Never cheat, if you are in a long term
relationship with someone you love, it is never
worth it and these things will always resurface.
Take care of yourself. Treating yourself with
respect and love is as important as respecting
and loving your partner.
Trying to control a situation or person will only
leave you feeling out of control. Relax and let
things happen organically.
Trust is very important; if you don't trust
somebody there's no point of being with them.
The first thing you should know is, find what
you love about him/her, what made you fall in
love with him/her. And love him/her with all
your heart, treasure every moment, and treat
him/her the way he/she should be treated.
Don't change for them when you go into a
relationship. They liked you for what you were
then - don't feel you have to act dramatically
different. Just be comfortable.
Never be anything other than yourself around
them. If you don't show them all of you, they
can't love all of you.
Avoid flirting with others, especially previous
partners. Doing so may spur romantic feelings
for another.
Allow your partner to WANT to love you. Don't
pressure them into buying this and that,
kissing you at this time etc Your partner has to
want to do these things. It makes things more
real and less of you feeling like you're forcing
them to love you.
Strike while the iron is cold. Know when to be
reflective and invoke principles. When the
house is burning is no time to teach fire safety
principles.
Make sure to see and understand their point of
view even if you don't agree with it.
Know when to say no, and know when time
and space are actually constructive tools.
Don't assume the worst or doubt him/her. It's
all about trust.
Ask questions, clarify, and don't assume. Do
not talk if your mind is not clear or is full of
anger. When you feel hurt, do not say "it's
your fault / you never loved me" or "let's break
up" or "when do you want to break up?". You
might well regret it one day. Tell him or her
you feel hurt, and ask for clarification first, if
you don't work together and just blame, it can
only do harm. Never just withdraw this always
causes more harm than good.
Never expect too much,make your partner feel
good about him/herself.
All good relationships are based upon mutual
respect. If you do not feel respect for your
partner, or believe your partner is losing
respect for you, then consider ways of
rebuilding it immediately. Respect is the key. If
you have true respect for one another, then
nothing can go wrong. You have to learn
respect, sometimes it can take a while to
achieve this, but if they love you it will come.
Don't drag up the past, especially when it is
something that has been resolved. It should
stay buried and should not have to surface
again.
If there are trust issues in the relationship,
keep honest, considerate, communication
between both of you. Without being able to
effectively communicate, this keeps trust an
issue.
No matter what, never take your anger out on
your partner. Even if he/she is the reason of
this mood. It will only make things worse if
you let them feel horrible!
Comfort each other when needed.
Don't be clingy.
Don't act like an obsessive control freak that
follows him around to see what he does and
what girls he hangs out with...let him know
that you trust him and know that he won't do
anything behind your back.
Never lie, it always comes back and hurts you
one day! Even if its small and useless, always
be honest! Honesty, no matter if it hurts at
first will ALWAYS make the situation better off
in the end.
Never hide any problems with him/her. In a
healthy relationship, you both need to share
your problems and feelings with each other.
Compromise makes relations stronger than
other methods.
Never rush your significant other into things
that they aren't ready for.
In any given situation the only thing you can
control is yourself. If there is a problem don't
expect your significant other to handle it on
their own, YOU start working on it, and
hopefully they will help you.
Always be there for them when they need you.
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