1.Celebrate “His” Day
Once a month, you can designate a day when
he can become king for 24 hours. Do it in
“his-and-hers” fashion to be fair. On his
special day, he can have an erotic massage,
be served breakfast in bed and be the passive
partner during sex. The same should apply
when it’s your turn. You may want to wait
until his birthday comes around before you do
something special. With this gesture, you can
make sure that you remind your partner that
you’re a couple every once in a while.
2.Celebrate Your Anniversary – By The Month
This may seem corny (and often, expensive),
but reminding each other how long you have
been together may help you both understand
that you’re in it for the long haul. Also,
remembering that times when you were still
dating may help improve your romance and
how you treat each other. Bake a cake or
bring home something special during that day.
Make sure it’s something you don’t usually
do. If he’s into pasta, make a full-course
dinner with pasta as the main dish. If he’s
into grilling, you can prepare a week in
advance and plan a grill-fest on your month
3.Kinky Thoughts
When you’re just lazing about on a weekend
night and relaxing together, you can talk to
him about your se’x fantasies. Tell him what
turns you on, and if he doesn’t take the hint,
load the video that got you turned on so he
can see for himself.
A perverted train of thought is usually
associated with males, which makes it a
surprising novelty when the woman starts
showing signs of being kinky. But remember to
act on your fantasies as soon as you mention
them. Talking is the way to begin a kinky
night of fantasizing with your partner. But you
have to act on one of your fantasies that
night, or the gesture is wasted. Simply saying
“let’s try it” will get him going.[hupso]