Please I need an advice from
matured minds. I met this young beautiful
damsel about two weeks ago. We exchanged
phone numbers and we started working
things out on phone.
Six days ago, she came visiting with a
younger girl. We just cracked some jokes
together, watched some movies, had a
lengthy conversation and she left.
Her next visit was 4 days ago, and she came
all alone. I was so happy, as I was thinking of
visiting her honey pot, but it didn’t happen
that day. We did everything except s3x as
she said she was not ready to give me that
day. I had earlier learned she is having her
SIWES programme in that town, and would
end it by December, so I need not to put her
in a rush, knowing my time would come
soon.
She promised to be around again on
Saturday. At about 10am she arrived again.
After some play we left for bedroom, started
kissing and she willingly allowed me to pull
off her trousers. As I wanted to penetrate,
she made some sounds which I thought was
normal due to the penetration. Before I
could even p3netrate, she fainted.
I didn’t know what to do, I was so confused
and afraid. It was as if she was dead, no part
of the body was moving, no supply of
oxygen! I have had s3x with many girls
without such occurrence. I have never seen
such but I only heard about it occasionally.
I shouted, wailed, cried but she was not
moving. My neighbor in the other flat had
travelled to Minna on Friday and my place is
far from where I could get a transit system.
I thought of what I could do, I couldn’t even
think, memory blurred. I went straight to the
bathroom, brought out a pail of water
poured it all over her, began to beat, slap
her, praying, confused, blowing air into her
ears, pressing her cheeks, doing all what I
could do.
Suddenly, she came to life but couldn’t talk. I
tried to make her sit or stand she could not,
she was weak. I wanted to take her to the
hospital, but her body, cloth, undies were
soaked with water I poured on her, only her
trouser which I pulled off earlier was dry,
and besides there was no vehicle at my
disposal. I tried to make her sit directly
opposite the fan, away from the bed on the
rug. She couldn’t still move her hands well,
tired still, and couldn’t talk, couldn’t open her
mouth. I pressed her cheeks, difficult to
open her mouth.
Again she fainted the second time, lying like
a dead person. Again, I poured her more
water, beat her, did all kind of things,
prayed. Again she regained consciousness
but couldn’t still talk. I pressed her cheeks so
hard, she cried. I made her to talk by force.
She was weak, I made her to stand with my
support. She would want to lose her mind
again, but I would slap her and would come
back. I made sure I didn’t allow her to rest, I
engaged her with talk which she was too
tired to reply.
After sometime, I took her to the bathroom,
bathed her, didn’t allow her to sit. She asked
for water but I didn’t give her. She told me
she was cold so I put off the fan. She began
to feel conscious and could identify me and
talk again.
I told her we would visit a general hospital,
and she refused saying she was okay. She
needed rest, but I didn’t allow her to sleep,
because I was afraid she might lose
consciousness again.
At about 3pm, she has started to feel much
better. I was happy to hear she was hungry, I
fried plantain and cooked noodles. She ate
so well, and afterwards spread her clothes
outside to dry. After eating, she was feeling
sleepy, I was afraid to allow her sleep. We
moved to the living room because
everywhere in the bedroom was soaked with
water. She laid on the tiles and slept but I
was with her monitoring her, though I knew
she was conscious enough. I woke her up at
some minutes past 5. She was looking as
agile as before.
It was just by the Grace of God, I don’t know
where I would have been. God indeed
intervened, despite being a sinner, he heard
my supplication and cry.
After she was awake and feeling fine again. I
asked about her past similar experience.
She made me to understand that she
had a similar experience with her first
boyfriend, and even her second boyfriend
and that I was the third person. She
concluded that the reason is that she’s afraid
of sex. I don’t believe that, I think there’s
more to it. And I also inquired if she has ever
told her parents or elders sisters about that,
she said no, that she’s always afraid to tell
them because she’s only 20 and they would
scold her.
I instructed her and gave her transport fare
to travel home yesterday, Sunday in other to
inform her parents, she initially refused but
later admitted to do that. She later felt better
on that Saturday and left my place at about
6:30pm.
Please people, have you heard of this kind of
situation? What do i do? Will it affect me in
any way? Is it spiritual?
Please i need matured input. Thanks
