Men do a lot of things
to try and attract
women. Some of them
work, and well, some
of them crash and
burn. The problem is
that most men really
have no idea what
women find attractive
about men. This is
what leads them to
shooting in the dark
and hoping for the
best.
To really get your
attraction levels
soaring you have to
know what women
actually find attractive
about men, all the
time, not some time.
Take the guess work
out of attraction.
1. Dominance – Women
absolute love
dominance in a man.
Now this doesn’t mean
you walk around like
the best thing since
sliced bread and chain
your woman to the
stove, but it does
mean you are in control.
You take control, you
command control and
your control is incredibly
attractive to females.
2. Confidence – Similar
to dominance,
confidence will make
women swoon over
you. They adore the
alpha male that stands
in front of the line. You
can’t be the little puppy
that just falls in line. Be
sure and proud of who
you are, confidence in
yourself and what you
do is what will reel
women in like the catch
of the day.
3. Relax – Women really
like it when you seem
calm and relaxed. Now
this doesn’t mean you
need to pop a Valium
before talking to a
woman but it does
mean you need to take
a few deep breaths
and just cool it. When
you appear relaxed
women will take notice
at how cool calm and
collected you are.
4. Hygiene – An
incredibly important
and yet overlooked
part of attracting
women is hygiene. Yes,
appearances are
important, they are
what shows the world
how you care for
yourself. Poor hygiene
shows that you don’t
respect yourself and
that DOES NOT attract
women. It’s also
important because I
don’t know a single
time when two people
met eyes across a
crowded room and said
“Wow he looks smart.”
5. Be Fun – When you
are the “life of the
party” everyone
INCLUDING women
want to be around you.
They see fun people
and automatically
assume they will have
fun being around them.
Now being fun can be
anything from being a
social butterfly to
always having a good
time no matter where
you go. No matter
which suits you BE FUN
and women will
respond.
6. Be Positive – Being
happy will really attract
great attention. No one
wants to hang out
with a gloomy Gus, so
if you’re moping around
you are not going to
attract women, in fact
it will be the antithesis
of attraction. You will
push people away. You
will find them turning
and walking the
opposite direction
rather than engaging
you.
7. Be Generous – Being
giving is a good way to
get female attention
and it will be very
positive attention. This
doesn’t mean kill your
bank account trying to
be the cool guy that
gives everything
anyone asks for, but it
does mean you
shouldn’t shy away
from offering drinks,
food or something that
will help them at that
moment. Giving will
make you appear to be
the care taker and
women love when men
take care of them.
8. Be Chivalrous – As
much as people say
“Chivalry is dead” it
doesn’t mean it can’t
be revived. And trust
me women will eat it
up like the last box of
Chunk Munky ice cream.
Open doors for them,
pull chairs out and be all
around a knight in
shining armor. Chivalry
is NOT dead and it will
win women over time
and time again.
9. Be Spontaneous –
Spontaneity shows
excitement and
women don’t want to
be a part of a
humdrum life. Women
love spontaneous acts
of passion and
romance. They love it
when they are
surprised and when
you keep things
interesting no woman
will be able to resist.
10. Show Commitment
– Before you freak out
and have a heart
attack this doesn’t
mean you should get
down on one knee and
ask the girl to marry
you. It just means you
need to show her you
are capable of
commitment and you
don’t shy away from it
like most men. Women
love when men can
commit and showing
her you can, will lock in
your position at the top
of her list.
