[b] I Left My Wife for A Sexy Lady,
Now I'm Living Like A Prisoner
– Husband Cries
It is a difficult thing to let out, but I just have to
confess the truth about my stupid love mistake:
I was happily married to my wife for 35 years
and we went through ups and downs together.
We were blessed with very good and brilliant
children - boys and a girl. They all married very
well and had good jobs, thanks to my wife who
prayed without ceasing over them.
Then my wife and I retired and got some lump
sum of money. My wife after praying and fasting,
advised us then to invest in a particular
(legitimate) business, and the yields were just
dumbfounding. I became exhilarated with joy. I
have never seen that much money before. I
joined the ‘billionaires’ club. Suddenly my life
changed. I felt ‘too much:’ for one woman...
I changed my cars, we moved to a choice area in
town. I began to be invited to important places.
Young pretty girls flocked round me. I also kept
company with new friends who were with
younger women.
These young women who could whisper all kinds
of obscenity into my ears to keep me melting
were all over me. I felt like the king of the world.
Money was no problem at all. Then I met one of
these young vivacious, curvy, pretty girls (let’s
call her Dolly) who paid so much attention to
me. She would manicure my nails. Massage me
all over and I ‘fell in love’. She gave me all kinds
of conditions to have her to myself. One of
which was to be married to me.
My wife had never ever done me any wrong. She
supported me through good times and bad times .
When I was really down with loads of burden, she
kept the house and paid the children’s fees and
not one soul knew about it. The children turned
out all well and I knew it was her effort.
Somehow, I cannot really explain what
happened. I visited Dolly and her mother, who
had cooked a sumptuous meal for me. (Dolly’s
mother was about my wife’s age). After I ate and
drank, she started giving me conditions . She was
a divorcee and said she wanted the best for her
daughter. They gave me three months to send
my wife packing or no Dolly. I can't really explain
what happened by I complied.
I got home and started accusing my wife of all
kinds of things. It was from one quarrel to
another. I began to hate her with a passion . I
called family meeting to report her. The list of
her faults were endless - from being overweight,
to being to fanatical - that her prayers were
curses, and my suspecting an affair with her
Pastor and so on and so forth.
She had defended herself successfully through
all the accusations, then she told my people
(who I had bribed to support me), that she knew
what my problem was all about and she would
leave for me to have the young blood I was
running after. We booed her and called her
disrespectful. My younger sister, my wife had
rescued from some terrible situation and trained
like one of our children, slapped my wife. I just
looked on. My wife left the home that day and
she owned majority of the household items, but
she turned her back against all. The children
tried to intervene but I had some better
arguments and lies to win them over temporary.
I paid Dolly’s bride price to some uncles. Sadly, I
only felt like a king for two weeks of honeymoon.
It feels cool having a very pretty girl (like a
beauty queen) next to an old man when we go to
parties. But for me it ends there. I have been
living in hell. Dolly is uncouth, unruly, evil,
doesn’t even know God. Her Mouth is full of
curses. She has been milking me dry .
I cannot even have sexual relations with Dolly
now, I have erectile dysfunction and all other
stuff. Dolly must have boyfriends. But in all
these I am ashamed to complain to a soul .
I miss my godly wife. I miss her gentleness. I
have developed all kinds of ailment as nobody
monitors my food. Yes we have all kinds of
domestic servants. Dolly has acquired houses
and she does not work. She gave me a child (am
I really sure the child is mine, just to cover my
shame) but it is no fun being with that child as I
had with my children or grandchildren.
My children are no longer close to me. Their
mother is very okay. God has always heard her
prayers speedily and a lot of good things have
come her way . She looks happier and younger
without me. You can see that she is a happy and
blessed person.
As for my family members, Dolly drove them
away. I am like a prisoner in my heart and even
my own home. I made a terrible mistake , but
afraid to admit to the world. I am suffering and
smiling. There are things I cannot write in this
letter. Even if Dolly was an angel - I realized that
there is a time for everything in this world. I am
in the Autumn/Winter of my life, it is useless to
be with someone in their Spring/Summer time. In
all honesty, I cannot be like a virile 30-year old.
I would give anything in the world to turn back
the hands of time. I imagine how nice it is to
grow gracefully with the wife of my youth . I envy
couples who weathered the storm and remain
together in their old age. They look so lovely. I
guess they understand themselves better.
I hope I can still have the opportunity to make up
to my wife. I tried to be friendly to her, she just
snubs me and keeps me at arms length. I have
tried to send presents to her. She returns them.
She admits she has forgiven me but does not
want anything to do with me. Ah! God help me,
this life…
by a married man who entered the trap of a
strange woman.
[Source: Glam Squad Magazine]
- There is nothing as good as having a Godly
wife. There are too many olosho around today
pretending to be what they are not. Guys, please
look well and pray seriously to avoid such
mistake.[/b]
