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:::: I'm Married but still very much in love with my Ex_Boy_Friend ::::

:::: I'm Married but still very much in love with my Ex_Boy_Friend ::::

By THANKMIC in 21 Sep 2015 | 17:29
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I'm 28yrs old, got married last year April to a guy I've been dating for over 7 yrs and we've not had any child till date. Later on I ran across my ex bf who I love so much, I didn't marry him cos we went to a church and we were told we shouldn't get married that we are not meant for each other but still we couldn't let go. I got married to my hubby but was....

Still in love with my ex, anytime I have a problem with my hubby he is always there for me. My hubby could be very harsh at times and he beats me up. We've always had misunderstandings right from the start, I thought he would change because I kept on praying for a better him. Sometimes when we fight, we won't talk for a whole month and no food money for...



.... Me till we settle our differences. But the other guy will always provide for my needs, sometimes I just wish I got married to him but he got married the same year I got married. We still have feelings for each other and he sometimes regrets why he got married to his wife too but we have no choice than to let go just because of what the pastor said....



.... For a long time now I have not been able to conceive for my husband and the day I had s3x with d other guy I got pregnant and he asked me to keep it but I refused and he was very angry and said he will take me for as a second wife but I refused cos am the jealous type that likes attention so much so it's better he....

... Remains with his wife and I remain with my hubby. The issue now is that I love him more than my hubby infect I enjoy s3x with him more than my hubby. My hubby don't satisfy me on bed at all, not romantic but I just have to manage and swallow the spit because am already married to him. There was a time he beat me up because of his mother and left me at home...

... For 3 weeks and after I spoke with my pastor about it and he came back but we were not still talking but the other guy was there for me. I eventually removed the pregnancy because of my hubby and am still not pregnant for my hubby and my family is really disturbing me; now I realized am unable to conceive because my husband has a problem....

..... Now my hubby has come to apologise to me and asked for forgiveness and I don't know what to do, I still love the other guy.
Please I need advice.
Please no abusive words.

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21 Sep 2015 | 17:29
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Milady my advise 4 u is to just 4get dat ur so called husband,cos I see no reason in wasting ur precious time wit someone u knw u can't conceive 4...and d worst part of it is dat he is d beating type...is better u divorce him and go 4 another man dat will love n cherish u whole heartedly dat u will even conceive 4 cos ur age is running my dear. #justsayingmymind#
21 Sep 2015 | 18:18
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Follow ur heart oooooooooo
21 Sep 2015 | 18:41
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Hmmmmm dunno wat 2 say abt dis, 1. Ur ex z married nd he cnt sent his wife away Bcos of u.2. He z nt treating his wife bad dat shows he luv his wife. I Dnt think he loves u as much as r saying it. 3. If u live ur home nw 4 u 2 get a trusted nd loving Husband 'll b very hard 4 u cos u r once married. 4. U've lose hope nd faith already in ur present husband, I would ve advice u 2 stay nd keep on praying 4 him. God can change his story
21 Sep 2015 | 19:06
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Dis is serious, u dnt luv ur husband, u dated him 4 seven years (not seven months) without luv in ur hrt 4 him nd u still married him? U didn't go 2 d hospital 2 check urselves b4 u got married. Wat is marriage without luv nd hapiness? It wl look lik u ar in a prison or some sort of bondage nd nt marriage. Anyways, pple make pple fall in luv wt dem. I think its tym 4 u 2 use ur power as a woman 2 make ur husband d kind of man u wnt him 2 b nd 4gt abt ur ex, let him b wt his family while u make urs a beta one. When d desirable is nt available, d available bcoms desirable. Make use of d woman in you, u can do it bt nt wt a divided heart. 4gt ur ex nd make ur marriage work, as 4 him nt being able 2 make u pregnant my dear u can adopt.
21 Sep 2015 | 20:31
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Since ur hubby has asked for forgiveness, i wil advice u to give him another chance. U guys shld try to understand each oda better, u can even decide to adopt a child till God does urs. And if u decide to go wit ur ex...... Try puttin urself in his wife's shoes.
22 Sep 2015 | 06:56
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Whoa, so pathetic. You'r both married and regretting your marriage, you see that's more of the reason why I can't follow the church's instruction cncerning ma marriage. My advise is just that you keep on praying bt lwt me nt deceive you, he will never change. Even no kids, ever since you married see, you are not meant for each other. Y nt get divorced and cntinue to live your life, you own your life not the church. File a divorce and plan a new life. You have only one life to live, y nt live it well in a way that suits you,
22 Sep 2015 | 07:34
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My usual advice wen it comes to marriage stuff is go see a marriage counsilor dey knw better on w@ advice to give
22 Sep 2015 | 07:37
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Follow ur heart
22 Sep 2015 | 09:26
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U made a very big mistake.... 1. How can u date some1 for 7years without loving him and still get married to him. 2. How can ur quit ur boyfriend bcos a pastor said u are not destined to be togeda without praying 1st. Are u sure dat dat msg was from God? 3 how can u be married and yet sleeping without ur ex bf, uptil d extent of getting pregnant n den committing abortion. My sister u need to see apastor and open up abt dis issue, u nid ur husbands forgiveness, cos even if u leave ur husband tins myt still be difficult. Do u tink ur ex will abandon his wife for u, i read abt making u a 2nd wife, wat do u stand to achieve if u even chose to marry him. I implore u dnt brk his marriage, dey were joined by God. Pls commit ur husband into prayers and see if the lord wont intervene. I think u need to forgo wat u feel for ur ex, if nt u will neva be able to love ur husband. 7yrs is too much now.... Thanks
22 Sep 2015 | 10:16
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My dear keep on praying to God to change him 4 better. I know he will answer u 4get about ur ex move on with ur husband no matter what he still ur husband. @frankkay ur adivce is needed.
22 Sep 2015 | 10:29
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@Christiana am here tanks ..wow am very impressed wit many advice here most expecialy @wyse-one nd @gracedkyenny ...i can see y u nicknamed ur sef wyse one u are. really nd for u milady if i were in ur shoe ii wil take wyse one advice is de best try it u will never regret it for sure...... Gracedkyenny i dont no u can giv a wonderfl advice like dis nxt time i have a prb i will come to u babe ...
22 Sep 2015 | 11:04
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Wish dt i cn advice u on ds bt i cnt...u r nt content wit one d***k dtz all,,,even if u end up in ur Ex house,,u wil stil luk for anoda Ex
22 Sep 2015 | 13:05
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Take yur pr0blems 2 God nd e will see yhu through
22 Sep 2015 | 13:13
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There may be something u dnt want us to knw abt ur being married to DAT ur husband u dated 4 seven years and no sex to even check his ability as a man ,during DAT 7years u shld av @least abort 1 pregnancy for him so now u are inside now u want to come out if it just like DAT well file a divorce is only ur option now since he has a problem but from me to U ,U are still hiding something from us begging wit ur 7 yrs courtship
22 Sep 2015 | 17:17
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abi @frankkay am always dia 4 u
22 Sep 2015 | 17:51
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The problem is you are the problem of your problems. 1. You dated for 7yrs and you dont love him, why did you marry him? 2. Latter you saw your ex whom you foolishly left because of your foolish Seer who separated you. 3. You fell for your ex because you are materialistic and you lust after him, not because your hobby refuse to give you money. Now you need advise, I believe see the advise in my 3 points and I will add it up with @Delight advise- make the use of the woman in you and make the best of your family. Every man is OBEDIENT to a GOOD wife
23 Sep 2015 | 09:14
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Follow ur heart
23 Sep 2015 | 16:39
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