2017 | 18:28
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Hmmmm I love dis story..
2 Apr 2019 | 21:12
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