Married in School, Single at home.
The rate at which some girls live with their boyfriend
(student) in their various off camp hostels is becoming
very alarming. Sometimes, its a pity seeing a
beautiful, promising young girl living with a boy who
is also her fellow student in school as a room mate. The worst part of it is that, if you ask her, she will
open her mouth to tell you that the boy is her fiancé.
You are in school, every weekend you disappeared
into tin air and return Sunday evening or Monday
morning in the name of spending time with your boy
friend, keep flying, a day is coming that your wings will be so broken on the high way!.. You know what
that means...
You leave home telling your parents that you are
resuming school only for you to now hang on the road
camping for weeks in his place before you finally
return to school, you are doomed I must tell you... See!... 99.0% of Campus relationships end at the
school gate.... Stop fooling yourself....
Girls wise up! .its very painful because their parents
are not aware and they keep collecting house rent
from them. Before you think of living with a boy as
your room mate, ask yourself this questions; why am i in school? Does this boy has a plan for his
future? Let alone yours!
What advice will i give to my children in future?
Where will this wrong relationship
take me to?
*i weep for the young ladies * you call it school life, but i call it stupidity of the
highest order. You guys should
desist from this ugly behavior.
Its bad!!!!
L- I- F- E ! !
Over time I've discovered there is no absolute finish line for everyone in the race of life.
Our tracks are different and our durations are
different.
The only thing we have in common is the same
umpire.
For instance, one person graduates at age 20 and struggles for another 5 years to get a job;
another might graduate at 25 and get a job
immediately.
One can marry a virgin and wait for the next decade
to have the blessing of children;
another lady probably after having series of abortions in her past, becomes a mother almost immediately
after marriage.
A fellow becomes MD at 38 and dies at 56;
another becomes MD at 55 and lives to 90.
What a life!
Life is full of twists, turns, ups and downs and many more surprises and disappointments . Life offers each and everyone of us different
opportunities;
and once an opportunity is lost, it's gone forever
except by the grace of God.
It is up to each one of us to patiently prepare, wait,
recognise and utilize every opportunity. We learn on the way.
No one has it all or knows it all.
There is a reason why we all don't fall at the same
time.
It is so that when one is down, weak and discouraged,
the other who is strong can encourage and lift the other person.
God never promises that the road would be easy, but
he promised never to leave or forsake us.
Although life is complicated, let us learn to go easy on
ourselves and trust that God is working it all out for
our good (even if it doesn't make sense now). Whatever trials, challenges or down times we face, all
shall pass, and in due course, we will be up and strong
again to lift up those who may be down around us.
