*KEYS TO LASTING RELATIONSHIP*
Confidence is not possible as long as we compare ourselves with others. No matter how good we look, how talented or smart we are, or how successful we are there is always someone that is better and sooner or later we will run into them.
I believe confidence is found in doing the best we can with what we have to work with and not in comparing ourselves with others or competing with them.
Our joy should not be found in being better than others but in being the best we can.
Always struggling to maintain the number one position is hard work in fact it's impossible. I've seen some ditch promising relationships because they lost confidence in whom they are engaged to.
They saw someone "better" therefore they lost their peace and decided to move on with the "better" person.
You will always see someone that is better but will you always move on to the next better person you find?
This isn't to say that you should settle for mediocrity or abusive relationship but to make up your mind not to lose confidence in your current "best" partner.
There will always be someone more charming, sexy, richer, smarter and eloquent, so will you be jumping about once you see a "better" version?
If yes, then, that would make you a prostitute.
