Welcome to Nigerian campuses where little girls are practising 'wifely functions'!
Just visit the boys' hostels and you would be disappointed to find out that it is
now common for a girl to live in with a course mate. It is now common for her
lover to give her the popular compliment 'you look sexy my gal' and she would
gladly reply 'thank you honey' with a flirty voice and a romantic smile. Who is
her lover? A 300 level student whose CGPA is barely up to 1.78! And they are
aiming for the next best couple award for the session by the departmental
association. So, the girl need to live in with him to prepare along.
What nonsense! It seems that some girls suddenly loose their senses immediately
they gain admission. I've seen that some of them have no more sense of caution,
honour and dignity. They would change their wardrobes and acquire a new set of
make ups just to look 'campussy' and sexy enough for the guys. In months, they
would start sleeping around with little boys. I mean boys who collect pocket
money from their uncles! Dirty boys who most of the time are infected with
sexually transmitted diseases. Hey! I want you to know that you were sent to
school to obtain a degree not a disease. The campus is called a school; school not
sex! You are on campus to receive education not ejaculation. You are here to
master the use of a pen not the pleasures of a penis. Wake up girl! Do some
thinking. Your future is greater than the 'best couple award'.
You cook for a boy you are more intelligent than. You give your virginity to a
boy who will definitely leave you after graduation. You play wife to a boy who
cannot even care for himself. Oh, you have given too much. Enough! Open
your eyes! Can't you see you're being foolish? You are passing through the
fears of unwanted pregnancies yet you are opening your legs to a coward who
cannot stand before your father. And when you eventually get pregnant, he
would brutally advise you to abort it and you would timidly agree; then face the
consequences later. What a shame! You may master the use of condoms but you
can't master the punishment of your conscience.
Don't you know you are bringing shame to your family? Don't you know that
you are cursing your mother by accepting to sleep with a boy (not even a man)
without her consent? I cautioned a girl against sleeping around and she replied
'Sir, I don't sleep around; its only one boyfriend I have and am faithful to
him'. What impunity! That's classified harlotry. And don't you know that
sleeping with a man without your father's blessings is bringing a curse to your
future? What happened to your cultural values? Somewhere in your heart you
know he would use you and dump you; so why are you setting up yourself for a
heartbreak? I want to remind you that you are a lady and one day you may get
married. And your husband would know that you are such a dirty bitch who sleeps
with anything on trousers. The greatest gift a lady would give to her husband on
the wedding night is her virginity not the certificate of best couple of the year on
campus! The other gifts for the rest of her life are her care and character not her
curves and complexion! Real men know this; so, get it screwed in!
Those treacherous boys would call you 'sexy' and you would answer? Oh,
sorry! They touch your breast and you would smile? They would ask you out and
you would oblige? Oh, you are indeed a mistake. Am not saying that you should
be rude or never live a 'social life' but I want you to think deeper than you are
currently doing. I want to turn your attention back to your books. You are not in
school for breast exhibition. So, pay less attention to those boobs and give more
attention to your books! You are not in school for cat walking show. You are
rather here to show us the dignity of womanhood. You are here to prove to us
that you are costly. So, why make yourself so cheap?
I am writing this with both love and pain in my heart and that's why am sounding
stern. I want you to look beyond now and think of what advise you would give
your own daughter when you become a mother. I hope I have not offended
you...if I have, please repent.
To the decent girls I have seen on campus: do not be swayed by these evil. Be
consistent and keep celebrating your purity. I am always proud of you. And God
is more proud of you. Please share this message with all your friends on this
campus and let's restore some sanity.
Rev. Kay says,good morning to you all
