[color=orange][size=60][b]Good day wonderful people of coolvaller's..
I WELCOME YOU ALL TO SEX RELATIONSHIP..[/b][/size][/color]
[b]Lets be honest,no body was born knowing how to
have sex,most of the techniques we have
learned are from ex-partners,friends,or simply
from spending a lonely night at home learning
from the internet..we want to make it easer for
you to know what to do and what not to do
during sex..[/b]
[color=maroon]OUR TODAY'S TOPIC IS :- DOS AND DONT'S OF
SEX[\color]
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[color=red]CONTENTS[\color]
[n]1) Meaning of dos and don'ts of sex
2)Dos and don'ts of sex for first timers(virgins)
3)Dos and don'ts for a good sex
4)Dos and don'ts for safe sex.[/n]
1) [b][color=red]MEANING OF DOS AND DON'TS OF SEX:[\color]
It simply means,the rules or customs concerning
sex . it's important to know the DOS and DON'TS
of it(what to do and what not to do during sex)[/b]
2)[color=red]DOS AND DON'TS FOR FIRST TIMERS:[\color]
[b]Thinking of having sex for the first time? It’s
normal to be nervous. All first-timers face the
same kind of anxiety. We’d like your first time to
be pleasant and memorable, so here are our top
tips to help you overcome some of your nerves.[/b]
[b]1.Be comfortable:
Your first time having inter course should be with
someone you trust and like or love. You
shouldn’t have sex under any kind of pressure –
whether it’s from your partner or your peers. You
should make this choice by yourself and feel
comfortable with it.
Once you’re sure about wanting to lose your
virginity, you can think of a comfortable place
and time to do it. It should be somewhere both
of you can have enough time before and after
sex – a place where you won’t be disturbed.
2.Build up slowly:
Take your time to relax and be comfortable
around each other. Sex is not just about
penetration. Foreplay is an essential part of sex.
Kiss, caress, hug and touch each other in ways
you enjoy.Do everything you can to turn each
other on.
If you’re a woman about to lose your virginity,
you’re probably worried that sex will be painful.
But it doesn’t have to be if you’re well-
lubricated. Of course women become wet
naturally when they are aroused, so it’s
important to take the time to get really turned on
before he puts his penis in your vagina. A water-
based lubricant can also make the process
easier.
3.Pay attention to your partner:
It’s vital to communicate during sex. You can do
so by talking to each other sensually or by
making gestures or with eye contact. The key is
to always be aware of your partner’s feelings.
This way you will know whether your partner
enjoys what you’re doing or not.
4.Say ‘no’ if you’ve changed your mind:
While you’re in bed with your partner, you might
want change your mind about going all the way.
If you do, feel brave enough to speak up. You
have every right to say no at any time. If your
partner truly cares for and loves you, he or she
will stand by your choice and give you as much
time as you need to be OK with losing your
virginity.
5.Don’t Forget contraception:
Use a condom and preferably another form of
birth control. While condoms protect you against
sexually transmitted diseases, the contraceptive
will safeguard you against pregnancy in case the
condom rips or slips.
6.Don't Do it if you’re too drunk:
While a little bit of alcohol can help you break
the ice and start a conversation, too much of it
can impair your judgment. You might regret your
actions the next morning. Being drunk could also
carry other risks such as forgetting to use
condoms or contraceptives.
7. Don't Have very high expectations:
Don’t assume that first-time sex will be earth-
shattering. Most likely, it won’t. Sex gets better
as you get to know a person over time and build
a lasting relationship with them. So if first-time
sex doesn’t end up being as exciting as you
imagined it to be, don’t fret. This is just the
beginning![\b]
3)[color=red]DOS AND DON'TS FOR A GOOD SEX[\color]
[b]This are the things you need to know,if you really
want to have a good sex..*wink*
1.DO make it obvious that you are enjoying
yourself. No, I don’t mean massive orgasmic
screams. A couple of moans here and there
wouldn’t go amiss though. Eventually your
partner will able to read you and know exactly
what you want, and when you want it! Of course,
it’s a learning process, so make it as easy as
possible for your partner
2.DON’T tell your partner to cum for you. Yes, I
know you have their best intentions at heart
when you say it, but honestly, it isn’t really going
to help matters. No matter how much you tell
your partner to cum it just isn’t going to happen.
You actually need to give them pleasure for it to
work. To cap it off, they may think they are
going too slow and as a result become fairly
disheartened.
3.DON’T stick to one sex position. Honestly, it
becomes boring. I knew a girl whose guy didn’t
know how to do anything other than the
missionary. That relationship didn’t last long at
all. Likewise, don’t do anything too long.
4.DO pace yourself. Foreplay helps with the
pleasure of sex, trust me. So many people rush
sex, and it isn’t meant to be like that. It is meant
to be an intimate and romantic experience, so try
to make it last as long as possible. It honestly
won’t last long if that penis is straight in the
vagina as soon as those trousers come off.
Guys, I am looking at you for this one.
5.DON’T force your partner into doing something
that they don’t want to do. Many people do this
and they wonder why the sex isn’t pleasurable!
This means no begging, really, no begging. If you
beg long enough then the partner will give in, but
you don’t want that. Show that you care for
them, let them enjoy sex too!
6.DO wash before sex. I know this isn’t always
possible, but please try. There is nothing worse
than having sex with a dirty man or woman.
Remember, it is your private parts which are
going to smell the worse. Show your partner that
you take pride in your appearance and shower!
7.DON’T force a woman’s head onto your penis
whilst she is giving head. Remember, she isn’t
giving a BJ for her benefit, in fact, she is
probably getting nothing out of it. If you ‘force’
her, then it won’t be pleasurable at all and she
will be very reluctant to do it next time!
8.DO inject a bit of imagination into your sex. It
stops it becoming boring
9.DON’T expect anything sexually that you aren’t
willing to give back. Guys, this means that if a
woman gives you a BJ, she deserves some
tongue action in return.
10.DO make eye contact with the person you are
making love to. It really adds to the romantic
nature of the situation, which makes everything
that much more pleasurable!
11.DO put a bit of effort into looking and feeling
your best before sex. This goes for guys and
girls. If you feel good about yourself you will
honestly feel so much more confident before the
passionate love making begins.
12.Guys-DO learn how to make a girl orgasm.
Honestly, a girl will not orgasm unless you know
how to do it. If she is in the middle of an orgasm
and you have done nothing but penetrate her,
she is most likely faking it in order to please you.
The next time you sex her up, let her know that
you now know what you are doing.
13. Do hold off the sex for a while. You don’t
need to have sex every single day. Trust me, the
next time you have sex, it will be all the more
pleasurable as a result. See if you can hold off
for 2 weeks!
14.DO tease your partner a little. Play with him
or her. Guys, if your woman shouts ‘Harder and
Faster’. Why not slow down a little? This is surely
going to cause her to moan in pleasure.[\b]
4)[color=red]DOS AND DON'TS FOR SAFE SEX[\color]
These days safe sex is a must not an
option . sexual transmitted disease (STDS)can
have long-lasting effect on your health..
THIS ARE WHAT YOU NEED TO Do TO HAVE A
SAFE SEX;[/b]
1. [b]USE A CONDOM:
it will protect from STDS and other
infections and it also help in birth control instead
of pills..
2. LIMIT SEXUAL PARTNERS:
The more sexual partners you have,the higher
your risk for STDS and pregnancy..
3. BE HONEST WITH YOUR PARTNER:
Always tell him or her when ever you notice any
presence of infection in your body
4.GET CHECKED FOR STDS REGULARLY:
Not all STDS have symptoms,so regular checkups
from your doctor can help[/b]
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THE END
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[b]WRITTEN BY :
@onahsunday631
@tomilayoadebukola
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[b]@RELATIONSHIP CREW
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MOTTO : Living out your[/b] dreams.[\b]
