The Best Couple of the Year
Welcome to Nigerian campuses where little
girls are practising 'wifely functions'! Just
visit the boys' hostels and you would be
disappointed to find out that it is now
common for a girl to live in with a course
mate. It is now common for her lover to give
her the popular compliment 'you look sexy
my gal' and she would gladly reply 'thank
you honey' with a flirty voice and a romantic
smile. Who is her lover? A 300 level student
whose CGPA is barely up to 1.78! And they
are aiming for the next best couple award
for the session by the departmental
association. So, the girl need to live in with
him to prepare along.
What nonsense! It seems that some girls
suddenly loose their senses immediately
they gain admission. I've seen that some of
them have no more sense of caution, honour
and dignity. They would change their
wardrobes and acquire a new set of make
ups just to look 'campussy' and sexy enough
for the guys. In months, they would start
sleeping around with little boys. I mean boys
who collect pocket money from their uncles!
Dirty boys who most of the time are infected
with sexually transmitted diseases. Hey! I
want you to know that you were sent to
school to obtain a degree not a disease. The
campus is called a school; school not sex!
You are on campus to receive education not
ejaculation. You are here to master the use
of a pen not the pleasures of a penis. Wake
up girl! Do some thinking. Your future is
greater than the 'best couple award'.
You cook for a boy you are more intelligent
than. You give your virginity to a boy who
will definitely leave you after graduation. You
play wife to a boy who cannot even care for
himself. Oh, you have given too much.
Enough! Open your eyes! Can't you see
you're being foolish? You are passing
through the fears of unwanted pregnancies
yet you are opening your legs to a coward
who cannot stand before your father. And
when you eventually gets pregnant, he would
brutally advise you to abort it and you would
timidly agree; then face the consequences
later. What a shame! You may master the
use of condoms but you can't master the
punishment of your conscience.
Don't you know you are bringing shame to
your family? Don't you know that you are
cursing your mother by accepting to sleep
with a boy (not even a man) without her
consent? I cautioned a girl against sleeping
around and she replied 'Sir, I don't sleep
around; its only one boyfriend I have and am
faithful to him'. What impunity! That's
classified harlotry. And don't you know that
sleeping with a man without your father's
blessings is bringing a curse to your future?
What happened to your cultural values?
Somewhere in your heart you know he would
use you and dump you; so why are you
setting up yourself for a heartbreak? I want
to remind you that you are a lady and one
day you may get married. And your husband
would know that you are such a dirty bitch
who sleeps with anything on trousers. The
greatest gift a lady would give to her
husband on the wedding night is her virginity
not the certificate of best couple of the year
on campus! The other gifts for the rest of
her life are her care and character not her
curves and complexion! Real men know this;
so, get it screwed in!
Those treacherous boys would call you
'sexy' and you would answer? Oh, sorry!
They touch your breast and you would
smile? They would ask you out and you
would oblige? Oh, you are indeed a mistake.
Am not saying that you should be rude or
never live a 'social life' but I want you to
think deeper than you are currently doing. I
want to turn your attention back to your
books. You are not in school for breast
exhibition. So, pay less attention to those
boobs and give more attention to your
books! You are not in school for cat walking
show. You are rather here to show us the
dignity of womanhood. You are here to prove
to us that you are costly. So, why make
yourself so cheap?
I am writing this with both love and pain in
my heart and that's why am sounding stern. I
want you to look beyond now and think of
what advise you would give your own
daughter when you become a mother. I hope
I have not offended you...if I have, please
repent.
To the decent girls I have seen on campus:
do not be swayed by these evil. Be
consistent and keep celebrating your purity. I
am always proud of you. And God is more
proud of you. Please share this message
with all your friends on this campus and
let's restore some sanity.
