EVEN YOUR FAMILY CAN GIVE YOU WRONG ADVICE
Regret of a WOMAN;
I am writing to you in order to make someone
understand that it's good to appreciate our partners
despite their flaws.
I am 32 years of age.
My ex husband and I dated for 6 years.
We where best of friends.
I waited until he completed college and started
work.
My family and his family then met.
We got married and had a son. (7 years old now).
My husband was short tempered at times but our
problems started when I wanted to make him feel
he couldn't control me.
Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to
my family and explain.
My sisters would phone my husband and shout at
him.
as if he was controlling me, I would always dare him
that if he wished, he could divorce me.
I never wanted divorce.
I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a
loose woman in his eyes.
One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time
he beat me and locked me outside.
I went to my family, my family took him to the
police, every time I looked like I was being abused!
But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband
emotionally.
He was arrested and detained.
I was asked by his family to withdraw the case.
I felt that, what I was doing was right.
My husband was never a violent man, he did what
he did because I pushed him to the wall of which
he openly knelt down and apologized.
I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.
After three months, I packed my bags after a small
issue and he remained alone.
After two days, I
received a call that he was in the hospital.
My family told me that I shouldn't go there because
it would look like I was begging him and my sisters
believed he was feigning the illness.
All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the
one being abused.
He spent a week in the hospital, after he came out,
I just received a divorce summon.
I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt
this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and
beg me.
I called him and said he would get the divorce
because I lived like I was in hell in his house.
When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay,
so I told the court that I needed his properties to be
shared.
To my surprise he openly told the court that
whatever he and I acquired together should be given
to me, all he wanted was divorce.
We were divorced in 2009 July.
Now, my husband is married, whilst l am here
wasted!
My family members are gossiping about me.
I depend on what my ex husband gives to my son
for survival.
I know I wasted my
marriage.
I am here telling all wives that they should be
careful how they get advise.
Don't be cheated, don't entertain family interference
in your marriage my dear reader.
Even my younger sisters are much more respected
than me.
Those who encouraged me to get divorced are
always teasing and bad mouthing me.
Please ladies, be vigilant in your marriage.
Thought it wise to share my story to save your
marriage.
There is no benefit in pride for nothing.
SOMETIMES IT'S NOT THE MAN'S FAULT AT ALL,
IT'S YOUR PRIDE,AND THE PEOPLE YOU ALLOW TO
ADVISE YOU.
