Ladies see the signs before saying i do
the rate at which the female folks a complaining about men ad marriage in this age is so alarming....many have come 2 a conclusion dat "al men a the same",they a wicked and al sort and have transfered this mentality 2 the upcoming genration...
Many because its often believed by them that LOVE is blind has igorantly accepted the proposal they are nt ment 2 accept.few years into the marriage,they will see dat love isnt blind as they thought.
That he has a promising future,handsome look or seem compatible with ur desires z nt enough to make him the right spouse for u...
SEE THE SIGNS!
Its often true that change is inevitable in life but their a signs that could have given you a hint of what the future will look like if you did nt ignore them.if your physical eyes cant see them,then engaging your inner eyes would be of a great help 2 u.
What a these signs
Abusive:
A man cant know the worth of a woman in his life if he doesnt knw her purpose...owning 2 this, he do abuse her physical or verbally.
Any man that gets annoyed when both of you talks and bangs the table or hits the walls would someday turn you into a punching bag in marriage.No man in his right senses should slap a woman or hit her.but its quite unfortunate dat some ladies ignore signs like this,believing that he wil change...my dear it wil only become worse.verbal abuse is another sign you should look out for..if he shouts,yell ur name,then their z no indication that he will stop dat when you get married.you dont have the power to change him only God can.
CHEATING:
Cheating is a lifesytle, you can nt reduce the effect of a poisoneous substance by changing its container.
A man that cheats before marriage will definately remain a cheat after marriage unless God works on him... Dont think marrying him would make him change, not even his promise z enough 2 change him.if he cheats on you emotionally ad sexually its best you take a step out of the releationship before you seel up your life with him.if he cant embrace sexual fidelity nothing will make him be faithful in marriage.look before u leap,he does it once, its a mistake,but when its more than once its a habit.
LIES:
It is highly intorable to live with a lier because ur life z nt safe with him.infact marriage built on lies cannot stand the test of time nor wil it thrive.
You knw next to nothing about his fears,visions, past ad purpose,then its advisable nt to journey with him in marriage.seek 2 knw the truth by finding.its nt lack of trust to varify information in a relationship.remember in the mouth of two or more witness,the truth z established.dont be carried away by sweet taks,flatterings....marriage thrive better on truth than lies.
HOW CAN U SEE THE SIGNS
You dont need a counselor to get counsel.their a times the voice of men could seem the voice of God.
Do you listen 2 to the voice of ur parents,peers....dont be blinded by love.their a things you will never see because u a in love.
Now have u prayerfully considered his proposal before accept it,if he tries 2 play smart,their is a God that can reveal the secret intend of a man.
Dont allow love to becloud your emotional senses.listen to counsels, dont ignore the warnings......ABOVE ALL PRAY FOR IT IS THE KEY!
Wow! A very big thank u 2 everyone that stopped by..... Happy new year in advance.
