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VIRGINITY ACT

VIRGINITY ACT

By Gracy in 29 Aug 2015 | 14:39
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But why is it that only girls are asked to keep their virginity? What about the men eeh????????

I have read a lot of acticles, post and comments that talk about girls keeping their virginity, and some guys even insult those that are not virgins. But my question is this: is it only girls that are meant to keep their virginity? What about guys?

And again how will a lady be able to keep her virginity when guys are always asking for sex then turn around and insult her for losing it or been a slut?

It is not only women that are expected to be pure, guys should learn how to keep themselves pure as well.

You want a lady to be pure yet you won't stop demanding for sex. If she refuses, you try to make her weak in her defence. Yet you will come online or elsewhere and shout about girls keeping their virginity till marriage ... ARE MEN IMMUNE TO VIRGINITY? Guys stop asking ladies out and even when you do and we accept to date you, don't ask us for sex. Help us to abstain from sexual intercose til marriage and stop putting the whole virginity and purity struggle on us alone cos CHASTITY IS MEANT FOR BOTH!!!!!!!!
29 Aug 2015 | 14:39
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you are right my dear. it's bcos there's nothing to detect their own virginity.
29 Aug 2015 | 15:02
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Hmmm i wil lik 2 no wot pple wil say about dis won.
29 Aug 2015 | 15:04
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I like this post,men oya cum and answer sharperly
29 Aug 2015 | 15:53
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Yes i strongly agree 2 dis.........nt only girls re meant to kip dia virginity,even d bible says premarital sex z a sin!
29 Aug 2015 | 16:58
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Uhmmm seriously...its funny how d society in general expects so much 4rm d female folks.... Nd gives no thought to d men.... Diz men re d ones dat will say sex is d backbone of relationships....nd dey will still be d ones looking 4 virgins.... Dey re eager 2 av sex...but dey want dia women 2 be pure...dey discuss freely among demselves how dey had sex with dia partners (to dem its an achievement)..whereas its absurd seeing a lady talk abt d men she has slept with.. Comon! We re humans too... My belief is dat...a guy dat cnt abstain 4rm premarital sex has no right 2 accuse any lady who is nt pure...nd he has no right whatsoever 2 seek 4 a virgin... I think d job is left 2 d ladies... When a guy ask u 4 sex..nd u knw u re nt ready...tell him 2 fuck off... If he wants u.. He will come back nd wait 4 u...if he dsnt..den he never deserves u....
29 Aug 2015 | 17:09
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Always remember dat the women folk came from men
29 Aug 2015 | 17:15
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The men are superior and nature also designed it xo
29 Aug 2015 | 17:16
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true talt.. Bt u can still identify guy dat are nt virgin bt the proccess is Funny
29 Aug 2015 | 17:16
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Sori ladies bt u gat to abide by it
29 Aug 2015 | 17:16
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I reali lik dis post.U r on point @tenniebenson,I wantd 2 lik ur commnt bt I can't find *like* so I decided 2 comment ur comment.
29 Aug 2015 | 17:18
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Virginity; is not for only the girls to keep. But the issue is when you talk of virginity, the feminine are the good people to use in illustrating the topic
29 Aug 2015 | 17:20
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True talk
29 Aug 2015 | 17:38
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Hhmmm...... U ladies got ur flaws also, u get deceived easily... (Those Wit Fish Brain) Some turn real bitches afta their first experience. Others want it 'coz their friendz nd mates are doing it. Guyz don't really like to disvirgin galz they don't av future planz for. They mostly go 4 the bitches to take our share. I Can Only Advise Virgins To Abstain From Sex. Being a virgin can also be a disadvantage to ur future husband.... 'coz u lack the experience to satisfy him. (That's Wat I Tink, Am A Good Guy Tho). *Winkz*
29 Aug 2015 | 17:58
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Ehn ehn... @mecuze What stupid superiority is dht..u guys go abt fucking girls nd when it's time for y settle down u will be looking for 'pure wife material'.. If u go abt fucking girls.. where will virgins be found or will d hymen broken be replaced??? Ladies!!! A guy tells u 'let's seal our relationship with sex' u immediately agree..cnt you be determined to keep ur innocence for d man who will value you?? We Africans are imitating d whites who thinks sex in a relationship is a normal thing..u will hear them say 'today is my birthday nd I dont want to be a 16 year old virgin'... they do not gv a fuck abt virginity.. Ladies!! Wise up..do not open ur legs for just any man!! And @vict-vames.. Do you wanna tell me dht if u ght married to a virgin you won't be happy?? U will be d one to evn put her through..so leave satisfying awt of dis..being a virgin has NO disadvantages to her future husband!! D ones dht become wild in bed..were they born like dht?? No!! They were once virgins..They experienced sex.. Hardly will u see virgins above the age 13.. Evn some below e.g 5,8,9,10 are either raped by their FATHERS or neighbors..
29 Aug 2015 | 18:20
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Hmmm what can i say? oya girlx mo na tie your rapper well put 21 pants and be wearing trouserx when going on a date lolx i think it wil help.
29 Aug 2015 | 18:32
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Leave dem, if a man cnt kip himself pure let him nt look for a virgin simple! Cos one cannot plant a mango seed nd expect it to bcome an apple when due for harvest
29 Aug 2015 | 18:46
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Leave dem, if a man cnt kip himself pure let him nt look for a virgin simple! Cos one cannot plant a mango seed nd expect it to bcome an apple when due for harvest. Keepin ones virginity is gud for both folks
29 Aug 2015 | 18:47
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no offence but while a man is lyk a bee which is supposed to collect nectar from diff flowers a woman is lyk a flower which is supposed to give nectar to only one bee
29 Aug 2015 | 19:23
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Life Is All About Choice, If A Girl Choses Never To Have Sex Till Marriage, Fine! But If She Acts Otherwise Maybe She Is Been Pressured By Her Boyfriend To Do It, Still It Is Still Left For Her To Chose Either To Complie Or Not, If She Ends Up Losing It. It Is Still Left For Her No One Is To Be Blamed For That Becaus It Is Her Decision. Don't Blame The Guys Please
29 Aug 2015 | 19:32
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seriously, is it all guys that ask for sex as d writer claims? HELL NO, if a guy ask u for sex and u accept, it means u want it before, u are only expecting him to make d first move. apart from that I don't see the necessity of being in any kind of relationship when u are not ready for marriage, u are in 200lvl & u be a partner, what's d chances of getting married in future? such relationships are more of a complete waste of precious time. personally, I think it is better not to get married rather than marry a half- used person. its better to be wise cos u share a covenant with whoever u have sex with & it will affect ur future family.
29 Aug 2015 | 19:38
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Virgin or no virgin. . Being a virgin to me is a personal decision. . I am nt a virgin bt i havent hav sex b4 o mind u, i dnt xpect my sis to b a virgin too coz i didnt show her d way. . .nice protest there. . Am behind u. . Men mak una try kip una sef holy. . .nice post
29 Aug 2015 | 19:39
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@flamerous u ar not a virgin but u haven't av sexxx, u funny sha well I dey holy ooooo, but u know naw..........temptation, wen u c a gal putting on a gown not up to ar laps....... abeg with invitation show b DAT,........ so make u na no blame we guys, if u gals b does eleha,... we go c plenty virgins
29 Aug 2015 | 20:23
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*Clear throat#
30 Aug 2015 | 02:09
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hmmm,what can i say here,when d Bible has say it all d Bible said and i quote" a bed undefile is honourable b4 God"
30 Aug 2015 | 03:24
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@phinebraim wat are u saying.... Marrying her makes me happy already. I'd marry her 'coz i luv her. Her being a virgin is a bonus, 'coz i wont be expecting dat.
30 Aug 2015 | 04:52
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Wooow...
30 Aug 2015 | 05:32
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Dnt ght me wrong @vict-vames ..m nt saying marrying her doesn't make u happy..sure it does.. Bht when u find awt she is a virgin, ur nt gonna be sad abt it either.. Bht the statment m opposing is 'she won't be satisfying in bed' Or why would I keep myself pure just for my husband to tell me m nt satisfying in bed??
30 Aug 2015 | 05:51
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@phinebraim I waznt speaking for mysef abt dat,,,, its wat some guyz i heard said... As For Me, I'm Gonna Appreciate It.
30 Aug 2015 | 06:49
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Sure @vict-vames..
30 Aug 2015 | 07:32
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uhmmm....@gracy its not wot u tink, we can explain..
30 Aug 2015 | 08:14
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am just watching o
30 Aug 2015 | 10:37
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Lol start explaining o @crusher As a matter of fact... D ball is in our (ladies) cot.... If u re nt ready 4 sex.. Dnt let one pencil leg dude come nd deceive u... If he thinks sex is d answer.. Tell him 2 meet his sisters... Or better still he shld drive 2 hell or give d nearest transformer a bear hug... No guy can force me into avn sex with him.. No matter how much I claim 2 love him.. If he cnt wait he shld get lost... I cnt imagine myself opening my laps 4 a guy nw nd opening it 4 anoda guy aqain when married.. Even if I will marry d first guy.. He has no ryt 2 see my laps fah.. If I dnt knw anytn abt bedmatics... I'll learn ova tym... Its really disgusting avn sex with more dan a man in ur life tym... @Vict-vames no worry u go teach me wella
30 Aug 2015 | 10:38
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@tenniebenson i don teach u already na, remember?
30 Aug 2015 | 12:10
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Well every sensible lady shld knw wen to open her laps for a guy at d ryt time and i mean being married. I don't and can't see myself jumping from one man to another mehn its disgusting wen i knw we might not end up forever, o boy park one place no show 4 u. Some ladies shld learn how to zip up cos i dnt blame d guy who will ask a lady for sex and she gave in and den d dude later dumpd her, i beg na d girl carry her body give am sake of say na love dey shack her or she need money. Dudes wen u can't keep that tin that is inbetwn ur leg one place whr u go see virgin? In all everybody shld zip up.
30 Aug 2015 | 12:11
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gals stop forming saint here ooo... ah ah wot is dix sef dnt allow me to open our dirty secrets here i knw why i am saying it...
30 Aug 2015 | 12:17
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@Vict-Vames lessons no dey too much... U av 2 keep teaching me.. @Crusher I can't speak 4 all... But I can speak 4 my self.. I'm still very intact... Nd I'm proud of dat...
30 Aug 2015 | 12:35
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Hmmm,true talk.U wnt gal dat's pure i.e a virgin gal 4 urself yet u re continue fucking anoda gal. Whereas sex is nt luv,is jst an element of luv.Things are nt lyk this be4 in the olden days but nw everything hv change everybdy re jst talking about CIVILIZATION(Olaju de)
30 Aug 2015 | 12:41
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Abi o tenniebenson.am also proud of myself.fuck any guy who can't wait cos sex is nt luv
30 Aug 2015 | 12:46
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Ehn @crusher .. No one is forming saint kwa.. We are just saying the truth.. @tenniebenson ah dey ur back jawe.. Some virgins these days are ashamed of saying they are still intact..
30 Aug 2015 | 13:09
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Abi o @phinebraim i dnt knw 4 does who always ashamed of being a virgin 4 me.am proud of myself nd i will continue to be proud of myself.am nt ashamed.
30 Aug 2015 | 13:30
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Na true talk [email protected] here
30 Aug 2015 | 13:37
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Abi [email protected] will never be ashamed of who i am.
30 Aug 2015 | 13:40
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@tenniebenson more teaching?? Oya be prepared 2nite!!
30 Aug 2015 | 14:21
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@Vict-Vames teach Rennie wella ooh *wink*.... *clears throat* now I don't av anything relevant to say @phineBraim @tenniebenson and the rest have said it all..... everybody should zip dats the truth of the matter, dis sex thing is all about self respect and self discipline coupled with determination... its hard to abstain but keeping the temple of God holy is supposed to be every youths priority... funny enuf all this guys dat go about bleeping girls don't want same for their sisters. @Blitz just come here dey give us bee and blah blah blah theory 4gt dat thing dis virginity issue is for both gender
30 Aug 2015 | 15:53
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if u re really proud snd ur numba nd locaton so dat i cn cum to ur room nd check if u re intact notin more notin less
30 Aug 2015 | 16:18
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No doubt, this is just the basic fact. Some men can't just hold themself, always urging for s#x. Some men just believe women are s#x machine. Some men want nothing from their girlfriend than sex. Some ladies are to be blamed also, some are truely s#x machine. Ladies should let men know they are not sex machine. Say no to premarital s#x. Men should also be aware that what ever you does, you shall surely get the reward, you will also be a father. #leggo
30 Aug 2015 | 16:55
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Hahahah @crusher craay dey ur head ahswear ... If u don confirm finish u go return am?
30 Aug 2015 | 17:59
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See as our ladies dey para for here ooooo. Ladies don't u know dat A padlock dat open by many keys is a badlock, but a key dat can open many padlocks is a master key. But wait ooo can we see a virgin on dis site? Hmmmm i tink is only God can answer dat my question even coolval cannot answer it lolsss, The worst part of dis matter is dat if u ask dis our ladies here abt how dem lose their virginity u will here many dirty trash story, some lose their virgin wen dey are was 10, 12yrs. It's difficult for a girl to lose her virginity but it's more difficult to keep herself after losing her virgin. Ladies u are making a very big mistake by comparing urself with men, ladies don't u hear dis man song Chief Commander Ebenezer obey (oni okunrin le laya mefa koburu, eyo okunrin kan soso loluwa mi yan fo binrin) meaning a man can have six wivies isn't bad is only one man dat God choose for woman, lastly ladies control ur pecus.
31 Aug 2015 | 02:33
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Is like coolval22 is a virgin community,,dat means am definitely going to marry here,,,,,,hmmmmmm
31 Aug 2015 | 05:40
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Yes it supposed to goes to ladies cos if u are a virgin dere is always an evident but for guys no evident even if he tells u dat he is a virgin u won't believe cos dere is no evident am a lady nd I know u understand what I mean
31 Aug 2015 | 07:17
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Av heard all wots bin said.. okay o, men una hear mk una ma stay pure n stp blaming gals 4 bin unpure n not a virgin.
31 Aug 2015 | 07:47
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Hahahahah.... Which kan post b this nah? Anyway in whatever case I adore every gal I've seen and I will always respect them whether virgin or non-virgin... I can even marry a prostitute if eventually I fall in love with her but y do gals always use d action of one guy to present all guys... Common there are some good guys. Anyway, my gfs are those who'll request for it and how can I spit out a sugar and I won't stop respecting gals because of some bitches... Nope Gals, it's time for change... Good post tho
31 Aug 2015 | 08:49
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Some ladies here be forming 'V'...... Chai! Mysef na 'V' so no lon tin. I Nearly Believed Them But My Wifey @Tenniebenson Still Claims To Be Intact After All Our Practicals.... smh CHICKS ARE WEIRD...
31 Aug 2015 | 09:38
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@tenniebenson.... of cox ah wil bt u wil Neva remain d same
31 Aug 2015 | 12:35
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I totally agree wit u.men also learn hw to control urself
1 Sep 2015 | 06:20
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@Unclesam i dnt need u 2 believe my "crap" as u chose 2 address it... Its really none of ur biz if i'm intact or nt..cos u cnt find out.... Nd becos d gals u've come across ren't virgins dsnt mean virgins dnt exist.... Cos i talk dirty here dsnt make me a loosed girl... U cnt judge me by what i portray here cos u dnt knw me..nd u wont even knw me.... Leave dat 2 my husband to find out...i'm nt after anyone believing it....
1 Sep 2015 | 12:18
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@Vict-Vames u wan dey broadcast our private displays here ni? I will bite u nw
1 Sep 2015 | 12:20
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Hmmm this zerious. @ Tennybenson, do not blame d guys on dz cos 99% of d ladies ar nt forced by de guys to loose dia vaginity rather they wilinly do by widen their legs to d guys. If they Zip Up no guy wil Zip it down
5 Sep 2015 | 12:16
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Precisely Virginity is for ladies nd not guys ok. So They got to keep wot they got
5 Sep 2015 | 12:26
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**clearsthroat**. M here n Shout out to ala'em here... Wel.... um Virginity is 4 both sexes b it male or female and avin said dat it is quite ironic wen u see d so called "loose gals" are d ones dat are usually VIRGINs and d ones dat forms "HOLY-HOLY" are as wide as a well. Some guys dat usually brag about how many gals dae av straffed sometimes are usually novice in dat aspect. I sometimes get angry wen i hear dudes mad dat if dier wives aint virgins wen dae get married all hell will b let loosed wen dae demselves av lost count of gals dae av opened dier cookies.... buh b dat as it may, imagine how devastated a man would b afta KEEPING himself til marriage only to find out dat his so called "VIRGIN" wife aint a virgin after all.. BOTTOM LINE: being a virgin [male and female] ghat NO side effects! Buh itz a shame dat emphasis is laid only on d FEMALE FOLKS
15 Sep 2015 | 05:20
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hmmmmm.......wat can i say.... men n women alike should keep their virginity..SMH...they don't Even know that its a convenant.. u enter into a convenant once u have sex with your partner....guys wise up.. girls zip up....#Teamsaynotopremaritalsex#ion care wat u think....kisses to d virgins in here....
17 Sep 2015 | 19:15
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Hahahahahahahahahahahah Mr Crap (UncleSam) & Miss Crap (@Tenniebenson) Funny thing.... It's a choice not force "to believe one's word or not".... UncleSam deh speak from experience, Tenniebenson deh speak for her own sef.....both team con face each other.....well, its all good to know oneself, no matter what you heard or see/witness, you can still be yourself... . . . I swear ah deh laugh sowtey ah deh shed tears join cause of all the comments here expecially @Crusher own.....haba.... Abeg, @Gracy No come cause trouble for here jhor.......
29 Sep 2015 | 10:10
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Hmm, nice talk
5 Oct 2015 | 10:23
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God richly bless you. Am happy to read this. Thanks
8 Oct 2015 | 02:15
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