Ultimately, s*x is about
love and intimacy, so while
the positions are part of the
fun, the real payoff is the
way
various maneuvers allow you
to connect and explore each
other in different ways.
1. Woman on Top: Ask your
guy what drives him crazy in
the bedroom, and we’re
betting he’ll say it’s pleasing
you. This sexy position puts
you in the driver’s seat, and
that’s exactly where he
wants you. Take advantage
of being in control and set
the pace according to what
you like, leaving his hands
free to roam. The bonus?
He loves having your curves
in full view…so flip on the
lights and give him a show.
2. Missionary: This standard
go-to is a favorite because it
puts him in control, while
still being intimate: your hips
are free to do all the work,
and you can lock lips and
eyes with ease. And while
he’s in the power position
on top of you, the two of
you can set the pace
together. If you want him to
go slower or deeper, put
your hands on his hips and
guide him. The best s*x is
like a conversation, and
missionary allows you to
communicate with your
bodies.
3. Reverse Cowgirl: This
reverse variation of
the woman on top position
is the best of both worlds
for your guy. It gives him the
sexy view he gets during
doggie style but it puts you
in control. This position
doesn’t allow for a ton
of touching or eye contact,
but it’s a nice contrast to
some of the more classic,
romantic positions. If you’re
craving a connection flash a
look back at him while
you’re doing your thing—it’ll
drive both of you over the
edge.
4. Doggie Style: This rear
entry positions puts him in
control, allowing him to call
the shots and to go at the
speed that’s best for him.
Plus, it allows for deeper
penetration, making him feel
like king in the bedroom.
Some women love the
intense full feeling, but if it
feels like too much, let him
know. Communication is key
to enjoying s*x and
experiencing the full
psychological benefits of
physical intimacy.
5. Standing Up: Getting it
on while standing up is
probably not your go-to
move, but it’s perfect for that
sweaty, gotta-have-you-now
s*x that’ll make him feel
irresistible. Whether he’s
bending you over the new
kitchen table or you’re
steadying yourself against
the wall, this spontaneous
position is perfect for a
quickie.
6. Spooning: s*x while
spooning is the
ultimate intimate position,
and a go-to for when you’re
feeling lazy and affectionate.
Not only does it give him
total access to your body, it
also frees your digits up so
that you can give yourself a
hand, a move that’s sure to
drive him wild. Make it even
hotter by twisting your body
and head slightly towards
him so you can smooch
while his hands roam.
Afterward you can slip into
an easy, snuggley sleep.
7. The Lap Dance: Pull up a
chair and have him take a
seat while you get on top.
He’ll love the look and feel of
you straddling him, and
having you in control will
help him last longer, too. A
bonus? Unlike the standard
woman-on-top position, this
ones allows for you to stay
super close, kiss, and make
eye contact. Plus, he still gets
to be aggressive with his
hands, tugging on your hair,
rubbing your back, and
pulling you closer.
