D rate at which marriages collapse now is assuming
a
social status symbol in our society. In no-time,
people will
be throwing divorce parties and invite friends n
well-wishers
to celebrate their divorce anniversaries; they will
choose
aso-ebi, hire a hall and popular musicians & what
have you.
Even a question like "So when are u getting
divorced?" will
become common. If u know u can't handle the
weight &
pressures of marriage, pls remain single. If u don't
know
what marriage is all about, pls remain single until u
do. If u
are getting married because of the things u desire
or hope to
gain from the other person pls remain single. If u
know u
can't be faithful, remain single. If u can't endure
insults
from one another, pls remain single. If u can't
forgive one
another's wrongs, pls remain single. If u can't place
ur
spouse above every other human being, pls remain
single!
Don't get married out of desperation. "All my friends
are
getting married" is d most foolish reason to get
married! If u
desire a successful home, but ur choice of friends
are
forces not to reckon with, think again. Be very
mindful of
where you go for advices, Many would give, but not
many
mean well! Guys, if u know u can't put ur wife
ahead of ur
ego, pls remain single till u're mature. Ur wife is
your
priority and EVERYTHING else including u, comes
last. You
are d teacher, d guide, d bodyguard, d role model -
u are not
a deity or God. So do not expect to b worshiped. U
need
respect, earn it by being responsible! Ladies, if u
know u
can't be submissive pls don't go into marriage so
u're not
turned to a punch bag! If u know u can't stand being
corrected, pls remain single. Mr/Mrs I know it all!!!
Ladies
check ur domestic scorecard - if ur score is 0, pls
stay in ur
parents' house! People, pls make ur marriages
work. Read
carefully and share it with others. It doesn't matter
if u are
Married or Not. Marry for love, marry ur friend,put
God 1st n marry me because of U LOVE ME....
