IT HURTS TO LOVE SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T
LOVE YOU
Yeah I know you sent a message to someone
today on Facebook but you got no reply right?
Message got delivered to that person and
definitely he or she saw it but didn’t reply. You
logged out of Facebook to do some work but
when you logged in again you found that they
“saw” it at a certain time but they didn’t bother to
reply. But they’re online and they’re busy updating
their status, commenting and liking different
posts! They just can’t spare some time to text
you back and to chat with you.
When you check the inbox, you see them “typing…”
Then you wonder who they’re texting because you
are not receiving their message. You ask yourself
why s/he can’t reply your messages. You start
asking yourself what you did wrong. You start
saying that maybe they got tired of you. It hurts
so much to be ignored by the person you truly
love with all your heart.
But did you know that sometimes they’re also
facing the same problem as you? Fine they tell
you they love you, miss you… but they have also
got other people they’re interested in. As you’re
chasing them, they’re also busy chasing the other
person who is also ignoring them. They text and
poke them but they get no reply just like you.
They are also going through the same process…
At this point you’re hurt. You’re thinking of giving
up on that person but it’s not that easy. You’re
thinking of giving that person space, unfriend
them or blocking them but your heart still loves
them and you still have hope in them. Every time
you log out you pray to God to touch their hearts
and at least they text you a message but when
you log in again, you never find any message or a
poke from them. You get heart broken, you start
hating Facebook because of that one person! But
seriously why stressing over someone who clearly
shows it that they don’t love you? Why wasting
your time thinking about someone who doesn’t
love you? Okay I understand it’s the too much
love you have for that person but they’re not
interested in you, they don’t love you & you’ll
never force them to love you.
My friend, you’re not too old that you’ll never find
someone who’ll love you. You are still beautiful
and you have got all those special qualities that
someone out there is craving for. Stop stressing
over someone who doesn't love you and cease
wasting your time on someone who intentionally
ignores you. Be strong and let that person go and
Pray to God help you find someone else. Don’t go
into the next year with such kind of stress. Let
the coming New Year be of NEW people, NEW
plans, NEW love…
PS: Now I know some folks are wondering where I
get all this. But the truth is I have ever done this
and they have ever done it to me. I know how it
feels & how it hurts. But for all those people I
have treated in this way, I'm so SORRY. I won’t
mention your names but I know you’re reading
this. Please find a place in your heart to forgive
me. Thanks!
I love y’all and I wish you a blessed festive
season. Don’t forget to take care of yourselves.
