Dear Readers, I met her in a church program in
December last year. I proposed to her
in January and she accepted. my life in
the past 4 months with her has been a
dream come true. I showed her off to
family and friends at will even in facebook. We even attended a
leadership training program for two
weeks where we birthed a business
dream we shall go into as a family. In
fact there was no doubt she was in love
with me. I spent on her within my capacity without feeling regret. giving to
her was a delight. Everything was
perfect until the phone call…. I was on a lunch date with her during a
break from d office when a call came
through her phone. Usually I dont
pokenose into her calls or chats. she
doesnt like it. however, something was different
about this particular call. I noticed she
was uneasy and was kind of trying to
pacify the caller with some excuses
why she didnt pick his/her call ealier. I
got more curios and demanded to know who called. she said it a nobody. I
insisted in knowing who she was
pleading with. finally she spoke. my whole world came
crashing before me. I was speechless
for some time trying to understand the
words I heard from a lady I have given
my heart to. she told me the call was a bolt from her
past. that she has been looking for how
to tell me about it. “I was into women
untill three years ago. the guy who
called has my pics and is threatening to
publish them online to punish me. he wants to link me up to a rich woman but I
told him I dont want so he is threatening
to deal with me”. I was lost for words. was ds my lady? I
was confused. I demanded to speak to
d guy myself. she refused. I wanted to
explode then she gave me d number. I
called d guy and introduced myself and
inquired of d guy if what my woman said was true. at ds point d guy flared up
calling my woman unprintable words. he
angrily told me that my woman came to
him long ago and asked him to hook her
up with a rich woman. that he wants to
punish her for being a lesbian. blah blah blah……so many revelations I cant say
her for respect to my woman. well, the lunch date was ruined already.
I coolly but sternly asked her to go
home from the restaurant. I was boiling
inside. she followed me back to my
office. I turned to see her following and
wanted to blow up when she calmly said ” emmanuel, just know that all ds things
happened in the past. am not proud of it
but I hv moved on. I came to tell u about
it today before d call came in”. with that
she turned and left. ofcourse d rest of
the day wad spoiled for me. for days I didnt call her. she wud call
and end the call when I wouldnt talk
much. I was still in shock. d best friend
called and pleaded. she said my woman
hadnt left her room for days. always
crying non stop. I still love her. I called d guy later and he
claimed he was just playing around. dat
the pictures he claimed to hv hv long
been lost. dat I shud not leave my
woman becos of that. that what he did
dat morning was to check if my woman was still in that game. I didnt believe
him. anyway I tried to move on with my
woman. though I must admit that things
are not d way it used to be. I hv lost d
enthusiasm. I was watching man u match this
afternoon when my phone rang. it was
the same guy. I asked him why he
called. he said called to know why am
not talking to my woman. I got angry
andtold him to stay clear of my life. I cut the call. he then sent me a message that
he would like t send me a link to a
website so I would get to know whovmy
woman truely is. I called my girl and warned her to ask
her friend to leave me alone. I want to break up from her. pls is ds the
right thing to do? pls I typed this with a phone to pardon
some of my errors.
