NO RELATIONSHIP IS PERFECT IN THIS WORLD
When I look back at all the relationships I have been through
that didn't
work out and when I listen to stories from people who come
to me for
counsel, indeed relationships aren’t easy at all. You can find
someone
regretting and crying because their partner doesn’t give them
their time
and attention. And again you can also find another person
having their
partner’s full time and attention but crying for their bad
behaviors like
disrespect and being abusive. Then you can also find
someone
quitting the relationship because their partner cheated on
them, made
a mistake or because of some misunderstandings. But again
when
they move on they find it worse with the new person they
relate with.
It’s like escaping death at the ocean and it hits you up at the
shores.
Relationship problems are like rain because it rains
everywhere. They
break boundaries. They don't matter whether someone is a
celebrity, a
politician, a billionaire, a wizard in something, or a love doc,
everyone
encounters them.
Meaning—if you are with someone who at least makes you
happy in
any possible way they can or who at least makes 50% of what
you
want in a partner, please stick with them and try to deal with
their
other imperfections.
If all you think of is dropping and picking a new relationship all
the
time you face misunderstandings or when something that you
want
isn’t happening at the exact time take for instance marriage,
then trust
me you might end up searching forever. You will always be
having
relationships that will last for only few months or one year and
you
jump out. But remember too much of your time and energy will
be
wasted.
If you are looking for Mr. or Miss. Perfect, trust me you will
never find
them in this world. Everyone has their bad side which can
make a
relationship go bad. We just have to learn and understand
each other,
to be patient to one another, and to appreciate what God gives
us.
Otherwise, there isn’t a perfect relationship in this world. Even
the
people we see who seem to have it all also face relationship
problems.
They face pain, they get used and they cry for love.
Sometimes we just
have to hold on to what we have. If we keep looking for that
special or
angel like person we shall never find them. Think about it!
