[b]STRICTLY FOR LADIES!!
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10 WAYS TO SPOT A WRONG GUY:
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In view of the above, most ladies finds it difficult
& challenging to easily identify guys/men who
are not serious in relationships but only want to
attain their personal avaricious desiderata after
which they'll flee & thus, bringing to fore
heartbreaks & emotional trauma. Some tips are
to be adhered to in order to be able to spot &
know when a BAD EGG approaches you or
probably got caught up with you in a web of
dalliance.
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Below are few tips to keep a jealous eyes upon
for your own safety;
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1) Any guy who cannot delay gratification but
wants everything from you even before marriage
needs to be watched. He wants early sex,
undivided attention and adoration, he is all over
you all the time and is extremely jealous, he
disrespects your values in life and your opinion
does not really count; he wants you to
disconnect from your friends and family
members and focus only on him.
Such guy is a wrong guy!
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2) Any guy who finds it difficult to be open or
transparent to you and avoid talking about his
past relationships, failures, financial challenges,
emotional problems and is very good at
concealing negative things about himself to
make a good impression, must be re-assessed
before you commit. Relationships cannot grow
without transparency.
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3) Any man who cannot take responsibility for
his life but blames everyone for his challenges
except himself is not worth your hand in
marriage! He may also not take responsibility for
his marriage!
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4) A man who is a fault-finder and a
perfectionist is difficult to please. In his world,
there is no room for mistakes of any magnitude
and if you make a mistake, be ready for harsh
criticism. On the other hand, if he is good at
messing up everything around him, unfortunately
he could mess up your life too!
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5) Never consider getting married to a lazy man
who does not have a realistic vision for his life!
A man who is going nowhere will lead his wife
nowhere! A man’s responsibility is to provide
leadership and direction to his family! On the
other hand, when a woman with vision marries a
man without vision, she naturally becomes the
leader of the home which will eventually lead to
conflict or disorder! Believe me; it does not work
out well in marriage!
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6) Never marry a man who does not have a
relationship with God unless you too do not have
one. A man who loves and respect the Lord will
love and respect you in obedience to the Lord!
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7) Be mindful of a man who is hot tempered, if
he flares up because of things that are not
significant or at a slightest provocation, it might
be dangerous getting married to him unless he
changes. Any man with this trait could be
aggressive, physically abusive and unpredictable
in marriage. A man who cannot control his
temper is a time-bomb waiting to happen!
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8) A guy, who lives beyond his means; borrows
money and does not pay back, is a potential
wrong guy. It is different when the debt he owes
is a one-off thing and he is making serious effort
to pay back but when it is a habit, watch it.
There are some men out there who take loan
from people or banks for business or investment
but end up using it to buy flashy cars, and live in
exotic apartments, wear expensive clothes and
jeweleries, etc . Before you commit to
him, research his credit rating or else your
wedding party will be glamorous but you would
inherit so much debt when you are finally
married to him.
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9) Never get married to a man who does not
respect constituted authority but delights in
breaking the law. His actions might land you and
your kids in prison one day. A guy who does not
have respect for your parents or your relatives
may hardly respect you
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10) Be weary of a guy who see you as an
alternative to his dream wife! Marry a man who
sees you as his number one and not a
consolation for missing another lady out there.
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You are fearfully and wonderfully made! You are
loaded with great potentials and decked with
splendour!
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You are the radiance of God’s glory, the apple of
His eye! Therefore, let no man take you for
granted! Any man that will ask your hand in
marriage must meet God’s standards of a REAL
MAN![/b]
