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Sex in Relationship, what role those it play?

Sex in Relationship, what role those it play?

By GeeAdore in 5 Jan 2016 | 13:51
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Hello fellow coolvalers i have always got this question on my mind whenever i stomp through relationship talk.
Is it a must to have sex during relationship?
Am always bugged with that question and i always ask myself;
What is Role of sex in relationship?
What those sex really mean?
Is sex really important in relationship?
Those sex helps to build/hold relationship?
Should sex be the main reasons to stay in relationship?........ and lot more.
I know so many people out there always ask themselves this questions.
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seriously i need sincere and matured answers.
Thanks
5 Jan 2016 | 13:51
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To Be Sincere In Nigeria,a Relationship Without Sex Won't Last Cus Guys Naw Adays Are Naw Sex Freaks. . . . . .But I Know Say My @Invincible No Be Like Dat Abi I Lie Ni. . . .
5 Jan 2016 | 14:55
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Relationships mustn't be sèx filled before they work out. Whats needed is the understanding an agreement of both parties :) of course darling, i'm not like that o @mizleemah
5 Jan 2016 | 15:05
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[b]Sex is a means of showinq true love to ur soul mate(mostly a lady and man that has exchanqe vows) Since both of you are datinq, sex shldnt be d primary thinq to hold on... People hold the veiw dat sex in relationship strenqhtens the relationship..... Biblical... Sex in relationship, is very wronq.... It destroys relationship and dreamz and create room 4 hatred[/b]
5 Jan 2016 | 15:21
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Sex is met for married couples only.
5 Jan 2016 | 16:12
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Am a culprit u dunt xpect me to cast maself
5 Jan 2016 | 16:29
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[b]My lovely sister @geeadore sex isn't the main thing in a relationship....... Even in marriage.... Truely.... God created sex as a means of showing love and making children...but it's met for married couple..... The main thing that hold a relationship is love and trust..... Those two will carry a relationship for years without sex... But a relationship based on sex will always fail.... Sex doesn't hold anything in a non-marriage relationship...... It's just for fun among them..... . . . @mizleemah a relationship without sex that doesn't last isn't because it lacks sex.... It's because it lacks love..... What about sexual relationship that doesn't last.... What's the problem there then? So... If A guy leaves a lady because she doesn't give him sex.... Then he doesn't love that lady..... The best non-marriage relationship is the one that hold together without sex..... Relationships are met for preparation or knowing each other before marriage.... Not to taste each other before marriage..... . . Don't get me wrong.... It's your decision to make if you want sex before marriage.... Everyone has the right to his or her belief... But a relationship shouldn't be built on sex alone.... The Bone of a relationship should be Trust and love . . . Hope I have cleared your worry @geeadore? . . . [color =orange]vicky loves you :)[/color][/b]
7 Jan 2016 | 11:25
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Hmmmm...this question i must say that it z a complicating one...my reason: sometimes we fall inlove deeply with some one and u knw that the person loves us back,so u might say that u dont want sex bt when ever u are with d person u will like to touch d person and hold d person tight and u might kiss and romance then sex z on d way when u both get carried away... Sex do make bond btw man and woman to be strong...bt it z meant for married people... And remember when u are inlove u will always ave to sacrifice sometin...love must not base on sex to be succesful bt sex ave it own impact to play in love...sex z d fruit of love bt bible forbids us not to do it untill we get married....so my dear z better to be single than to be in the relationship that u pt condition of NO SEX btw u both..
7 Jan 2016 | 11:39
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7 Jan 2016 | 12:04
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Where is my sweetheart now @ele1... Come and gv dem the right answer oooo.....
7 Jan 2016 | 12:14
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Sex is not compulsory in any relationship, so if you are going to have it, it takes two to tangle
7 Jan 2016 | 12:19
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Hmmm,nowadays hardly do u see relationship that sex arnt involved into it
7 Jan 2016 | 12:20
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Hmmm,nowadays hardly do u see relationship that sex is'nt involved into it....
7 Jan 2016 | 12:21
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i think aunty vicky has said it all...
7 Jan 2016 | 12:28
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Actually people believed in no sex till marriage, bt alas guyz of nowadays all believed in sex, they say so far u re my girlfriend i have every rights to ur body, dey see it in dat way, now talking abt sex in relationship, sex in a relationship dosent last, unless they are both sex freak, nd no mata wat, dey will sure always hav a misunderstanding dat would leads to breakup. Typical of me, i believed in no sex till marriage. Am pure though i must confess, am nt a saint bt still d humble me. @victoriouschild dearie cum and share ur view on this
7 Jan 2016 | 12:38
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Hmm right was made for left and left was made for right.Everthing is there for a reason.If adam didn't have eve,he wouldn't have a patner and if he didn't have eve,he wouldn't leave paradise.So like yoruba people will say aditu ni oro olohun.It means no one can explain god doings As for sex in marriage,its in the hands of couples.But the only advice I can give is that,the girl is the one that owns the call bcus it is a girls pride to be virgin but virginity is a stupid tin for a guy Thank you
7 Jan 2016 | 12:38
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@GeeAdore Sex isn't a must-be occurrence in a relationship and it shouldn't be the main reasons to stay in relationship. I've come across spouse who dated for a couple of years before tying the knot without having sex during the course of the relationship. It behooves on what both parties want and their agreement. Whereas sex is not the bedrock of a successful relationship, its also a key factor in any relationship. It tends to build and boost the level of love and affection between spouse and connects two people in love in a very special way. [b]The feeling is superb! LOL[/b] A relationship void of sex would create some unnecessary assumptions and insinuation like "How am I sure he/she is faithful", "He/she could be getting it elsewhere". This could breed suspicion between lovers.Sex in a relationship is a form of commitment. [b]A kind of Security![/b] Research has it that sex has a way of refreshing people and tends to make ones skin glow and looks good (Who wouldn't want a radiating and glowing skin LOL). it also relieves pain and headache and it also boost ones intelligence. Now isn't this enough advantage to having sex. But Fellas, Please don't see me as one bad guy. Infact, am the churchy, highly religious and morally sound guy. [b]Remember, the holy scriptures warned against fornication. "Flee fornication and Adultery" it says. It even admonished that "such should not be mentioned amongst you"[/b]
7 Jan 2016 | 12:47
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Sweetheart @whizjay I have nothing else to say because the ladies have said it all
7 Jan 2016 | 13:21
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before ....it wasn't now.....it is.....most of the time if you date a guy who's been use to having sex in the past...the relationship might not last if you refuse him sex............. most guys and even girls of now adays are so use to sex that they now have sex like its food.... sex doesn't make relationships strong if you give your partner sex...... he won't be able to stop asking....by the time he/she bleep and bleep and bleep.... you guys will get bored of each other and would want to explore others and eventually break up will occur... so if break ups still occurs with or without sex... the best choice should be ABSTINENCE an avalanche of factors can cause break ups apart from sex and I'm sure my Bible calls sex before marriage fornication you guys can ask my BAE(boli and epa) @iksqueency how we both had a strong dating relationship without sex for ten years with no sex but now.....we re having the best of it twice per day
7 Jan 2016 | 15:16
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Ahhhhh....@ele1..... Nothing to say
7 Jan 2016 | 15:32
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Be truthful to yourself it is important if not why have that kind of a relationship
7 Jan 2016 | 15:51
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Hmmmmm follow my words not my character........iz zokay.......well spoken
8 Jan 2016 | 03:32
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...........
8 Jan 2016 | 05:19
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Thanks guyz am really impressed nd satisfied wit all ur comments. @pharm-vickymears yea u'v done justice to it Ma.
8 Jan 2016 | 15:47
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Sex means nothing....
1 May 2016 | 12:17
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